bathroom vist

so last night at a party i went to the bathroom with my virgo friend and we were just chatting as girls do. we heard a knock at the door and i opened it and it was the scorp. ive seen him and partied with him but no words have been exchanged. i dont even make eye contact; he tries to make it with me but im happy with my life and dont want him fucking it up.

i shut the door in his face and continue to talk to my virgo friend. he and a couple other guys starts yelling through the door that we need to stop hogging the bathroom because he has to go. i open the door and say whoever needs to go can come in or shut up but we aint leaving. the scorp runs so quickly into the bathroom and i shut the door. the bathroom is the size of a small broom closet. so while were chatting like he isnt even there using the bathroom, he starts trying to join in the convo. im making gag me faces to my virgo friend behind the scorps back. shes the only one answering him. he comes to wash his hands and comes right next to me because im sitting on the sink. i made sure to project NO feelings of warmth towards him. in fact i think i was thinking about slapping him.

before he left the bathroom, he was telling virgo about all the stuff hes going to make up about us all being in the bathroom together. and he references something that me and him did a while ago. i let it go. i took my ball and left the playground a long time ago.

the entire night all he does it stare at me.

until he apologizes for the hurtful things he has said to me and about me, i will not speak one word to him.

He does need to apologize but he probably has to much pride too. I couldn't imagine if me and Sagg#1 (I will just say since I talking to both sagg's) were not on speaking terms I don't think I could hang out with him like that it would me so uncomfortable.

Ok lol....I didnt follow your previous thread. What did the scorpio do?

nope i wasnt leaving the bathroom, why should i. there were 2 bathrooms. he coulda used the other one. im not trying to entice him by any means and we have mutual friends. i just thought it was an interesting scenario. im not looking for advice. just writing on the "aftershocks" (too soon?) of this ship. i dont think i was being childish to be honest.

he knows what the hell he did wrong. he is a smart man.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Like I said though, why entertain any of it, he's married anyways ?
Playing people like that is wrong and then you'll hurt when it affects you and round and round the cycle repeats.
I know quite a few of you horsies pride yourselves on 'not burning bridges' aka 'back burners' , but personally I think it's a pointless task and put's emphasis on your attention craving (all the fire signs are like this in different ways..real talk) and needier foibles 🙂
Not trying to be harsh but I know you can take it anyways DMV 🙂
Like it's not the almighty 'parasite' but it alludes to such a thing in a sense.
Like a P-word with a quicker half-life if you will.
Exes, fwb and all that bullshizz imo is only worth something if they're going to buy stuff from you, that's it..no exceptions to the rule.🙂
Real talk !

i dont think im trying to play him at all. i dont think i was searching for attention. i was having a conversation in the bathroom with a friend of mine. he came in wanting to use the bathroom and we let him use the bathroom.

Posted by ellessque
i would have handed him a paper towel to dry off his hands, after i spit in it, of course.

HA! i actually did hand him the paper towel role. im not a complete bitch, BUT not one word will be spoken to him until an apology is given.

We know he is married and that was a big no no to date while married, so he should feel bad for that. I think he should apologize for how rude he was when DMV sent him the email I think it was or was it a letter, the way he responded was WAY out of line...... Like DMV said she wanted to smack him, he probably would have got smack if that was me in that bathroom and he said one word to me but that's just my point of view. Ofcourse he might not be worth it but it's just the principle.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV
nope i wasnt leaving the bathroom, why should i. there were 2 bathrooms. he coulda used the other one. im not trying to entice him by any means and we have mutual friends. i just thought it was an interesting scenario. im not looking for advice. just writing on the "aftershocks" (too soon?) of this ship. i dont think i was being childish to be honest.

he knows what the hell he did wrong. he is a smart man.

