Why do sag males completely ignore your texts?

Why do sag males completely ignore your texts?

This sag guy told me he has got through all the tests to go back in the RAF, but doesn't know if its 100% what he wants to do!
I've messaged him giving him my support and told him I want to be with him and even though we ain't together I would be willing to move nearer where he will be based and want a relationship with him. Told him if he wants me I will do anything for him, but if he doesn't want me I will walk away.
Why do guys just completely ignore your messages and not give you a reply? Feel I'm being fobbed off and toyed with

Your way too invested and coming off clingy. Stage 5 Clinger alert which is why he isnt responding.

Should I tell him I'm walking away?

Or should I just keep as I'm doing - not texting him unless he texts me?

Ignore the last post and stop because all you're doing is trying to manipulate him if you do that...which is about your ego and you'll definitely lose us.

Be patient but also confident and peaceful. I know you meant well but you came off as clingy and maybe a little selfish. The text came off as insecure because to us a strong woman is gives those things once the relationship is established and not before. The deeper meaning, he knows that what you're offering comes at a price he's not willing to pay at this point and its not unconditional.

Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

shit i missed that part about her moving closer to him. thats retraining order territory

Posted by DMV
shit i missed that part about her moving closer to him. thats retraining order territory

I definitely caught that part as it happened to me with a Pisces I was interested in. I was getting ready to move to a new place and she didn't ask...but told me she was moving in with me. Um no and I distanced myself after that

Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by DMV
shit i missed that part about her moving closer to him. thats retraining order territory

Damn it! I just busted out laughing in my quiet ass office......lol

She just wants to be close to him....like hand cuffed and chained together.

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uh oh.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by DMV
shit i missed that part about her moving closer to him. thats retraining order territory

I definitely caught that part as it happened to me with a Pisces I was interested in. I was getting ready to move to a new place and she didn't ask...but told me she was moving in with me. Um no and I distanced myself after that

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hahaha some guy wanted to move in with me and i damn near lost the ability to breathe.

Posted by SUT3point0
I find the problem with a lot of women is that they want to give us benchmarks and shyt like that. Instead of letting things just take course and unfold organically.

well sag men arent the best at being CLEAR with their intentions and all that charm and kindness gets people hooked, including myself.

like i said, the other person has to be clear with themselves and not allow themselves to be so moved.

i do agree that people want to lasso a horse BAD.

Posted by Crustacea

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

Ohhh shut up fucking Sag.
I don't have any problem with you guys but you're certainly not relationship material and it's sad to see someone give so much with Sag males when they aren't even about that life when it comes to relationships.

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i detect some animosity

Posted by Crustacea

Posted by beautifulsoul74
Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

Ohhh shut up fucking Sag.
I don't have any problem with you guys but you're certainly not relationship material and it's sad to see someone give so much with Sag males when they aren't even about that life when it comes to relationships.

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You shut the guck up and the you whiny side walking ass back to the cancer board. You definitely aren't relationship material as nothing satisfies you. You just keep taking and taking. She didn't ask for your opinion. She asked us. So if your going to post here as if you're one of us be prepared to be countered. If you can't take it, don't dish it out and stay in your shell.

Posted by SUT3point0
That's why I'm leary of showing women where I live. Im a stalker magnet and I just think it would end badly a lot of times. A few chicks I didn't have that problem with though. But the other ones were nutty.

talk about stalkers. you got that Venus n Scorp 2! your right to be careful of telling people where you live, trust and believe they will show up unannounced.

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Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

Ohhh shut up fucking Sag.
I don't have any problem with you guys but you're certainly not relationship material and it's sad to see someone give so much with Sag males when they aren't even about that life when it comes to relationships.

You shut the guck up and the you whiny side walking ass back to the cancer board. You definitely aren't relationship material as nothing satisfies you. You just keep taking and taking. She didn't ask for your opinion. She asked us. So if your going to post here as if you're one of us be prepared to be countered. If you can't take it, don't dish it out and stay in your shell.

Now this here is animosity.
Lol what did I take from you my little cupid?

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you started first with that language. his response was appropriate

Posted by SUT3point0

Posted by DMV

Posted by SUT3point0
I find the problem with a lot of women is that they want to give us benchmarks and shyt like that. Instead of letting things just take course and unfold organically.

well sag men arent the best at being CLEAR with their intentions and all that charm and kindness gets people hooked, including myself.

like i said, the other person has to be clear with themselves and not allow themselves to be so moved.

i do agree that people want to lasso a horse BAD.

