Attracting a Scorpio Woman

Hi everyone, this is Scorpio209. I hope everyone has no any grudges left against me and if you do, then too bad lol. But anyways i just wanted to know a bit how we scorpio men can attract scorpio women more easily. You see theres this one beautiful noticeable scorpio woman that goes to college with me. She resembles a perfect scorpio, the way she walks, talks, she never makes a fool out of herself, the way i see it, shes an Enigma. Now im very very attracted to this girl, and im pretty sure others are too. Well anyhow, i gave her the Scorpio stare one day, and she did react to it. Well she did start looking back with the same stare and i would sometime look away after a second or two, making it look like she has more power in the stare and im getting embarassed or whatever. but most of the time she looks away. well anyways, i do want to talk to her, but shes always around her friends, and i cant go up to her if front others, its just not my nature. So basically she knows i definetly like her, and i know she likes me too, the way she stares back at me, and fixes her hair everytime i see her. What my main question is, do you believe that she is also attracted to me, eventhough all we been doing is staring at eachother for the past month or so? and can i please get some inside information, lol, on how you scorpio women are attracted. because i have made up my mind, that im going to marry a scorpio women. and im willing to do anything for this girl, i must have her at all cost. i been reading books, astrology, palmistry , trying to figure out if how i can attract her, and if shes meant for me etc etc. but anyways, that would be awesome if i can get some advice only from a Scorpio women. Thanks alot. and comments are very welcome from others too.

Scorp209, if she wasn't interested, she would probably would not stare back, but you definately have to approach her, she won't come to you. I realize it's not in your nature to approach while others are present, but if you don't, there's a good chance you'll miss out. My advice would be to try to talk to her, and possibly see if she'll give you her number or something. We're pretty forthright if we aren't interested in someone at all.

One question though, have you ever dated another scorpio? We're all pretty willful, and that might make things a bit difficult.

Storm

hi scorpio209,

i think you should forget about astrology for a moment and find out about her real personality. we're all individuals, remember?
knowledge about star signs can be a nice guideline, but still you need to know who SHE is, what things SHE likes, what things SHE doesn't like and so on...
otherwise you might end up prejudging her and messing up!
i know its easier to have a strategy which will definitely lead to success, but unfortunately real life is unpredictable.
if you like the girl adapt to the actual situation, be spontaneous and creative: she'll love it!!! ... oh, and remember to be nice, nice, nice... 😉
good luck mate

To scorpio209

Well this is actually based on my own experience.Although it may not help that much.

Honestly speaking, according to what you wrote it was just the exact scenario that I have during Highschool, but I hope the result would be different.Because I was DUMP.

Ok to start it up, try to known her past first cause that was my big mistakes before. If she never had a boyfriend, men your in deep trouble. Because you see, the girl who dump me actually stares at me and I never knew it until someone told me so. And whenever shes staring at me, and I caught her she usually withdraws and sometimes when I was looking at her she actually looks at me and either of us withdrew. Then eventually I court her but I ended up being dump, although it was not in actual words. And afterwards, it was actually been broadcast in our school that she have been my girlfriend(I never fond who the hell came out with that idea) and sometimes I even caught her staring so bad as if she wanna kill the girl besides me or any women who Im having a conversation. So as how I see it, she definitely likes me and I even ask others regarding the scenario and it all leeds to that, but no oh no she did dump me.

So if I were u, I'll take lizard's advise, however u may want to know her birthdate, birthplace and if possible so as the time. Try to consider the birth chart, It may help you a lot, especially to scropio's because we are just so complicated.But if she did have a exboyfriend then you might want to consider strom's advise over lizard.

Actually a scorpio men determine to marry a scorpio women is a very complex idea.Although I do dream of that kind of relationship to.

However, I wish you all the luck on your hunt to your future scorpio queen!

I agree with all the others in talking to her.Storms right,although it still may be polite,it's pretty obvious and direct when not interested.It's always tends to give a little interest,then seemingly nothing,then back,then nothing,except for one that I know but she has ALOT of aries in her charts.Think of it as it's not very ladylike to be the aggresser when it comes to that so it may still be up to you after talking to her.Chart info good.Nice,nice,nice is good,pisces guys are my personal favorites of water signs but I mainly have sag and virgo that make up the way I think and personality is really laid back like a mutable sign but then a taurus moon and leo mars summons up the occasional stubbornness,bluntness and really fiery moodswings from me.Other scorpios and cancers tend to always end up being just really close,brotherly type friends but they handle the bad stuff better.

I was shocked to know that your Astrology knowledge hadn't worked and you are in need of some practical advises from real life....

My personal perspective. If you really give her soo much importance, why you stay away from her? If I were you, I wouldn't keep her guessing. She always near her friends? Is that really a problem? Cant you tell her, "Excuse me, can I talk to you for a minute?" and take her away from them? If you care about her that much, doesnt she deserve that?

