When A Sagittarius Man Ghosts You

Me: Pisces sun, Aires moon, and a TON of aqua placements

Him: Sagg/Scorp born on the cusp. Dont know his other placements

I will make this short, I was briefly seeing a sagg man about 10 years my senior and originally I wasnt too interested because he was not my type, but there is something about older men that got me. Best kisser hands down and I know intutitvely he is good in bed (no we have not had sex), he is a scorp/sagg born on the cusp. He wined and dined me in the beginning, loved to talk about a range of topics: politics, music, travel, work. I consider myself quite intelligent and knowledgeable and I felt intimidated by his cultured persona and knowledge.
He is very masculine, and I also like that too because I am a pisces and love the partnering of male and female energies. I love to feel like I am the woman and a man to feel like the man and the protector. We are not bf and gf, in fact he told me straight up he doesnt agree with titles and i gathered given his history as a playboy (several baby mamas). Why I even gave him a chance, i dont know..something to try, I guess.

We only saw each other for about a month before things got f'd up. He started getting really deep really fast, telling me a lot about his trouble upbringing and inmade the mistake and followed his lead. I became vunerable and shared some heavy stuff about my childhood. From the moment I opened my mouth I knew I f'd up ahaha...terribly so...i dont even know how i was so stupid, normally my Aires moon and aqua placements keeps my sensitive pisces self in line. Anyway he disappeared for about 2 days after telling me he wouldnt, yes i asked him if he would disappear and to at least be upfront. I hate games. That was probably the worst thing to follow up with after being vunerable with someone who clearly is spooked.

When he reappears to text me, he disappears in the middle of the text. He tried to make it sexual (i iniated the flirting but he took it to a completely different level by looking for some sexting pics...i coyly declined). He stopped textng me. About a week later, he called me and left a vmail but no message. So the games begin.
I dont call him back because after a week of nothing from him, he calls, leaves a voicemail but has no common courtesy to leave a message. Fuck that! My Aires moon and self respect refuses to play into his game and make myself even more vunerable. So I have not called back. And so the silence between us continues.

In my mind it is over. I scared him away. I was stupid and allowed myself to be tol naive and vunerable. Leson learned for sure. I will grow from it. But I just want to know what gives, why can he be honest and vuberable with me but I cannot with him? Whats up with Saggs? I am not being clingy and i suspect he though if he ghosted on me I'd chase him but he thought wrong. Unfortunately, I am sure he is gone and all I can think is fuck, that man would of gave me some serious life in bed! Ughhh fuck! Lmao

Yes. So every astrology blog says. It also says we arent good with Aries but my ex for 3 years was an Aries and I love the fire signs. I have no problem giving you all your space and independence. And prefer the blunt, blantant honesty, a lack of transperncy freaks me out.

So I dont believe that. Every individual chart makes it too complex to say off the back which signs and signs can and cannot work.

Hi thank you for replying to my post. I appreciate your honesty, yes once I opened up the thrill was gone. I just dont think it is fair for him to lead with intensity and me not the same but trust me, NOW I get it and wont be stupid to do it again.

Aww thank you ^_^

Lmaooo. OMG just your final statement gave me life. But I haven't gotten ghosted in the middle of courting until just recently by a Sagittarius. Usually I date them and eventually we know it's over, so then we break up mutually, they go away and do their thing, and then try to show up in my life like 5 months later. I'm a Gemini Sun Sagittarius moon btw. I really don't understand the ghosting thing even though it's my moon sign because they always turn right back up with me. if I ghost you that's it I'm done I'm not coming back. and I honestly can say that there is nobody who ive returned to... who I left. But yeah basically the same thing except I met him online and then we went out to eat. I paid for my meal on our first date I think he really liked that. And then a week later he wanted me to come over so we could talk about a sexual relationship because I've never had sex but I was interested in possibly doing it with him. But once there he kept looking at my lips and it's like you could tell in their face so of course we started making out. I stayed over and slept in his bed nothing happened. then the next day he said he wanted to be friends. Then he disappears off the face of the Earth for a week after I sent him a long heartfelt text message saying I agree that we should remain friends. And just now literally 5 minutes ago I came back home because he needed me to take him to a concert that's right down the street from where I live even though he has a friend who lives in the same apartment complex as me who could take him. luckily for me I didn't look all desperate to see him. I was actually coming back from a friend's place and arrived after him. He kept asking me where I what I had done for the week and where did I go. but I turned it back around on him and asked him what he did instead of giving him any information. he tried that 3 times. Hes my friend I shouldn't need to give them that information right? Lol. Two can play that game.

But honestly it's like a game to them. I'm a grown-ass woman I don't need to be playing no damn games. The Sagittarius who are in a relationship it just baffles me because Id like to know what their partner did to get them in a relationship. My dad's a Sagittarius but he's 43 years old so you know he's run his course. I can honestly kind of relate because it's like once I know I have you I don't want you because if it's that easy then it might be that easy for somebody else. My first love with a Sagittarius. I'm not going to say he was narcissistic but he did like to talk about himself a lot. Maybe that's what you're a Sagittarius is into? But IDK girl keep yourself busy while he's away he'll be back.