That's because we don't have intentions generally. LOL Our intention is to see what happens and that's about it. Tomorrow we may feel totally different about things.

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The biggest problem with that Sut is if you don't have intentions...there's no direction and guess what...you end up with anything...those that don't have direction either. Drama queens and insecure types who try to make you they're husband within the first week. Spiritually speaking...that's fair. Like attracts like and if you have no intentions or direction you'll attract the same.

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Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

Ohhh shut up fucking Sag.
I don't have any problem with you guys but you're certainly not relationship material and it's sad to see someone give so much with Sag males when they aren't even about that life when it comes to relationships.

You shut the guck up and the you whiny side walking ass back to the cancer board. You definitely aren't relationship material as nothing satisfies you. You just keep taking and taking. She didn't ask for your opinion. She asked us. So if your going to post here as if you're one of us be prepared to be countered. If you can't take it, don't dish it out and stay in your shell.

Now this here is animosity.
Lol what did I take from you my little cupid?

you started first with that language. his response was appropriate

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Exactly DMV. Thanks

Posted by ellessque
I'm not even a sag or a man, but I will tell you why I'd ignore your text messages like the plague.....

I came at you with this....

This sag guy told me he has got through all the tests to go back in the RAF, but doesn't know if its 100% what he wants to do!

....and you came back at me like this.....

I've messaged him giving him my support and told him I want to be with him and even though we ain't together I would be willing to move nearer where he will be based and want a relationship with him. Told him if he wants me I will do anything for him, but if he doesn't want me I will walk away.

you made his problem all about you. you made yourself more important than the issue he was dealing with. very selfish.

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Ding ding ding! We have a winner!

Posted by Sagtastic1

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Posted by SUT3point0
That's why I'm leary of showing women where I live. Im a stalker magnet and I just think it would end badly a lot of times. A few chicks I didn't have that problem with though. But the other ones were nutty.

talk about stalkers. you got that Venus n Scorp 2! your right to be careful of telling people where you live, trust and believe they will show up unannounced.

Girl, I totally forgot about that!!! Hell yeah he's gonna have have stalkers and crazies because he withholds so much. When I met my ex (A Sag sun with venus in scorpio) he had this girl out side of his house acting all kinds of crazy saying she was going to tear up his car. I don't know why a big ass red flag didn't pop up then.

He met his match with me, I am a QUEEN detective and found out all his little secrets. He felt so violated but I was going to get to the truth with or with out him.

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sometimes it takes someone like us to set us straight.

@Sut: experience has taught me that you don't see the real them until you make your intentions known. Why waste time...yours and theirs. They either step up or don't. You find out faster

Mars in Scorp makes you secretive too but its actually exalted

@DMV: I've had some crazies too lol. I've hag a cancer propose in a week. Then the Pisces chick I told you about and you didn't want to know about the gems lol

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@DMV: I've had some crazies too lol. I've hag a cancer propose in a week. Then the Pisces chick I told you about and you didn't want to know about the gems lol

hmm lol, i know all about you sag men. Ive been with one for over 3 years and i am still obsessed with one i met recently. i was ready to walk down the aisle with the last sag but i came to my senses and realized i was just a piece of ass to him.

now that i think about it, he was pretty clear with his intentions, but it wasnt what i wanted to hear. i wanted to change his mind.

i didnt get too far lol

Posted by DMV

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@DMV: I've had some crazies too lol. I've hag a cancer propose in a week. Then the Pisces chick I told you about and you didn't want to know about the gems lol

hmm lol, i know all about you sag men. Ive been with one for over 3 years and i am still obsessed with one i met recently. i was ready to walk down the aisle with the last sag but i came to my senses and realized i was just a piece of ass to him.

now that i think about it, he was pretty clear with his intentions, but it wasnt what i wanted to hear. i wanted to change his mind.

i didnt get too far lol

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I feel ya. Here's the kicker DMV...a lot of the crazy shit that has happened to me happened without me even sleeping with them.

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by DMV

Posted by beautifulsoul74
@DMV: I've had some crazies too lol. I've hag a cancer propose in a week. Then the Pisces chick I told you about and you didn't want to know about the gems lol

hmm lol, i know all about you sag men. Ive been with one for over 3 years and i am still obsessed with one i met recently. i was ready to walk down the aisle with the last sag but i came to my senses and realized i was just a piece of ass to him.

now that i think about it, he was pretty clear with his intentions, but it wasnt what i wanted to hear. i wanted to change his mind.

i didnt get too far lol

I feel ya. Here's the kicker DMV...a lot of the crazy shit that has happened to me happened without me even sleeping with them.

