Are all scorpios always moody and disrepectful?

Cancer female dating a scorpio man for almost 2 years and we'll it has been one crazy rollercoaster....in the beginning barely hitting our first month together we already had some arguments...but my scorpio always communicated with me. he told me I was the first girlfriend he ever loved so quickly etc... He always wanted to be around me...He's the jealous type. he surprised me with the romantic gesture on valentines day wen I got home from work which I loved! Months later he asked me he wanted to have a child with me. I said yes. However, cuz of all the fights we had I started to have second thoughts about having a child with him but he insisted we have one. So I agreed and said fine I just don't want to argue anymore. Well we ended up moving in together cuz He asked to move in with me. We went every where together..going back to me being pregnant....at the last of my trimester I couldn't do anything cuz I was so uncomfortable. I stayed home while he would hang out with friends etc...but he started hanging out every weekend and staying out late...we started getting into arguments even more so. We almost broke up. He said he would stop that and come home alot earlier & won't go out every weekend. Well after our child was 1 month old he started up again and going out. He again got comfortable going out too much and leaving me home with the baby. I broke up with him to scare him but it ended up back firing on me and we stayed broken up. 😢 well long story short we got back together 2 months later and it hasn't been the same. He has an attitude with me everyday, even his body gestures are rude. He seems annoyed wen i start a conversation with him but if he creates the conversation he doesn't have an attitude with me at all. He doesn't hug or kiss me often how he use to. We recently had a huge blow out and we aren't talking however we live together..weird I know. He spoke with his cousin and did tell her he loves me still but he's upset with me. Why does he treat me this way wen he still loves me? He loves to drink and enjoys his firends company and loves to go to places without me...i feel if were a couple we do couple things like parties and vacations always together and never alone. I want to go back how we use to feeling loved again....scorpio men help any advice on putting urself in his shoe on wut hes feeling etc would be greatly appreciated...how do I get him to start doing family even couple outings without making him feel trapped?

In addition, they say scorpios are loyal...my question is the way he is acting with me will he cheat? He said he hasn't cheat in any of his girlfriends...but later in our relationship he came out and told me he cheated on one....can I trust him?

'all' of a people are nothing alike. please dont generalize.

The one I dated was...

So I kicked him out of my life.

End of story.

😄

It wasn't enough he made you miserable, yet you thought it was best to bring a child into this world into the same misery.

What the fuck were you thinking? smfh

Posted by Magenta_Azure
The one I dated was...

So I kicked him out of my life.

End of story.

😄

Ditto

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Posted by Reincarnation
You are both immature for having a child that soon.

Is he happy with the child - or did you use it to trap him into a relationship?

I think we all know the answer to that one.

I wonder if that's a Cancer thing.

Child entrapment, that is.

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My two Cancer exes BOTH told me they HAD to get a "baby in me". So romantic (insert sarcasm here) lol I'm thankful to have dodged both bullets!

Posted by Rabbit
Would you have more respect for them if they had said "I just want to bust a fat nut inside you"?

lol Just made me laugh out loud xD

They were both unstable. One an abuser, the other a sociopath.

I wonder about Cancers true intentions sometimes.

He secured you by having a child with you, and when he thought you were stuck, he changed his ways. You're seeing the true him, now. So, is this what you really want? There is no way to "make" him be the man you want as a husband and partner. I'm sorry, but you got conned, and now you're trying to trap him into behaving as you want. That won't work, it will only make things worse.

Posted by Rabbit
That just sounds funny.

MoonFartist.

And this is why Scorpios always prevail haha

I think by breaking up with him you made him resent you which is why he's acting that way. As a Scorp, I got back together with someone who hurt me and it was never the same. I do a lot of thinking, and I was always reminded of what he did to hurt me and resentment would build and build. When he would talk to me I would become angry, because I would think to myself "he wants to act like things are normal when he did such and such to me". We finally broke it off. I couldn't stand being around someone who was okay with hurting me and wanted to brush it off like it was nothing. I never did believe he was truly sorry, because I have learned some people only have selfish intentions and who is to say he is not one of them? It's safe to say I grew to despise him. I don't hate him anymore because it has been 4 years, but I will gladly live the rest of my life not caring whether he is alive or dead to put it bluntly.

In other words, you might as well break it off now. To be blunt once again, yes it is HIGHLY likely he will cheat on you to get his revenge depending on his placements. If he has a Venus in Scorp he might even try to cheat on you as a form of revenge. Even getting that type of revenge will not suffice because he will always remember what you did and he will not be able to fulfill his desires to hurt you in return. Once again, depending on his placements, it may never be enough.

He cares about you don't get me wrong, but once you step over the line there is no going back no matter how many times you try to make amends. I forgive my ex, because I don't believe in carrying bitterness with me forever. BUT I would NEVER give him another chance, because of all of the horrible reminders it would bring which would drag me deeper into the dark abyss portion of my mind, a place I try to avoid. I also avoid anyone who brings out that part of me.

