Any chance of winning her back (Page 2)

Im sorry but if someone blocked me on social media (or anywhere) id just move on. Life is too short for mind games.

No it doesn't feels like sh1t you're right maybe I'll just leave things be and see if it is just some space she wants and see how things pan out after a while

Since you are referring to this as a game let me help. You are losing. Right now, because your texting and getting no response, because you're blocked (showing me that you are obsessing over her twitter) you are losing the game. You need to step back and gain composure. You're making yourself look foolish trying to make her suffer. It's sad and she's noticing it. If you just move on and be happy on your own, she'll respect that. She may even talk to you to see why you aren't bothered anymore. Therefore, you "win."

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you also didn't answer how you are seeing what you are seeing after the text messages if she blocked you on twitter.

She has not not blocked my phone number, she gets my texts and posts a response not to me but on her Twitter which is an indirect to me

Oh yeah, this weird behaviour.


Just use the 2:1 rule that Scorpio women on here taught me. Put in twice the amount of effort over the one period of time she felt slighted. I.e. in your case put in two weeks of hard time.


They come back around. The Scorpio that didn't speak to me for years this year asked me for my number and we are all good again.

Honestly all the other stuff about "regret the day you ignored a Scorpio woman!" is just aggro talk here, it's baloney. Everyone comes back around eventually. You just have to both be in the right frame of mind to be ready for it.

I'm willing to put in the effort but you know if you put in the effort and the other person is not interested you'll just end up feeling worse

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This lets us know you probably didn't put in much effort to begin with. You already told us that. You can't diss a Scorp and then expect them to be open or nice to you.

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Im sorry but if someone blocked me on social media (or anywhere) id just move on. Life is too short for mind games.

+1 Then again I'm not 19 years old. :/

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I'm 27 and would do the same.

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She was obsessed with me in the beginning, messages every hour of every day, hints on Twitter, deep poems and gave all the signs she was in love with me

this is what annoyed me when I first came into your thread ^^^^^^

think back. did you post something on some social feed where she could have seen it? about all the attention you were getting? objectifying her and her feels?

this happened to me once and I immediately cut the guy off because it was extremely disrespectful to me.

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This! You play with a Scorp and you get stung. And he says how she was "obsessed". That's probably what he told everybody when he was bragging to them about how he has a beautiful intelligent Scorp on a short leash. Now he probably just wants her back just so he can brag and make a beautiful girl feel rejected. I know his type. She probably really loved him and gave him the world (especially that good Scorp sex) and he probably ruined it with his ways. If she really all that smart and beautiful than I'm sure she could have anybody she wants and I'm sure she really felt like shit for compromising herself for someone who doesn't reciprocate emotions back.

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I've now found out she's back in touch with her ex and giving off the same hints to him on Twitter and leading some other guy along who happens to be her friend

She has used you (and others) to get back with her ex. Forget she is a bitch.

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how many scorpio women go back to their exes?

honest question.

I'm not 19 but I have to say I never have.

As a friend, yes.....and even that is a rare occurence for me and typically doesn't last too long.

Right here. If you got a shot at a committed relationship with a Scorp and then you become a ex....no. Any possibility of something that's real and passionate and emotional is dead and buried. If there's a strong attachment to the Scorp like being together for years or sharing a house or a child than yes they can be friends but that's about it. They had that experience and felt you out enough to kno they don't ever want it again,

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Im sorry but if someone blocked me on social media (or anywhere) id just move on. Life is too short for mind games.

+1 Then again I'm not 19 years old. :/

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Im 24. When people block you out of their lives, even, if it's just social media, thats saying something LOU😱 Go. away.

Loud *

I agree with both Elle and Tizani. If Scorps go back it's because they weren't done. They didn't fully get the whole experience in the relationship so they wonder what it would be like and give it a chance. But for committed relationships that has lost it's passion and stuff they won't go back to that. Saying this to say she probably don't want the ex.

What makes you think trying to provoke jealousy in her is going to "win" her back?
That is such an "air"head thing to think. All it does is make it easier to hate you if there really were any feelings there.

Silly Aqua, tricks are for kids.

dude you won't remember this girl a year from now maybe even 3 months for now. This is not that serious you two were not dating for years or in love.

LET IT GO.

