@LibraJackson
9 Years
Had a date with an Aquarius
What to Know About Dating an Aquarius as a Libra
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I think it doesn‘t matter if you have sex on the first few dates. Well maybe not on the first date but however, if he is into you he‘ll stick around and won‘t disappear or become flaky
Air signs have sex on the first date. That's just how things are. Don't feel bad. 😄
"what is the purpose of holding out if we both want it now"
I also think it doesnt matter when you have sex, but how you behave after the sex.... if you become insecure and clingy, or just stay normal...
I never met an Aqua who would be turned off by early sex.... I dont think aquas have issues with having sex first date or after a year 🙂
but of course there are exceptions...
so, just behave like you behaved before, like no big deal, dont panic, stay calm
Aquarius do it when it feels right. It all about how it goes not when. 😄
Posted by Mr_Pinchy
Air signs have sex on the first date. That's just how things are. Don't feel bad. 😄"what is the purpose of holding out if we both want it now"
that's how I felt but like I'm nervous ish about how he feels but yeah I had a great 'airy time' haha
Posted by Pandora101
I also think it doesnt matter when you have sex, but how you behave after the sex.... if you become insecure and clingy, or just stay normal...I never met an Aqua who would be turned off by early sex.... I dont think aquas have issues with having sex first date or after a year 🙂
but of course there are exceptions...
so, just behave like you behaved before, like no big deal, dont panic, stay calm
Yeah I'm going to go with the flow and see. You're right
What's his Venus?
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?
I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
My hubs and I slept together on the 2nd date 🌷 it just felt right. Until now he brags how he seduced me that early loool makes him happy
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
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Time of birth doesn‘t matter for the personal planets, but it can change the moon sign
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
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Pisces venus 😍
Cancer mars
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
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He's a Pisces Venus.
It's gonna be okay.
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
Pisces venus 😍
Cancer mars
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what does that mean and I'm 10/10/1993
I'm sorry for bothering you but I'd love to know more
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
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I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
He's a Pisces Venus.
It's gonna be okay.
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I love that you said it's gonna be okay what does that mean haha
this is why I love star signs, it's such a good guide line
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
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I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
Pisces venus 😍
Cancer mars
what does that mean and I'm 10/10/1993
I'm sorry for bothering you but I'd love to know more
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Pisces venus is super loving. My favorite
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
He's a Pisces Venus.
It's gonna be okay.
I love that you said it's gonna be okay what does that mean haha
this is why I love star signs, it's such a good guide line
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Cause i'm a Pisces Venus too.
Having sex in a first date won't reduce your value. If I like you.
Especially if the sex was good.
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
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Just ask Saggurl or JadeAlexander 😂😂
I would agree that Pisces Venus moves quick in sexual terms. How long did he stay after sex? Did you talk about being exclusive?
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
Pisces venus 😍
Cancer mars
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oh that combo is very sweet.
don't take advantage of him. lol we have a couple cousins with that combo, and they are always getting taken advantage of.
Posted by pinkbird03
I would agree that Pisces Venus moves quick in sexual terms. How long did he stay after sex? Did you talk about being exclusive?
No it was our first date, he spent the night and he was the one saying that this is not a one night stand thing without me asking.
He's just funny and I'm not too serious with things but like any girl I would like to see him again not really asking to be exclusive just yet
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?I'm not sure his birthday is 28 of January 1993 and I don't know the time of birth either.
What's your feedback?
Pisces venus 😍
Cancer mars
oh that combo is very sweet.
don't take advantage of him. lol we have a couple cousins with that combo, and they are always getting taken advantage of.
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I wouldn't, I'm worried about him taking the advantage hahaha but yeah he does seems like he has a kind soul and really witty
Posted by pinkbird03
I would agree that Pisces Venus moves quick in sexual terms. How long did he stay after sex? Did you talk about being exclusive?No it was our first date, he spent the night and he was the one saying that this is not a one night stand thing without me asking.
He's just funny and I'm not too serious with things but like any girl I would like to see him again not really asking to be exclusive just yet
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Lol I’d say it went well if he spent the night! Let him text you first. If he texts you today and rather soon, that’s a good sign 🙂 I think Pisces venus is clingy. He will most likely request another date in the near future.
If he likes you he will move very fast and want to be exclusive.
He must be very sweet with that combo.
He will need lots of love and attention. Be nice to him 😄
Posted by pinkbird03
I would agree that Pisces Venus moves quick in sexual terms. How long did he stay after sex? Did you talk about being exclusive?No it was our first date, he spent the night and he was the one saying that this is not a one night stand thing without me asking.