This is all my perspective. I don't know if any would agree, but this is how I view it.

Posted by Rabbit
That just sounds funny.

MoonFartist.

Fappit......what you doing Fappit?

Posted by Rabbit
Jesus fuck....ing Christ

fixed it

Trapping someone into having a child doesn't mean that you're ghetto and it certainly doesn't depend on your sign. People of all walks of life do it.


SHE didn't trap him into having a child. HE asked her to have his child. So, that's not entrapment.....

Posted by pampam82
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However, cuz of all the fights we had I started to have second thoughts about having a child with him but he insisted we have one.

So I agreed and said fine I just don't want to argue anymore.

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how do I get him to start doing family even couple outings without making him feel trapped?

He isn't trapped.

You are.

Posted by Noreallynow
Trapping someone into having a child doesn't mean that you're ghetto and it certainly doesn't depend on your sign. People of all walks of life do it.


SHE didn't trap him into having a child. HE asked her to have his child. So, that's not entrapment.....

Insisted.

And it isn't sign specific, I agree... but it is ghetto.

Js 🙂

yes we are all the bad things people say we are thats why people are afraid of us
we are a myth

when does it happen?

when does the ability to think for yourself cease completely, allowing you to give in to moronic idea that he insisted on? the baby was a reason to get you to stay so he could further treat you like garbage. and you fell for it.

'i just dont want to argue anymore. ok. get me pregnant.' instead of the baby being born out of love and cooperation by mature parents.

you didnt want the kid but you went against good sense and logic just to appease him. and how did that work out? both of you are just.......no.

i feel most sorry for the kid.

you point fingers at him, it's easy to tell from the title of this mess. but one can flip it around and ask are all cancers always weak and stupid.

i know all of them aren't. it wasn't an insult to all crabs. but you and some others i know personally take the cake on this.

Scorps are very social. I haven't met one yet that isn't on some level. I also know that Cancer people, women in particular tend to be home bodies. I guess it works for you guys, but unless both people are the type to just stay home all of the dang time, then being a home body is a killer in any relationship. I'm so sorry, but it is. All of the Scorps that I know...men and women LOVE parties in particular, where they can just drink, and kind of get lost in the crowd, be anything that they want to be in a moment in time. Scorps are SPONTANEOUS. Being a homebody reduces the ability to feel like you're FREE to get out. He doesn't even actually need freedom, just give him the illusion of freedom and he'll be fine. The question is...can you do this?

As far as disrespectful...my boyfriend just playfully called me an asshole in front of my favorite store check out clerk. However, he didn't LOOK like he was playing. Scorps are edgy. I wouldn't say disrespectful...I would say that they don't like to feel like everything has to be proper and polite.

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Scorps are very social. I haven't met one yet that isn't on some level. I also know that Cancer people, women in particular tend to be home bodies. I guess it works for you guys, but unless both people are the type to just stay home all of the dang time, then being a home body is a killer in any relationship. I'm so sorry, but it is. All of the Scorps that I know...men and women LOVE parties in particular, where they can just drink, and kind of get lost in the crowd, be anything that they want to be in a moment in time. Scorps are SPONTANEOUS. Being a homebody reduces the ability to feel like you're FREE to get out. He doesn't even actually need freedom, just give him the illusion of freedom and he'll be fine. The question is...can you do this?

im sorry but you cant give scorpio the illusion of freedom because we love the truth we want it bad and we can smell it when its not real
cancer woman are bipolar their emotions changes so often and than we get bored
try to be spontaneous and carpe diem

Posted by scorpiothebadass

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Scorps are very social. I haven't met one yet that isn't on some level. I also know that Cancer people, women in particular tend to be home bodies. I guess it works for you guys, but unless both people are the type to just stay home all of the dang time, then being a home body is a killer in any relationship. I'm so sorry, but it is. All of the Scorps that I know...men and women LOVE parties in particular, where they can just drink, and kind of get lost in the crowd, be anything that they want to be in a moment in time. Scorps are SPONTANEOUS. Being a homebody reduces the ability to feel like you're FREE to get out. He doesn't even actually need freedom, just give him the illusion of freedom and he'll be fine. The question is...can you do this?

im sorry but you cant give scorpio the illusion of freedom because we love the truth we want it bad and we can smell it when its not real
cancer woman are bipolar their emotions changes so often and than we get bored
try to be spontaneous and carpe diem

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Lol...Yes, you can give a Scorp an illusion. You can dig deep within and pull out the actress/actor inside and treat them the way they treat others...bye...go...who cares...take your ass on. That does it (subject matter for a different day/time). And if they leave...truly walk away, then just like anyone else no matter the sign, that person wasn't ready for the meal you were serving and if they stay...then they get the full treatment buffet. She's a cancer. She can work on letting go a bit and truly being secure in the relationship even though he's hanging out with his friends. Any person can work to balance out the negativities that the astro proclivities bless them with. Any one. It's all a matter of how bad you want it.

You sound like you know so much about scorpios but you dont

Ok.