OP listen to the wise. If you want her back and you truly truly love her then you gotta grow up and be the man she needs in her life. If she's got the best grades in the city then I know she has a good head on her shoulders and needs her man to have the same. Learn to stop attacking her and playing victim and really fix your shit. She probably has growing and healing to do too. Playing games, assuming, backstabbing, and not talking to her bluntly all needs to stop and be trashed right away. You need to apologize to her and tell her how you feel and ask the right questions. I can't tell you where her heart is at cuz I don't know her. And I can't tell you how you feel about her and why you do what you do. I can only guess. You might have a chance at getting her but you will never win with a black heart. And it might take a lot of time. I do know of the type of love your in and I do not it sure as hell doesn't fade away in 3 months or even a year. If a Scorp is writing deep poetry and "obsessed" then I know just what that means. (please don't listen to a word octoberbaby had to say she's way off and needs to just sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up). Those type of women only see things in black or white. I read the advice on this website and I lots of people shouldn't be authorized to give advice. Anyways it can happen but you gotta love yourself enough 1st to be able to validate your own emotions and give your heart what it wants. Heal and try again later when you're more stable and loving. When you get there she will notice. Until then stay away from her or you'll make it worse and maybe ruin all chances. You can pm me if you want.

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OP listen to the wise. If you want her back and you truly truly love her then you gotta grow up and be the man she needs in her life. If she's got the best grades in the city then I know she has a good head on her shoulders and needs her man to have the same. Learn to stop attacking her and playing victim and really fix your shit. She probably has growing and healing to do too. Playing games, assuming, backstabbing, and not talking to her bluntly all needs to stop and be trashed right away. You need to apologize to her and tell her how you feel and ask the right questions. I can't tell you where her heart is at cuz I don't know her. And I can't tell you how you feel about her and why you do what you do. I can only guess. You might have a chance at getting her but you will never win with a black heart. And it might take a lot of time. I do know of the type of love your in and I do not it sure as hell doesn't fade away in 3 months or even a year. If a Scorp is writing deep poetry and "obsessed" then I know just what that means. (please don't listen to a word octoberbaby had to say she's way off and needs to just sit the fuck down and shut the fuck up). Those type of women only see things in black or white. I read the advice on this website and I lots of people shouldn't be authorized to give advice. Anyways it can happen but you gotta love yourself enough 1st to be able to validate your own emotions and give your heart what it wants. Heal and try again later when you're more stable and loving. When you get there she will notice. Until then stay away from her or you'll make it worse and maybe ruin all chances. You can pm me if you want.

Thanks for the advice 🙂 appreciated

You know I've spent the better part of today looking into astrology signs hers mine and why we're not compatible and it is scarily accurate what it states

But I also think you can't not be with someone just because of what their star sign states and if you love them and the feelings are mutual then you got to try and make things work

I have feelings for he and can't forget her for now so I'll try my best to make it work and be patient and try and sit and talk to her

If I get nowhere at least I tried my best in the manner which I'll look back and not regret

Posted by FrostAndBite
So much drama.

OP, assuming you're not just projecting negativity onto the situation, so what you got snubbed? Everyone gets their ego bruised time to time, especially when your a twenty something in the dating world. Take your lumps, laugh it off and move on.

Normally I would. But this Girl, she's not one you easily forget. Very rarely do you get a Girl who is like unbelievably beautiful but also unbelievable smart, she's got it all and I want it.

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you have to look at your whole chart, not just your sun sign.

but typically aqua and scorp is a bit hairy because the likeliness they are square is pretty high.

Well accessing to my research lol lots of aquas and scorps have made it work here's hoping this case is an exception to the rule as well

And idk why it states Aquas are emotionless, I don't have a problem talking about my emotions to the right person and to her I don't

Guess I'll need to take a look at my birth certificate to find out the time I was born to find out that info?

I was born on Jan 24th she was born on November 2nd

Sun Aquarius 4??28' Ascendant Gemini 4??30'
Moon Pisces 13??50' II Gemini 25??44'
Mercury Capricorn 17??58' III Cancer 13??01'
Venus Pisces 21??29' IV Leo 1??21'
Mars Pisces 23??02' V Leo 25??47'
Jupiter Capricorn 26??58' VI Libra 6??06'
Saturn Scorpio 26??40' VII Sagittarius 4??30'
Uranus Sagittarius 16??36' VIII Sagittarius 25??44'
Neptune Capricorn 2??21' IX Capricorn 13??01'
Pluto Scorpio 4??42' Midheaven Aquarius 1??21'
Lilith Aries 15??39' XI Aquarius 25??47'
Asc node Taurus 24??53'

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yeah, you need day, month, year and location.

you can use noon if you don't have time, but it won't give you your houses, rising or accurate aspects.....it will give you a general idea though.

