Why do I always have to mess it up for myself?!

This topic was created in the Sagittarius forum by happykitsune on Wednesday, August 31, 2011 and has 24 replies.

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@happykitsune
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Ok...so I haven't messed up anything...but..

I've been seeing my leo for a few weeks now. He's been very sweet and lets me take care of him and I stay over sometimes. Sex is great, always has been for the 4 years we've been having it.

But then I saw my ex scorpio at the bookstore the other day. He goes to the same school as me. Some interesting feelings came bubbling to the top and I felt this need to be with him...

Then I was hanging with my bff taurus tonight and kept feeling like I wanted to just pounce him. Then he kissed me on the top of the head as we were hugging to say good bye and I just melted.

Also, my ex sag at work and I started talking again on good terms and I ended up having a dream about him the other night...while I was sleeping in my leos bed.

WTF?! why am I feeling this way about all these guys when I have the one I've been wanting for over four years now?!

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Its funny but i have a theory about men and women. They can't be friend because there is always one or the other that has more than just platonic feelings for the other person which is why the maintain the "friendship"

They are always hoping...for more...maybe that's where the excitement lies for you.

Have fun like you are and don't worry about your mind wondering you're human- you are just running over all your options- while you decide to really open up to this leo

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Posted by Pikachu81
Its funny but i have a theory about men and women. They can't be friend because there is always one or the other that has more than just platonic feelings for the other person which is why the maintain the "friendship"

They are always hoping...for more...maybe that's where the excitement lies for you.

Have fun like you are and don't worry about your mind wondering you're human- you are just running over all your options- while you decide to really open up to this leo

+1

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Posted by Pikachu81
Its funny but i have a theory about men and women. They can't be friend because there is always one or the other that has more than just platonic feelings for the other person which is why the maintain the "friendship"

They are always hoping...for more...maybe that's where the excitement lies for you.

Have fun like you are and don't worry about your mind wondering you're human- you are just running over all your options- while you decide to really open up to this leo

I like this answer and I think you're right.

Obviously the other three are not options I will explore for obvious reasons. Me and my leo are just taking it slow so I'm just going to keep at what we're doing. I enjoy being with him and these other things are just thoughts of lust as far as I've concluded.

Thanks everyone for the replies. I guess I really am just a scatterbrained sag πŸ˜†

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Aaahhh kids.

1 sag dreaming of another sag while sleeping with a leo..what do you think of that? πŸ™‚

HK's dilemmas are always funny (no offense HK) ? πŸ™‚

Thanks.. -.- I guess at least my problems are causing some humor

I dont think threesome would be a problem ..after all its only a dream πŸ˜›

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Haha oh if only. I'm content with my leo tho.

Poor lion got sick so I took him some teas to help his immunity. I love playing nurse n.n

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Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
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Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Aaahhh kids.

1 sag dreaming of another sag while sleeping with a leo..what do you think of that? πŸ™‚

HK's dilemmas are always funny (no offense HK) ? πŸ™‚

Thanks.. -.- I guess at least my problems are causing some humor

I dont think threesome would be a problem ..after all its only a dream πŸ˜›

Haha oh if only. I'm content with my leo tho.

Poor lion got sick so I took him some teas to help his immunity. I love playing nurse n.n

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pssst..next time place an half cut onion under his armpit overnight..simple yet effective trick ;P

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Posted by piroglesic
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by happykitsune
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Posted by piroglesic
Posted by everevolvingepithet
Aaahhh kids.

1 sag dreaming of another sag while sleeping with a leo..what do you think of that? πŸ™‚

HK's dilemmas are always funny (no offense HK) ? πŸ™‚

Thanks.. -.- I guess at least my problems are causing some humor

I dont think threesome would be a problem ..after all its only a dream πŸ˜›

Haha oh if only. I'm content with my leo tho.

Poor lion got sick so I took him some teas to help his immunity. I love playing nurse n.n

pssst..next time place an half cut onion under his armpit overnight..simple yet effective trick ;P

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Lol wtf... what kinda old wive's tales are you tell me? hahaha