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ahahahahahahha +1

i think is the scorpio in you. we dont even have to sleep with these people to get a stalker.

i do agree with Sagtastic, girls dont wake up crazy..if you clear from day 1, you will get different results. you may get less ass but you also have less stalkers.

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Posted by SUT3point0
We totally Bogarted this thread LOL

LOL, I was just thinking that. She got her advice on the first page; it's pretty simple.

Leave it to a Sag to move on to the next.

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Indeed

bwahahahahah

Posted by DMV
i do agree with Sagtastic, girls dont wake up crazy..if you clear from day 1, you will get different results. you may get less ass but you also have less stalkers.

Yeah and it's more peaceful

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Posted by beautifulsoul74

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@DMV: I've had some crazies too lol. I've hag a cancer propose in a week. Then the Pisces chick I told you about and you didn't want to know about the gems lol

hmm lol, i know all about you sag men. Ive been with one for over 3 years and i am still obsessed with one i met recently. i was ready to walk down the aisle with the last sag but i came to my senses and realized i was just a piece of ass to him.

now that i think about it, he was pretty clear with his intentions, but it wasnt what i wanted to hear. i wanted to change his mind.

i didnt get too far lol

I feel ya. Here's the kicker DMV...a lot of the crazy shit that has happened to me happened without me even sleeping with them.

ahahahahahahha +1

i think is the scorpio in you. we dont even have to sleep with these people to get a stalker.

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I'm going to find a beautiful Scorp and run up, hug, kiss her and thank her for these wonderful placements. Saved my ass plenty of times lol. Sags and Scorps my two favorite signs

Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by SUT3point0
I like this Sag 4 way we got goin here ( no semi homo)

No need for "No Homo" it 2 guys and two Ballin A $ $ women......lol

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Yes ma'am. But I wouldn't know about 4 ways as I'm just a little ole country boy _??

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by SUT3point0
I like this Sag 4 way we got goin here ( no semi homo)

No need for "No Homo" it 2 guys and two Ballin A $ $ women......lol

Yes ma'am. But I wouldn't know about 4 ways as I'm just a little ole country boy _—

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Do tell... 😉

Posted by Tamia

Posted by beautifulsoul74

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Posted by beautifulsoul74
Not ignore your posts Feby...the one before yours lol

Ohhh shut up fucking Sag.
I don't have any problem with you guys but you're certainly not relationship material and it's sad to see someone give so much with Sag males when they aren't even about that life when it comes to relationships.

You shut the guck up and the you whiny side walking ass back to the cancer board. You definitely aren't relationship material as nothing satisfies you. You just keep taking and taking. She didn't ask for your opinion. She asked us. So if your going to post here as if you're one of us be prepared to be countered. If you can't take it, don't dish it out and stay in your shell.

Oh wow. Funny how your saying that up on here. lol

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Tamia...I'm not gonna be your dope pusher anymore. Giving you the response you need to keep going on your downward spiral.

Posted by DMV

Posted by beautifulsoul74

Posted by Sagtastic1

Posted by SUT3point0
I like this Sag 4 way we got goin here ( no semi homo)

No need for "No Homo" it 2 guys and two Ballin A $ $ women......lol

Yes ma'am. But I wouldn't know about 4 ways as I'm just a little ole country boy _—

Do tell... 😉

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_—Can't spill the beans...that's "exclusive territory"

my brother is also a sag does that too sometimes I'm like HEY F U lol idk why

It's not because he's trying to hurt ur feelings, he's just busy probably, or he has nothing to say, or cuz texting is boring! sags just don't feel the need to keep texting randomly about things ! Just don't take it personal he probably does it to every1

Text etiquette, as long as he takes to reply, you also take that long to reply once he responds. It's hard to do, but if you want someone chasing you & speed up the process, I've learnt this works... It's hard not to text, but I've started doing this & my phone is now blowing up constantly with messages. Try it 🙂 make a cuppa, don't respond instantly x

Idk why. Sag women do the same. They probably have nothing to say or they don't feel like responding. Maybe he got the text late and felt it was too late to respond. Or maybe he doesnt like you that much. Whatever the reason, I'm sure its not that dramatic.. Just relax.