He's just funny and I'm not too serious with things but like any girl I would like to see him again not really asking to be exclusive just yet
Lol I’d say it went well if he spent the night! Let him text you first. If he texts you today and rather soon, that’s a good sign 🙂 I think Pisces venus is clingy. He will most likely request another date in the near future.
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I hope soo to! we'll keep you posted for sure but you're right, I'm definitely going to wait for him to text me first.
Posted by pinkbird03
I would agree that Pisces Venus moves quick in sexual terms. How long did he stay after sex? Did you talk about being exclusive?No it was our first date, he spent the night and he was the one saying that this is not a one night stand thing without me asking.
He's just funny and I'm not too serious with things but like any girl I would like to see him again not really asking to be exclusive just yet
Lol I’d say it went well if he spent the night! Let him text you first. If he texts you today and rather soon, that’s a good sign 🙂 I think Pisces venus is clingy. He will most likely request another date in the near future.
I hope soo to! we'll keep you posted for sure but you're right, I'm definitely going to wait for him to text me first.
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My newest way of dating is show interest but let the man chase a little bit. Good luck!
Posted by WittyGem88
I slept with my aqua bf on the first date because he flew all the way to where I was for like 17hours to see me for a first date. I’m a gemini and well, who cares really! Go free! Hahaha i think if you bith realize the connection, it will always be there. Unless one of you is just after sex and sex only— thats when the issues arise. Otherwise, aqua wont judge you. And he will stick around if he likes you 🙂
Technically, imo, you can't be called an "easy fuck" if there's 17 hours flight involved in one direction just to get to you.
I hope you gave him that Asian woman massage where you walk over his back to remedy the pain from the flying. 😄
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
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I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
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Umm. How long where you with them after that?
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
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First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
Posted by WittyGem88
I slept with my aqua bf on the first date because he flew all the way to where I was for like 17hours to see me for a first date. I’m a gemini and well, who cares really! Go free! Hahaha i think if you bith realize the connection, it will always be there. Unless one of you is just after sex and sex only— thats when the issues arise. Otherwise, aqua wont judge you. And he will stick around if he likes you 🙂Technically, imo, you can't be called an "easy fuck" if there's 17 hours flight involved in one direction just to get to you.
I hope you gave him that Asian woman massage where you walk over his back to remedy the pain from the flying. 😄
I took care of him thats why hes coming back for more lol
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I want to sing out loud when i read comments like this although the ears of the people around me might suffer if i do. 😄
Posted by WittyGem88
I slept with my aqua bf on the first date because he flew all the way to where I was for like 17hours to see me for a first date. I’m a gemini and well, who cares really! Go free! Hahaha i think if you bith realize the connection, it will always be there. Unless one of you is just after sex and sex only— thats when the issues arise. Otherwise, aqua wont judge you. And he will stick around if he likes you 🙂Technically, imo, you can't be called an "easy fuck" if there's 17 hours flight involved in one direction just to get to you.
I hope you gave him that Asian woman massage where you walk over his back to remedy the pain from the flying. 😄
Its never easy with a Gemini. Lol. Imagine the distance he had to travel to have an amazing evening. Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Honestly, speaking from my own perspective, if i want something, i'll find a way to get to it. Distance is worth it for the reward at the end (not merely sex but that too, yes).
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
Just ask Saggurl or JadeAlexander 😂😂
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Thanks for laughing at my misery penus venus! 😏😝
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
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Why was he mean? That doesn’t sound good.
He must have been very mean to brake your spirit. You seams like a really jolly girl 😊
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
Why was he mean? That doesn’t sound good.
He must have been very mean to brake your spirit. You seams like a really jolly girl 😊
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He's usually not mean. But the fact that he was just tells me that he's not into me at all and doesn't respect our friendship so I need to step back.
I am nice, somewhat 😄 I can be a bitch too lol He hasn't seen that side but I can tell he wants to. That side only comes out once I trust you. He could think I'm a pushover for all I know. I stand up to everyone else, except him, because my love for him comes first and I always want to forgive instead of fight.
I'm very understanding when I love someone. But I won't be treated like shit. So for now, since he was mean. I will move forward and continue working and getting sex from my ex 😄 I don't feel like meeting someone new and dating. I don't have time for all that lol. It's a headache.
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
Why was he mean? That doesn’t sound good.
He must have been very mean to brake your spirit. You seams like a really jolly girl 😊
He's usually not mean. But the fact that he was just tells me that he's not into me at all and doesn't respect our friendship so I need to step back.
I am nice, somewhat 😄 I can be a bitch too lol He hasn't seen that side but I can tell he wants to. That side only comes out once I trust you. He could think I'm a pushover for all I know. I stand up to everyone else, except him, because my love for him comes first and I always want to forgive instead of fight.
