About a Sag

I find they are really cool, and most I meet I admire...but nothing ever seems to stick between us (Cancer and Sag). I post in the Scorpio lounge because I feel like there is a magnetic attraction between Scorps and Sags, and I can get feedback in a language I can understand (emotional).

What makes them tick and how do they tick, what is it that makes them that dislikes a Cancer.

Why can't I sense depth in their emotions? I know all humans feel...but I am left with a perplexed feeling when I try to ponder how they feel while around them.

If a Sag runs by this, no offense intended from not asking directly. Feel free to drop a line.

My uncle is a Sag, and a hard working one, I have a lot of respect for him but can't muster up anything to say around him. Almost feels like he doesn't like me though I don't think that is the case.

Well usually a sag isn't going to sugar coat and drop a much of mushy crap on you to make you feel like we like you. That is sort of way rude.

If we like you we will tell you. Nice and simply usually.

We are emotional people too. What can't you pick up on?

Posted by Sagittarius89
Well usually a sag isn't going to sugar coat and drop a much of mushy crap on you to make you feel like we like you. That is sort of way rude.

If we like you we will tell you. Nice and simply usually.

We are emotional people too. What can't you pick up on?

I suppose I don't know exactly...emotional yeah I can see it...but when the radar signal is sent out for a ping, at first it seems like a wall is up that keeps from the signal from traveling to deep into the emotional state of the Sag. Then I became curious if there is just not the depth I am expecting. Maybe more like an emotionality that doesn't seem to pool too deep before it lets go and collects on another topic.

As a Cancer I feel like all I do is collect and get ever so deep in my thoughts because everything has a significant frame of reference, but one Sag I met didn't seem to like experiencing any emotion too deep. Hating to cry or talk to long on any one thing.

Is it rude to want to be so sensitive to others and want to know how to walk around them before they can tell you how to walk around them (according to a Sag)? Should I just not worry about what is not said? Anything I need to know I will simply be told?

saggis are real good at hiding their emotional side under the fascade of humor....


just spark up a convo about a book, world crisis, and maybe even a crude joke

I don't believe it is always about allowing. Sometimes it takes a good deal of focus to get off of the emotional track I am on. I envy the ability to say "fuck it, shit is how it is"...I am in Zen practice with it. If there is ever a trick to it, I am seeking to obtain it. 😛

Sag love fo sho. I just like to learn, though ways I try to ask a seem trivial to a Sag most of the time..."who cares, move on" is a common vibe I get.

Posted by Pandybear
why is this on the scorp board 😛

I thought maybe a another water sign could share great insights with me because of their magnetic attraction to Sags, but I learned more from the Sags themselves when I posted a similar thread on the Sag boards. They are so delightfully straight forward and honest.

Any other Scorpio perspectives are welcome though, since Sags and Scorps seem to get a long so famously 🙂

Well I am dating a Sagg and it can be very hard to read them because they joke a lot to not feel or express their emotions, but when they love you as a lover they start to open up and when they do it is well worth it. Like my Sagg he was aloof at first but now he says "I Love You," "I miss you," he gets upset when I don't call him or txt him after so many hours but it has taken a while to get to this point.

However I don't know any cancers but they don't like people who are overly emotional since they are not built this way, I think the scorp/sagg pairing works because scorps we don't show our emotions all the time and we or at least I feel I need a person to work for my love so a relationship with me doesn't come easily and Saggs they like the chase they need to conquer you.... Now with the emotions part scorps we hide ours a lot and sometimes Saggs need to see this, so this issue is the main problem in the relationship they have to know you care and feel you care but without being very very emotional.

Posted by CarbonMonoxide
ImpressMe is right on the money.

I prefer to cry or grieve in private, so as not to be draining to the people around me.

I mean, really....who wants to be around a selfish, emotional vampire, who allows their inner state to affect the lives of others?

Not me.

🙂

I suppose it is the ability or "choice" of holding back or compartmentalizing that I am fascinated with. Usually emotions surge from me like a tidal wave I and my body is simply along for the ride. When I try to hide I feel as if the emotion is pouring out from my eyes.

I try to step away before any negative emotion engages into full throttle out of respect...but to hold back is almost painful.