You guys are definetly right. thanks for your responses. i just needed that extra motivation. So that means she does like me too, and ya your right i should just go and talk to her. but if i get rejected, im going to murder myself, lol. j/k. but most likely i shouldnt because she has looked at me more than a 100 times already, i mean like seriously looked at me, not just glance. ok not a 100, but at least 50. I Love scorpios, and im just soo glad shes a scorpio, its like i know exactly how she operates. the only thing pisses me off a little bit is her moon sign, which is Libra. they too friendly and gregarious. and i want a girl that is antisocial, ok not to that extent, but not too sociable either. but i guess its kinda good because they say libra moon are very dependent and need a partner at all cost. so i love that part. lol. im just soo jelous and im lovin it. I just hope nobody even thinks about talkin to her, i'll destroy there mind if they do. not literately but psychologically. I also do know about psychology. but anyways, you guys are definetly right. And i also got Venus in Libra, which means they want to pretty much drown themselves in luxury. and she gots sun in scorpio with mercury, pluto, and venus in scorpio. Im not letting this oppurtunity go. but school or college whatever you wana call it, doesnt start till agust 14. is that how you spell agust? it looks weird. anyways, you know what i mean. but thanks for your guys reply.

Libras are actually very loyal compared to other air signs though,so she may talk to other people but she won't literally go anywhere.It's usually libras being cheated on and it's very destressing for them only they try to keep it on a cool level.I don't know how many times i've found a libra next to having a nervous breakdown due to that and then turn around and try to act like nothings wrong.

No it isn't exclusively libras,these individuals in particular just tried too hard to keep it hidden and had a near breakdown.Then being as they are really good friends I bugged them until they got pissed or opened up.Yelling matches always tends to make people feel like the weight is lifted and I know alot of it's not really directed at me so I don't actually get mad.

Scorpio/Scorpio would be a tough match. Neither one of you will ever trust each other, you'll keep secrets from each other, after a fight you'll both brood for an endless period of time. In short...communication will be rather non-existant. The fights will also be out of this world, and then the loser will take cruel revenge on the winner. What a barrel of laughs!

Anyway, if you're still determined to do this, to catch a Scorp woman you'll have to pursue her. Because she is a Mistress of games, like yourself, she will lose interest if you try to play them with her. She will also want you to prove that you are worthy of her, which means she will put you through some tests to determine how worthy you are. You'll either pass or fail, and I doubt she'll leave you guessing if you've failed.

Good luck! 🙂

>and i want a girl that is antisocial

Oh my..just had to add..Scorpio women are flirts, just like their male counterparts. They are very social and outgoing. All of my scorpio female friends are like this and so am I because of my Scorp rising. Also, very independant. This is not a woman you can lock away, my dear. She won't stand for it.

Oh hell no! This sounds like the same situation I am with a Scorpio guy, and god he is SCRUMPTOUS. I find him extremely enticing... but he is so hard to reach. He gave me that Scorpio stare and I stared back and woa, a guy has never did that to me before. I am intimidated by him... and I am not like that with any guy. And it's funny because everytime I see him I fix my hair. We've only talked twice and the first time we had small talk, and we found out we were both Scorpios.

I think there is a little tension here and she is just as interested.

LOL. I'm not saying it wouldn't be exciting and the sex would probably be fantastic..but a long term relationship? Whoa. A lot of work.

Hey...My few cents as a Scorp gal.

I usually stare back at someone I'm interested in, that's true. But also, I love playing the stare game with even people I'm NOT interested in. I know this is mean, but I like turning a guy on, make him think he can get me, and run away last minute. So while flirting, I do play games. Just for fun.

Then again, if I'm genuinely interested in someone, I do try to make eye contact and feel them up. However, I never overdo it and pull back. If I'm really shy and intimidated by the guy, I actually avoid eye contact because if he sees my eyes, I'll be revealed!

Sounds complicated? Welcome to the Scorpio world😛

What attracts me in a guy: Sweetness, thoughtfulness, caring nature. But NOT someone who allows others to walk all over him. I need to RESPECT the guy before anything can happen, if you know what I mean. A Scorp woman needs to respect her man, for sure! She will test her man in that way. In terms of physicals, we can find anything attractive, even unconventional features. It doesn't have to be a buff, hot-bod guy. There has to be a certain something though, a certain confidence, sexiness, being comfortable in his skin, ambition, and acquired taste for the good things in life. We're not high maintenance as some think we are, in fact we're low maintenance. It's only when the man starts acting like a wuss, that we turn into the bitches we are. I'm telling you: Have the guts to stand up to her and respect yourself, and she'll respect you forever.

Hope I didn't confuse you too much. Advice: Do approach her, but be cool. Don't be insecure. Assume she likes you, even if you don't know. But don't be too cocky either. We hate insecure men who crumble in front of us, yet also arrogant guys. Being a Scorp yourself, you WILL be cool. I just know it. Good luck. Keep us posted here!

Very interesting conversations here. I have never seen or heard the 'stare game' and such discussed before.

Being an 'old school' Scorpio I would usually give her some information that will let her graciously bow out before you unveil. In my case this has been an impromptu discussion about children and revealing the age of my daughter and these days my granddaughter.

In your case it has to be something in your world - parents moving or new job or something to give a slight doubt to overcome - she has to maintain control and not be swept away by you. You have to hand her a decision making opportunity to get her and keep her.


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