I'm very understanding when I love someone. But I won't be treated like shit. So for now, since he was mean. I will move forward and continue working and getting sex from my ex 😄 I don't feel like meeting someone new and dating. I don't have time for all that lol. It's a headache.
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I suppose you have to do what it feels right to you.
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
Why was he mean? That doesn’t sound good.
He must have been very mean to brake your spirit. You seams like a really jolly girl 😊
He's usually not mean. But the fact that he was just tells me that he's not into me at all and doesn't respect our friendship so I need to step back.
I am nice, somewhat 😄 I can be a bitch too lol He hasn't seen that side but I can tell he wants to. That side only comes out once I trust you. He could think I'm a pushover for all I know. I stand up to everyone else, except him, because my love for him comes first and I always want to forgive instead of fight.
I'm very understanding when I love someone. But I won't be treated like shit. So for now, since he was mean. I will move forward and continue working and getting sex from my ex 😄 I don't feel like meeting someone new and dating. I don't have time for all that lol. It's a headache.
I suppose you have to do what it feels right to you.
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I'll always love myself first. 🙂 This is where my selfishness and don't give a fucc attitude comes in, stubbornness too lol Fucc him lol
I know as a fixed sign, he will be back if he really liked me. If not then it wasn't meant to be anyways.
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I had sex with both my Cap Venus Aqua men pretty fast, within the second meet up. It's what comes later that ends up being slow and torturous. lol Even the first one ended up being outside cause he asked if I was spontaneous 😄
Umm. How long where you with them after that?
First one we were seeing each other for 3 years but it was long distance, he finally told me that he never loved me and that I needed to stop coming to see him, so I did. I just went to go see him after 10 years and it was like seeing him last week. Nothing had changed and I could tell he still loved me.
Second one, we saw each other for 9 months. I just recently started talking to him again after 2 months (it's been over a year altogether now) of not talking and he was mean to me the other day and made me cry, so I'm not contacting him again.I told him he was mean and left it at that. I don't know why they like being assholes. I actually like being a little tortured but I don't like being sad.
Why was he mean? That doesn’t sound good.
He must have been very mean to brake your spirit. You seams like a really jolly girl 😊
He's usually not mean. But the fact that he was just tells me that he's not into me at all and doesn't respect our friendship so I need to step back.
I am nice, somewhat 😄 I can be a bitch too lol He hasn't seen that side but I can tell he wants to. That side only comes out once I trust you. He could think I'm a pushover for all I know. I stand up to everyone else, except him, because my love for him comes first and I always want to forgive instead of fight.
I'm very understanding when I love someone. But I won't be treated like shit. So for now, since he was mean. I will move forward and continue working and getting sex from my ex 😄 I don't feel like meeting someone new and dating. I don't have time for all that lol. It's a headache.
I suppose you have to do what it feels right to you.
I'll always love myself first. 🙂 This is where my selfishness and don't give a fucc attitude comes in, stubbornness too lol Fucc him lol
I know as a fixed sign, he will be back if he really liked me. If not then it wasn't meant to be anyways.
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Yes, that first part I can relate well 😉
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
Just ask Saggurl or JadeAlexander 😂😂
Thanks for laughing at my misery penus venus! 😏😝
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Penus is for Pisces Venus 😝
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
Just ask Saggurl or JadeAlexander 😂😂
Thanks for laughing at my misery penus venus! 😏😝
Penus is for Pisces Venus 😝
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I was calling you that! 😆
Posted by AerialView
What's his Venus?Pisces 😍
Lucky girl
I was curious cause I think it wouldn't be Cap Venus cause he's fast.
Lol
I was very curious too.
Nope. They take their time 😋
Just ask Saggurl or JadeAlexander 😂😂
Thanks for laughing at my misery penus venus! 😏😝
Penus is for Pisces Venus 😝
I was calling you that! 😆
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Hello !
So in my last post I mentioned that I was messaging an Aquarius and I'm a Libra.
It's been a week of messaging and we have so much in common.
Music, Dark Sense of Humor and just our joy of life doing what we love.
I went on a date with him last night and I was so myself and I hope he was too.
We talked so much about everything and this is where I'm a bit nervous.
The date lasted 8 hours and him coming back to my house on a first date and we had sex!
I usually keep things quite platonic but I just clicked with him and did it.
So I'm slightly worried that he's going to find that unattractive and just leave.
but he said he had so much fun and he enjoyed my company and that he wouldn't just leave it??
If you like someone you should just do it that's what he thinks ..
so what do you guys think?
I think I was too easy but I had a good night and I hope it works out. If not ..heyy I had a great date!