annoyed with everyone lately

is it just me?

I'm sick of trying to be nice to people. I've decided that if anyone comes at me I'm coming back at them. done being passive and trying to have nice social graces!!!

my Aries third dominant is gonna come out. I'm sick of people trying to walk on me and also point fingers at something they made up in their own head when I never said what they think or assume.

I had an altercation with this Cap guy who kept hitting on me (he's a friend with all our group of friends) and he wouldn't stop. I finally hit the breaking point and said "will you knock it off" and normally I'm really all about the social graces...Libra rising...can't help it, so he laughed and it seemed like he thought I was joking. no dude. I wasn't. so he kept at it. and even went so far as to bite the top of my head...like no. I told him to stop touching me, and he continues to do it. so sick of people not taking me seriously just because I'm usually nice.

I told my Aries best friend about it, and she's like "well everyone thinks you're so nice. you have to put your foot down sometimes. you can't let people walk on you. I'm not saying being nice is a bad thing, but you need to act like a bitch sometimes or people will take advantage of you"

I'm irritable af. my current transit is moon square Saturn and moon square Chiron. maybe that has to do with this too.

I'm so sick of being walked on. I'm going to speak my mind from here on out. insult me, I'll come at you. disrespect me, I'll come at you. I've been "the doormat" for far too long.

Posted by Koniucha
Bite the top of your head?

I would have slapped him

I think he was trying to kiss my head but somehow ended up biting it. I think THAT was an accident but at that point I said no again. we went on a booze cruise so he was drunk but he constantly makes the moves on me, and it's so annoying. I've told him "I'm not interested in you" and he's so persistent.

my Libra friend said it was my own fault for inviting everyone at once, but we're all friends! idk. it was my fault. I should've known to not say it in front of the cap.

but overall I'm usually so NOT confrontational. in other words I think he assumed I was having fun with it? idk maybe thinking I was playing hard to get? honestly I don't know, but I think I'm usually so nice that no one believes me when I'm angry

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Cheers to that.






Start standing up for yourself. You told the guy no and he still wouldn't leave you alone and stop touching you.

Those are grounds to get fucked up.


You do come off as a kind and chill person, but you don't deserve to have people walking all over you. That's not ok.

yeah! I don't know why the hell he didn't get the picture. it's like he thought I was joking. lol no. definitely not a joke.

yeah it takes a LOT to get me to snap. usually. I'm good at the whole social graces, diplomatic type of shit. but I have my limits and I've hit them. and my life lesson since my NN is conjunct my Mars is being more assertive. I feel it coming.

that really made me realize that I can't play nice anymore. at least not 24/7. I'm ready! lmao

No offense, but - being nice and - being a dormant (the equivalent of a doormat - since that could imply that - you let people walk all over you) - are two different things. Completely.

Posted by neves
No offense, but - being nice and - being a dormant (the equivalent of a doormat - since that could imply that - you let people walk all over you) - are two different things. Completely.

I meant it more in regards like normally I never say no to people and do anything people want in order to be nice but at the same it's the equivalence of being a doormat in that if people ask me to do something I'll do it in order to be nice.

sorry I was being pretty vague

Posted by BullShit
Breathe in Breathe out

Let the anger go, and be like water



*no it doesnt zoom out more*

I want to be the hurricane

How can you be annoyed with everyone lately when all i see on your opening post is you being annoyed by one person...a capricorn.


The way you topic the subject make it sound like you're so annoyed with people in general.

If you wanna be annoyed by everyone be annoyed by everyone.

Posted by veryimportantperson
How can you be annoyed with everyone lately when all i see on your opening post is you being annoyed by one person...a capricorn.


The way you topic the subject make it sound like you're so annoyed with people in general.

If you wanna be annoyed by everyone be annoyed by everyone.

lmao true 😆

I didn't want to make the post a mile long though. but people as a whole have been putting words in my mouth and I just kind of let them do it like whatever. that type of thing. but the Capricorn really put the icing on the cake so I just elaborated on that.

unless everyone on dxp really wanted the whole diary of my life these past five days

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

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Posted by Koniucha
Bite the top of your head?

I would have slapped him

I think he was trying to kiss my head but somehow ended up biting it. I think THAT was an accident but at that point I said no again. we went on a booze cruise so he was drunk but he constantly makes the moves on me, and it's so annoying. I've told him "I'm not interested in you" and he's so persistent.

my Libra friend said it was my own fault for inviting everyone at once, but we're all friends! idk. it was my fault. I should've known to not say it in front of the cap.

but overall I'm usually so NOT confrontational. in other words I think he assumed I was having fun with it? idk maybe thinking I was playing hard to get? honestly I don't know, but I think I'm usually so nice that no one believes me when I'm angry

Your Libra friend is wrong.

No means NO. Period.


You can invite him out every single day and if you say "no" he should respect that. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't even have to say it more than once. The first time you firmly told him "no" and "stop", he should have respected your wishes and left you alone.

That's like blaming a woman for getting raped because her skirt was too short. "Well maybe if you didn't dress so sexy he wouldn't have wanted to rape you"...NO. Just no.

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yeah at first I was really pissed by his comment but then tried to rationalize it.

hence why everyone is annoying me lately. everyone has those little comments that annoy me. BUT I didn't say anything to him. I just kept quiet. now I kind of feel like raging and fighting back when people make those snide little comments.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX

Posted by degenerate_ingenue

Posted by Koniucha
Bite the top of your head?

I would have slapped him

I think he was trying to kiss my head but somehow ended up biting it. I think THAT was an accident but at that point I said no again. we went on a booze cruise so he was drunk but he constantly makes the moves on me, and it's so annoying. I've told him "I'm not interested in you" and he's so persistent.

my Libra friend said it was my own fault for inviting everyone at once, but we're all friends! idk. it was my fault. I should've known to not say it in front of the cap.

but overall I'm usually so NOT confrontational. in other words I think he assumed I was having fun with it? idk maybe thinking I was playing hard to get? honestly I don't know, but I think I'm usually so nice that no one believes me when I'm angry

Your Libra friend is wrong.

No means NO. Period.


You can invite him out every single day and if you say "no" he should respect that. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't even have to say it more than once. The first time you firmly told him "no" and "stop", he should have respected your wishes and left you alone.

That's like blaming a woman for getting raped because her skirt was too short. "Well maybe if you didn't dress so sexy he wouldn't have wanted to rape you"...NO. Just no.

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operation fireball commence.

I haven't talked to the Libra since. the Taurus we were with annoyed me too but we're already getting along again. overall it was a failed "fun night out" lmfao

Just buy a burner and start slayin mofos. Much more enjoyable.

I think it's the Scorpio moon from last week. I have cut off a Taurus friend who I realized is just a cold hearted miserable person (also has cap moon lol). Then my gem friend I am keeping a distance from. I have lost all patience for people ✌ðŸ½

I come off friendly and bubbly but I sort of have a "keep your distance" body language. So guys hesitate not sure what to do. Im not a flirt sexually. But my Venus in Scorpio draws certain types in. Darker types. Those type tend to project their own sexual attraction towards you onto you. Sounds like your Capricorn too.
Its weird. I have a friend who I was initially intimate with but then we stopped. Every once in a while he tells me I still want him. Its like he needs affirmation that he is desired by me.🙄