Why all the Questions—

So I've known this sag guy for a tiny bit. (went to same highschool but never spoke)

talked to him online things were going ok until i was joking about something and he didnt seem to have a sense of humour (not that matched with mine anyways) then it started with hey (then some random indication that he wanted me for one thing only)
and my response was always "nope" so eventually he deleted me. only to add me again a few days later and then again same deal deleted me again. i was like k whatever. i did tell him i dont deal with tantrums in which he had laughed before deleting n blocking me.

Anyways. i guess i was at the same location he was at one day - didnt notice it was him til after.
so the next day he says hi to me on msn. was away from the comp said hi when i got back then he went offline.
next day says hi to me again. i responded he asked how i was etc. finally i asked why he was talking to me. (not in a snobby way just in an im curious way) he said i was on his account so he figured he'd check in and see how i was doing.
really strange as previously he acted like such a jerk. and this time he was really patient n calm and pleasant. and surprisingly funny. i asked why the change he said he guessed he just grew up. (within a few months? mmmm... i dunno)

anyways he started asking me about me. i told him a bit. finally i asked him why he wanted to know. he said he just wanted to know more about me. i said why he said he just wanted to get to know me. so finally he did ask what kind of guys i date.
i told him. we ended up talking about other things. then back to him asking me questions.
and i said wait how is it i said i wanted to kno more about you too yet it always gets turned around to where im answering all the questions and i still dont know that much about you. he said ok so ask. but my mind went blank.

From being a jerk at the beginning (our first talks werent very pleasant) why has he calmed down and turned nicer?
he said something about he finds it interesting. i asked how so? he said how is it not. he did say i seemed very honest.
our talks were over 3-4 days once i said hi to him first and the other times he said hi to me first.

I know nothing about sag's!

O_O but whats it mean! lol. is he just curious to know what makes a person tick?

he did get nicer. he did mention i seemed scattered and lost. (I've heard this said about gemini's ... the scattered part)
I do find myself more drawn to air signs (my moon is in libra) and im a virgo. my mom (cap) seems drawn to fire. i mentioned this he said i probably follow in her footsteps. O_O
though i do get mistaken for a gemini or a taurus often. so far his charm does seem to be working buuut i know me so im always cautious cuz i always end up getting burned somehow. (They usually come back when they realize others wont treat them or do as much as i have) buuut after getting burned so much i want someone who's got their stuff together. so its easier to know if he just wants in my pants or he's just curious orrr something else. as i react d8ifferently depending on what it is.
as he does every now n then throw some random dirty comment in there. in which i usually tell him naw he can keep his where it is.

Posted by WynterBourne
Well, I guess you've heard that Sags are flaky? 😛

When I first meet up with someone that I'm attracted to, sometimes the first instinct is to bolt. It's kind of like "no no! I don't want to get too serious right now!" and then run off. But then I remember the interest, and go back and take a second look.

He sounds interested in you, I'll bet he just gets nicer. 🙂

haha! "no no, i dont want to get that serious"....

hmmm lemme go take a second look at that new sweater in the window....yeah i'll take it

I've never known a sag to act that way o.O

At least I'm not that way. We don't like burning bridges. I'm surprised you readded him again. Guess he knew he could delete you and you'd take him back 😛

Sagi's are fun friends. Definitely keep him as a good friend 😄 We also get along well with virgos, or at least I do.

Well i did have one Sag fling. he was great we'd talk about a lot of stuff and just check in to say hi every now and then. he had lots of useful info.

I have more of a "if you dont wanna talk to me thats fine, if you do then k go ahead. just for once make up your mind"
If they wanna take off i wont go chasing after them.

I had asked about him previously everyone told me he was really nice n laid back.
I told everyone iiii didn't think he was cool. lol. (not a surprise i usually dont follow the crowd anyways)
he's answering questions now. but was giving me the run around when we first met.
He's being really polite now though. because so far most of our recent talks have been online
so i can't see his body language or hear his tone of voice.

Though I tend naturally suspect people when they go from jerk-ish to really nice.
not so much when it's the other way around. ... either that or when i feel someone might be into me
it ends with me thinking "Wow am i ever full of myself - they're probably just nice like this to everyone"
im usually not wrong but during the time i brush it off. (i tend to ignore hints unless they directly
tell me straight out these days - otherwise i might end up mixing myself up)

from what i read you guys just like to date many? or at least not settle for one?
are sag's chasers? the more it seemed that i said no previously he'd still returned ... usually for more no's ...

ah just did his chart. his rising is Aries!!! now it makes sense when i suspected he was an aries.

His moon is in Gemini. (Mine is in Libra)

His:

Sun Sagittarius
Moon Gemini
Mercury Sagittarius
Venus Scorpio
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Pisces
Saturn Sagittarius
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Capricorn
Pluto Scorpio
Lilith Cancer
Asc node Aries

(might be a lil off as im not sure of his exact birth place)

He's a Sag with a Gem moon...of course he doesn't know what he wants.
Poor thing

Is this common? - he tells me im scattered n thats why he stopped talking to me the first time.
he said maybe he's wrong. talked to him on the phone last night he said no i guess you really are as lost
and scattered as he first thought. but apparently "that's ok you can always learn" or something of the sort.
i heard his point of view of how the world works. (in my opinion its not me who's lost and confused! but i just said ok to it its his point of view so whatever) if i was as scattered as he claims i am ... wouldnt that make him NOT wanna talk to me instead of continuing to talk to me? o.O - apparently he says he knows what he wants. apparently i dont know what i want
and thats why im apparently all over the place (which is the opposite of what people have said about me) though I do know i do tend to sit on the fence (indecisive quite a bit as i tend to look at both sides of the situation before finally deciding) so not sure if he's mixing that up with me being scattered.
is this one of those "she's lost n helpless maybe i should be a hero and save her from herself" kinda things?

With a venus in Scorp? Pshh

Posted by Reason

Posted by Sagittarius89
With a venus in Scorp? Pshh

you've been noticed too 🙂

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Posted by piranhaparadiise
this is a guy player thing...a guy that probably has a string of women left right and centre...this is their tactic to get girls curious and wanting more...

He's already got you curious...but he is only after one thing... typical player behaviour....

Don't fall for his *change his way* bs talk...it's talk to get you into bed...

he deletes then re-adds then deletes and so forth...not because he is nice and wants to get to know you but because he wants to stir your mind and
it is working...

watch this one...cut him loose

Thank you!!!
i actually had a friend pick that up this morning. I couldnt figure it out until a friend pointed out "he looks like a player not the type to have just one" and i was like yeahhhh!! THATS WHAT IT IS!! i knew i'd seen that look of his before. one of my close friends has the same one and he's just like that.

I did notice the mind games. as my ex use to play them .... but not like this ... but yeah i did notice he'd leave after i'd say no to his advances. i had a suspecion thats what he was after but he wouldnt admit it!

T.Y. =]