It is pretty accurate lol

How accurate is this stuff— :///

House VIII in Sagittarius

Death will certainly be in a foreign land or on a journey abroad. Nevertheless this will happen after a long life, when the body is too exhausted to continue. Easy death.

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aha! I knew you were waterlogged!

now I feel bad for giving you a hard time 😢

Lol, good to know I can use my horoscope as an excuse for my behaviour lol jk thanks 🙂 btw what does that mean, waterlogged? Like I'm an Aquarius extremist of some sort??

And the death part, is that to be taken lightly :/

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How accurate is this stuff— :///

House VIII in Sagittarius

Death will certainly be in a foreign land or on a journey abroad. Nevertheless this will happen after a long life, when the body is too exhausted to continue. Easy death.

8th house always talks about death but it doesn't always have to be about death. Some old school astrologists (and dated text) find this an 'easy' explanation. 8th house is really about transformation and rebirth. Don't freak out.

Plus, if you don't have your birth time, you can't really read the explanation of your houses because they can change over a matter of minutes.

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Will dig up my birth certificate and get a more accurate idea on my birth time, that is a relief lol if foreign land is on my bed in my villa somewhere in the Bahamas I'm all for it but it just sounds scary the way it's stated considering all the other info is pretty accurate

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calm down, pisces moon.....you aren't going to die now. 😛

I say waterlogged because you are an aqua full of pisces. pisces is a water sign. so, yeah, you do have emotions in there. You aren't a whistle!

You can tend to fantisize your relationship a little *too* much. you need to get your feet on the ground and stop stalking twitter. call her. on the phone. no texting. hear her voice, you have enough inherent intuition to *feel* the situation out. then leave it....let her contact you after that....but keep it real and keep it honest. no games. people get hurt when games are being played......you more than her, I'm willing to bet.

Thanks for that. will try and speak to her and tell her how I feel and take it from there

I know playing any sort of game is not the best way of going about things and I don't want to hurt her but it's just that moment of madness when you think like I can play these games too you know

But I'll take it slow and see how things go 🙂

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calm down, pisces moon.....you aren't going to die now. 😛

I say waterlogged because you are an aqua full of pisces. pisces is a water sign. so, yeah, you do have emotions in there. You aren't a whistle!

You can tend to fantisize your relationship a little *too* much. you need to get your feet on the ground and stop stalking twitter. call her. on the phone. no texting. hear her voice, you have enough inherent intuition to *feel* the situation out. then leave it....let her contact you after that....but keep it real and keep it honest. no games. people get hurt when games are being played......you more than her, I'm willing to bet.

I'd say that's sound advice for a Pisces Moon.

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what about her chart?

Good idea 😉 know thy enemy right 1 minute lol jk

Holy hell...

Sun Scorpio 10??07' Ascendant Capricorn 3??26'
Moon Sagittarius 3??59' II Aquarius 25??05'
Mercury Scorpio 22??08' III Aries 12??52'
Venus Sagittarius 27??06' IV Taurus 11??59'
Mars Sagittarius 24??59' V Gemini 1??38'
Jupiter Aquarius 13??09' VI Gemini 17??39'
Saturn Aries 15??09' R VII Cancer 3??26'
Uranus Aquarius 4??54' VIII Leo 25??05'
Neptune Capricorn 27??22' IX Libra 12??52'
Pluto Sagittarius 4??32' Midheaven Scorpio 11??59'
Lilith Virgo 25??21' XI Sagittarius 1??38'
Asc node Virgo 18??18'

I'm not 100 % certain of her birthplace pretty sure its the place I entered and again for time put 12 noon

Posted by e11e
eris, he's got pisces moon, venus AND mars.

I'm going to hell now. 😱

Does this mean I'm amazing or is it another cause for concern?

Posted by e11e
ouch.

IS is going to kill me but there is a slight possibility that she's not taking this as serious as you are.

I'd call her anyways. you can catch her tone on the phone and know if it's a lost cause or not.

You may have to let this one go. But I understand your need for closure and trying to understand *what* happened so you can move on gracefully.

You know that is it, like if you want to end it, just tell me, but I just get the feeling that is not the case idk either way once I've spoken to her and got the answer I'll be happy to move on, getting an answer or a straight answer is not going to be easy lol I know it but I'll be patient until I get one, thanks

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eris, he's got pisces moon, venus AND mars.

