@haffo
21 Years5,000+ Posts
I suck at acting so when im pissed im pissed but i am willing to forgive people which isn't supposed to be a scorp thing,something was done to piss me off.But actually most of the time people don't know im angry when i am by always trying to keep a cool head about it or just get silent all together before resorting to saying something,kind of a lets see if it will pass first type thing.If you mean that we aren't really mean and violent people on a day to day basis when nothing was done then that is true yes.
Well, yeah! When someone is angry they're just angry. A lot of people tell me to calm down or stop exaggerating, but no, I am pissed when I get pissed. So you keep thinking these people are "pretending to be angry", I mean some might be, but I highly doubt it. Not because they're Scorpios, but because they are human. Do you pretend to be angry sometimes? Is that why you think they're doing it too?
I noticed many times in real life with Scorps that they become angry in a moment and act qulite relaxed when speak with me after 2 minutes in place where no one can see them. I think their co ruler Mars makes them partially bluffers as it do Aries all the time.
"when speak with me after 2 minutes"
Not like I make them relaxed. But that they are acting relaxed when no one sees them and I havent said anything to them yet. And its only 2 minutes passed from hot moment.
"So Haffo, are you saying that Scorpios don't really get angry. If a Scorpio even begin to look angy, it is probably just an act? so when a Scorpio gets angry, you probably should take it seriously?"
Taking them no seriously will unconsciously make them assault you. That is the point of their anger "to make you take them seriously". They are not acting violent according to the real point of the situations. They just want you take them seriously.
>>I noticed many times in real life with Scorps that they become angry in a moment and act qulite relaxed when speak with me after 2 minutes in place where no one can see them.
Maybe because they are by themselves and had time to calm down in those two minutes.
When people are mad it's because they are mad,actually i've acted not mad as a bluff more than acting mad to have people take me seriously-actually never had that come to mind at anytime in my life except when it comes to work and such but that doesn't involve getting mad just annoyed(they're too used to me playing around most of the time),I don't have to worry about that due to people get very uneasy around me when I am mad in a bad way and try to avoid it happening.You are either not the person who they are mad at,they are acting like they've gotten over it,are calming down,etc.When your away from people it's a very good time to start calming down when you are mad-breathing space and no annoyances(people) around.
" Maybe because they are by themselves and had time to calm down in those two minutes."
They are like boxers. They fight first raund, give a break and then continue on second one. Those Scorps are same. They fight first round, come and show themselves relaxed etc and then fight second round(!)...wtf?
stubborn little bugs is what they be,best to bust out pesticides lol.
well if i may add my two cents here, my dad is a scorp and i can honestly say that when he gets mad it is quite a sight, i've never seen such anger in any other person in my life. i swear his eyes can scare the scariest of the demons- no kidding. he's got incredible control but don't push him when his eyes start to warn you.
hey virgogotme you've got an interesting chart. only three signs rule you how neatly weird 🙂
when we're pissed, we are truly pissed..no going back...hell hath no fury like a scorpion woman scorned..or man..lol
soothing or not soothing..we are very real when pissed..no amount of smoothness is going to calm us down..we do it in our own time..be it 2 mins, 2 days or 2 months..
Bran..maybe to you we appear sloppy..I thrive on pressure..its when I am at my best..I am the firestarter, twisted firestarter :-P
Brrrrran (in a flirtatious manner) where are the emoticons?
hahaha...soooo true!..I need to attend anger management classes..but I don't see it as anger..its a form of passionate expression..
^ Hahahah.
"its a form of passionate expression"
LOL that's how I put it too! that is exactly how it feels, good way to put it missmorals... except that I'm still not understood... i tried to put it that way to my bf once (not in those exact words but i told him that it was passion on some level) so that he didn't feel so disturbed afterwards but he just called me crazy 😢
LMAO @ Tauruschic...Yep same thing with this cappy guy I am talking to..he's "unnerved" lol...it IS a form of exppression, I don't usually mean the obscenities I shout at him when angered..lol..not my fault, he can't see the fun in anything..boring git..
hehehehe..
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My personal experience in that department with Scorps shows that most of the time when a Scorp is angry and violent its only a make up. Not reality.
What do you say people? Do you feel like you make up your behaviours when angry or really feeling like acting truly in that way?