Aquarian in need of Scorpio advice

New to the boards so just wanted to say hello first of all....

I am an aquarian female dating a scorpio male and let me tell ya I am confused. We've only known each other a month and already said the LOVE word, which I find very hard to say. However I said it and feel it. HE brought up the idea of marrying me and having kids. I was hesitant but went with the fact that it felt right. Bottom line, I thought he was THE ONE. Things went great for the first 2 weeks... always here, always calling me and made me feel on top of the world. Then all in one day he said I called him too much, hung up on me and didnt call me until 2 days later. We made up like nothing happened. (my dad is a scorpio so I know this well) I havnt seen him in the past 2 weeks because every time he's suppose to come see me, "Something" comes up and he cant. This lead to another argument and we didnt talk for another 2 days. I let him know how I felt and left it up to him to contact me. He did, lastnight. The call was weird though. He said he was away for a couple days but I KNOW he wasnt. He kept asking me what I was doing (like was I going out with friends) and kept asking what I did that day. Then he said he did miss me and wanted to get together and talk "some time" this weekend. He hung up saying he would call when he got out of work and never did. What is this guys deal? I love him but I'm not one to be played. Is this what he's doing? I think he called last night just to see what I was doing. Do you think he's really into me or do you think he just wants to keep me under his thumb? Any help would be appreciated.

QO,
Sounds like he might have been scared off by the intensity of it all. Give him some time, if he's for real, he'll come around. If not, well, you'll know it cause you will have been replaced. Scorps truly are all or nothing.

Hope this helps you...

Storm

Give him some time and don't take things too personally.You do have to admit that that is a little fast so he may just need to back track and think about things,or it's just personal privacy rearing it's head which is common for scorpios.Sometimes we just want to be alone,it doesn't mean anything except were in a solitairy mood.

Hurry up and ease off a LITTLE bit, it's only been a month, please don't jump to conclusions.

Thank you all... and I have to say you were right!!!
I did back off with the attitude that if he really did feel all the things he said, then he would be back. He's back. He told me he got scared about the way he was feeling and just needed some time. He still seems a little distant so I'm just letting him call and come to me. He's worth it. Again Thanks

If you can stand to be possessed, and utterly euphoric in bed, hang in there. Keep your sense of humor.