I'm going to hell now. 😱

Does this mean I'm amazing or is it another cause for concern?

It means I shouldn't have been such an asshole to you.....and I probably need to go to church and confess
my sins 😛

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It's alright your forgiven lol I'll be taking a copy of this chart to my Dad now, may make things clearer to him lol

Thanks for all your help, so not all Scorpions are crazy evil geniuses out to destroy and devour the lesser signs, good to know. If it's over with this Scorp, I think I know which sign I'll be out on the look out for again 😉 I like a crazy Girl lol

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ouch.

IS is going to kill me but there is a slight possibility that she's not taking this as serious as you are.

I'd call her anyways. you can catch her tone on the phone and know if it's a lost cause or not.

You may have to let this one go. But I understand your need for closure and trying to understand *what* happened so you can move on gracefully.

Haha. Nah. All her Saggie parts are his Pisces parts. Then again, all his Fish bits trine her Sun which isn't bad.

As for that Sag Moon? It's not that it doesn't take it serious. In fact quite the opposite. Coupled with her Scorp sun and all that poetry, she's been basking in emotions. It's just that Sag doesn't need too many reasons to gallop off. Think of a wild horse and how you tame that-- now go do that. 🙂

Better yet, Go watch The Horse Whisperer or Sea Biscuit for pointers. Lol. I wish I was kidding.

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Lol, I'll make sure to watch the movies before making contact with her. Thanks 🙂

Posted by IrresistableScorp
The good news is that she's probably not through with you. Scorp Sun/Saggie Moon will straight up tell you they are OVER. You won't wonder. So unless she's said: I don't want to be with you ever, there's still more than a chance.

In other news, now that we see all that water, the scorps have softened their position on you which is hilarious. Lololol

I knew all along it was my intuition telling me it wasn't over lol so it's good I wasn't imagining this. She's like the same, knows what ppl are thinking, good at reading people etc

I'm glad the position has softened, see I'm not that bad, blame it on the water 🙂

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eris, he's got pisces moon, venus AND mars.

I'm going to hell now. 😱

Does this mean I'm amazing or is it another cause for concern?

It means I shouldn't have been such an asshole to you.....and I probably need to go to church and confess
my sins 😛

It's alright your forgiven lol I'll be taking a copy of this chart to my Dad now, may make things clearer to him lol

LOL

what sign is your dad? (I don't need his chart...lol)

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Lol he's a Libra

"destroy and devour the lesser signs"

LOL, lesser signs. 😉

No bad intentions at all here. Lol. I Will not comment with advice bbecause I too am in a situation with a scorp and trying to figure things out. I will wish you the bes. Of luck in finding love or happiness. However referring back to my first satement.I am commenting on this post to see if I can get others to come respond to mine. Not trying to be a thread hijacker but your post got many comments lol._—

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the OP is not innocent in this mess. he played the typical aqua card by being all "I'm not all that interested in you.....but you are more than welcome to fawn over me, obsess over me, loveeeeeee me....it phases me not one bit and I will show you it doesn't" bullshit.

then when the tables were turned he realised what he did and now is trying to backpeddle.

should have been real from the get go. when you aren't....this is usually what happens.

Hmmm....I was thinking along the same lines here. The OPs remarks sure sound like the Aqua aloofness gone bad to me. Not saying this Scorpio is innocent because she's obviously playing some game. Then again, she has an EX which could mean she just went through all the bullshit that happens when you end a relationship. So I'm feeling this Scorpio nuked it all when she found herself feeling vulnerable during that week "off" while Aqua played with his other friends. Immaturity coupled with too much too soon perhaps?

I agree.

Neither party is innocent. Unfortunately, this is how aqua and scorp usually ends up (if we are only speaking on sun signs).

Aqua basks in the lovin, brags about how much this person is into them.....until Scorpio is tired of no reciprocation or emotion....walking away feeling unloved and foolish.

Aqua comes back with a vengeance because their ego is all busted....trying to pull back all the goodies.

by that time, it's just too damn late.

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Seen/heard this with my own eyes/ears from both parties.

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I'm not your typical Aqua then lol I actually enjoyed keeping our relationship private and told her how I felt from the start

I found out the ex is emigrating in a year so idk whether it was an attempt on her part to get him to stay by making out she still has feelings for him or to get him back as he did cheat on her so l've found out