Why are you annoyed? I didn't do anything to you!

So I go to the back of the store today to fold shirts and the sag is there on his break. I didn't want it to be awkward so I was talking to him a bit. He was acting cool and everything, a bit tired.. And then I mention his friend and ask how he's doing. (This is a guy who we've both hung out with together and he was really cool with him) I mention something about him being a really good artist and he made a remark about him being gay and how he's always trying to hang out with him and his bff and kicking his dog. To which I responded with "are you a pathological liar?" He didn't respond, but I don't remember him ever hurting his dog. No I don't think he was jealous of this guy. It's like it totally turned a switch on him tho. After that he didn't initiate any conversations. He talked to other people, but not me unless I were to talk to him.

Last weird thing..

Theres another girl who works with us. She's cool.. not that good looking so she's not a threat. Anywho, she was talking on the phone next to me during my break and the sag comes to the back and sees us. He doesn't say anything to me and just starts bugging the other girl, asking her who shes talking to and whining her name. Then he leaves. She leaves, and he comes back. He stays for a little bit, I don't look at him, he doesn't say anything and leaves..

He's the one who doesn't know what he wants... does anyone know what to make of this? He seemed, annoyed/tired/upset..

Really I have no clue what is going on so if anyone things they have an idea please speak now...

Posted by enni
lol..is he bored? does he like to annoy people? .........................as for the last part, probably he wanted to talk to you but..it just didn't happen lol?

i dunno

Idk..I thought he was tired...and why would he come to the back just to bug someone... he didn't even get anything to take back onto the floor. He bugs people sometimes yes.

He wanted to talk to me? I don't think so? if he didn't wouldn't he just..talk to me?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ you mentioning the girls looks.
You sound threatened no matter how you stack it up.

yeah the girl doesnt have to be good looking to be a threat. but anyone who takes the focus of your love interest is a threat to a scorp moon.

hes being a playful sag with the girl, probably some mild flirting. i remember in the beginning you and him you to be playful 2 and then it stopped.

i think hes the typical sag. im guilty of being into the chase and after i get what i want, i move on. i would like to be friends with the other person, but i resist for awhile until im sure that they arent going to get "wierd" on me.

let him warm back up to you. start being more playul with the other people in the office so u wont send off a wierd vibe. youll be sending out a playful vibe.

then, i wouldnt bring up anything about the sex or hanging out or whats been up with you lately. let him start the convo, thats if he wants to.

be prepared that what your looking for is not what hes looking for.

Wait he just ignored you?? Or did you ignore him??

Posted by DMV
i think hes the typical sag. im guilty of being into the chase and after i get what i want, i move on. i would like to be friends with the other person, but i resist for awhile until im sure that they arent going to get "wierd" on me.

let him warm back up to you. start being more playul with the other people in the office so u wont send off a wierd vibe. youll be sending out a playful vibe.

then, i wouldnt bring up anything about the sex or hanging out or whats been up with you lately. let him start the convo, thats if he wants to.

be prepared that what your looking for is not what hes looking for.

Thanks, I think you're right about him making sure I'm not going to turn weird cus I do the same thing. I've been flirting with most of the guys at my work. That parts not hard at all.

Haha, I don't wanna bring up the sex or hanging out. I'm just going to leave it at what it is. But I have a feeling he probably felt like I was going to bring it up since we were alone together in the back.

Today he said hi to me first. I was surprised at the happy tone he had. He didn't talk to me much after that, but he did mention something about some shirtless guy who wasn't buff (idk why he felt he needed to tell me about it) because apparently he thought it was funny. I'm okay with us not talking throughout the day as long as he says hi. At the very least I want us to be civil, and if it happens, then hopefully friends again.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ you mentioning the girls looks.
You sound threatened no matter how you stack it up.
aybe the Sag was just being mardy ?
If he works in a (clothing?) store he's bound to be menstruating a bit ! 🙂

depends on what your idea of threatened is. When I feel threatened I will keep an eye on the two people and I feel very jealous. I didn't feel that with this girl.

lol @ menstruating. What the glob?

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet
lol@ you mentioning the girls looks.
You sound threatened no matter how you stack it up.

yeah the girl doesnt have to be good looking to be a threat. but anyone who takes the focus of your love interest is a threat to a scorp moon.

hes being a playful sag with the girl, probably some mild flirting. i remember in the beginning you and him you to be playful 2 and then it stopped.

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Him and I used to be playful before we started seeing each other. Then after we did it I did that thing I always do where I wanna run and I didn't want attention from him the next day at work. He had already talked to me prior to us working that day about how he used to bug me and he told me he wouldn't bug me as much so I wouldn't get tired of him. I'm glad he pulled back on the bugging because I was slightly smothered and if he had done it right after sex I probably would have ran.
So since we had that talk he's been giving me space. The space now is most likely due to what you were saying in the other post tho... he doesn't want me to go all weird on him. I've just been mirroring what he does mostly. But damn I got the worst/best? image today of the first time we did IT and my body literally burst into electric flames. Sheesh, I haven't felt that since that one cancer guy and my leo ex...

...needless to say I am very horny right now.

Posted by Sagittarius89
Wait he just ignored you?? Or did you ignore him??

Well, it's not that he ignored me...everytime I started a convo he'd respond. It's just that at some point he stopped initiating a conversation... as did I. It just felt lonely...and awkward. Not at all what we used to have, and I think that's why it bugged me so much is because of the change. Just need a week or to process and get over this.

Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89
Wait he just ignored you?? Or did you ignore him??

Well, it's not that he ignored me...everytime I started a convo he'd respond. It's just that at some point he stopped initiating a conversation... as did I. It just felt lonely...and awkward. Not at all what we used to have, and I think that's why it bugged me so much is because of the change. Just need a week or to process and get over this.

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Yea that sounds like a change. I wonder why

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Posted by happykitsune

Posted by Sagittarius89
Wait he just ignored you?? Or did you ignore him??

Well, it's not that he ignored me...everytime I started a convo he'd respond. It's just that at some point he stopped initiating a conversation... as did I. It just felt lonely...and awkward. Not at all what we used to have, and I think that's why it bugged me so much is because of the change. Just need a week or to process and get over this.

Yea that sounds like a change. I wonder why

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Why? lol because this happened right after he told me he didn't know what he wanted. And I guess he's doing what DMV said. He's prob just feelin' out the situation.

Anywho, I hope some random noob comes to this site and sees the mistake I've made here. Main thing, don't rush, especially with a sag.. what I've learned...we like the chase.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
You're power mad lol.
Want space = get space
Don't f00kin' talk to her though !
Wait no, come bak no want space, want teh sex !
Rinse repeat !🙂

?? you talking to me?