Are Scorpio women and Virgo men compatible?

Im a scorpio rising with a virgo rising and gemini moon. I liked a Virgo but he didnt know how to impress me and I didnt get his attention.

I was mean tohim at first but I ended up trusting and confinding in him a lot. He was really mean to me still. I started noticing his materialism, spending habits and shallowness and became turned off.

Then he asked me on a date to a fancy resturant but I felt like if he was gonna ask me out, he needed to know what to do and where to take me. So I said no because he didnt pass my test. I wanted him to take us to the country to stargaze and go to my fav fast food resturant.

On top of that, he writes songs about me telling me he likes and dislikes me. I stalked him for a year for gossiping about me and hurting me. I resented him. It seems like he does like me, but wants me to go away. I hot upset he showed respect for other girls and not me.