Help me understand this Aquarius guy.

Folks, I need help. First of all, I am a Cancer girl. So, I met an Aquarius guy in the most random way: we were at the mall, I looked at him, he looked at me, and later some of my friends who happened to know him told me that he made some comments about me. I gave them permission to give him my number and we started to talk. We had an awesome chat, he complimented me all the time, and asked me out on a date. The date was cool, we chatted a little bit and then he unexpectedly kissed me. It was AWESOME. Alright, after the date he wouldn't stop texting me, telling me how beautiful I am and how he would love to meet me again. But suddenly, before our second meeting, a girl posted a picture with him on FB and I found out they were in a relationship. Then my friends told me that he made some really pervert/nasty comments about my looks and, while he was seeing me, he was also seeing another girl.

See, I really like the way he presented himself: nice, caring, loves poetry and indie music, romantic, compliments me all the time, best kisser ever, has dogs and loves them, etc. But then he suddenly blew me off. I'm really confused.

I was with a Aquarius for six year- known this person for 11 ,,, not to mention I've know a male Aquarius for 5 years, I'll say this. They are fun people on a Saturday night and are capable of showing much love, but good luck with the idea of them being totally honest with you, from my experience they can't turn down that "new cool person" or that great party that everyone is going to, and they suck with money, lol so yeAh. Still got love for my Aquarius homies, I'm a Capricorn,

Until it is a mutual decision to be exclusive, you are both free to see and date other people.

So is this other girl an acutal relationship or is it someone he dates casually?

As an outsider looking in, I think most aquas really do want a serious, long term relationship. It's just hard for them to find the right one to have it with.

Posted by truecap
As an outsider looking in, I think most aquas really do want a serious, long term relationship. It's just hard for them to find the right one to have it with.

Spot on!! Truecap, you hit it on the nail with that one. That's the story of my life. I don't commit until I find that right one. It's just that guys wear their novelty off after like 3 weeks max for me. Until I give exclusivity, I am open to date whoever; and like someone else said previously, I am unapologetic about that because morally and even ethically I'm not doing anything wrong.

Posted by flowingwater

Posted by truecap
As an outsider looking in, I think most aquas really do want a serious, long term relationship. It's just hard for them to find the right one to have it with.

This^
We may wonder for a while but that's because we don't want to be a in LT relationship with just anyone. Not everyone is down with an Aquarius.

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Yes, sun and venus in aqua people are the pickiest you'll find. Most of them are usually single. lol