Seriously, you could've been the mature one here.🙂
It doesn't take that long to have a piss, then you could've strolled bck in and laughed at him with you girl.
*smh*
😛

click to expand

or he could have used the second bathroom. they know how us girls do.

the feelings i had for him dont go away, they never will. i hang onto exes like monkeys hang on to trees. but its not the same type of holding on. in my mind, they took a piece of me with them. im happy with my fishie.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by scorpdiva
We know he is married and that was a big no no to date while married, so he should feel bad for that. I think he should apologize for how rude he was when DMV sent him the email I think it was or was it a letter, the way he responded was WAY out of line...... Like DMV said she wanted to smack him, he probably would have got smack if that was me in that bathroom and he said one word to me but that's just my point of view. Ofcourse he might not be worth it but it's just the principle.

YOu won't get that form anyone if there's someone new.
It's wishful thinking and a little ego-ish.
I thought the Sag thing was *shrug...next✨ ?

click to expand

nope, a wrong is a wrong. if you have done wrong to me, you will certainly know it from a change in my behavior. apologizing for some dishonorable is a big deal to me.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV
nope i wasnt leaving the bathroom, why should i. there were 2 bathrooms. he coulda used the other one. im not trying to entice him by any means and we have mutual friends. i just thought it was an interesting scenario. im not looking for advice. just writing on the "aftershocks" (too soon?) of this ship. i dont think i was being childish to be honest.

he knows what the hell he did wrong. he is a smart man.

Seriously, you could've been the mature one here.🙂
It doesn't take that long to have a piss, then you could've strolled bck in and laughed at him with you girl.
*smh*
😛

or he could have used the second bathroom. they know how us girls do.

Stubborn !
Were you tipsy too ?

click to expand

naw, school night and all

Posted by ellessque
i'm not a complete bitch either. only half of one.

nobody would have known i did it but me.

i probably would have sat down and pissed right in front of him too while chatting with my friend. he can stand there and hold it.

he deserves no respect.

but keeping quiet gives him control. i would have acknowledged him....with sarcasm dripping with condescending remarks.

meh, but that's just me. i'm not very nice sometimes.

yeah im different. i just choose to ignore you like a lepor. i think the sag smug is a hard experience for people to take.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV
the feelings i had for him dont go away, they never will. i hang onto exes like monkeys hang on to trees. but its not the same type of holding on. in my mind, they took a piece of me with them. im happy with my fishie.

Well therein lies your problem.
So it's stubbornness mixed in with a sense of the forlorn
*hugz*
I seriously think hanging on to exes is a dumb thing , always.
*hugzz again*

click to expand

i wasnt being stubborn and its not a clingy factor. i just always think about them.

Posted by scorpdiva
We know he is married and that was a big no no to date while married, so he should feel bad for that. I think he should apologize for how rude he was when DMV sent him the email I think it was or was it a letter, the way he responded was WAY out of line...... Like DMV said she wanted to smack him, he probably would have got smack if that was me in that bathroom and he said one word to me but that's just my point of view. Ofcourse he might not be worth it but it's just the principle.

if no apology is given, then no friendship can be salvaged. geez even so, why would i want to be friends with someone like him. who needs enemies?

im not a violent person. my kindness, laughter, smile is a gift to people and makes people feel good. when i take it away, they definitely notice it.

Posted by exoskeleton
"but keeping quiet gives him control. i would have acknowledged him....with sarcasm dripping with condescending remarks."

elle's right, but the thing that would bother him the most is your complete non-reaction from him. be civil and just nice enough like you're over it. then he loses his power.

i agree thats why i hardly acknowledge him.

Posted by ellessque
you need to get internally pissed. not mushy and emotional.

when you are internally pissed your words can be worse then venom.

nope, i dont like that side of me. i believe we can all solves problems with a bit of character instead of burning words meant to hurt the other person.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by scorpdiva
We know he is married and that was a big no no to date while married, so he should feel bad for that. I think he should apologize for how rude he was when DMV sent him the email I think it was or was it a letter, the way he responded was WAY out of line...... Like DMV said she wanted to smack him, he probably would have got smack if that was me in that bathroom and he said one word to me but that's just my point of view. Ofcourse he might not be worth it but it's just the principle.

if no apology is given, then no friendship can be salvaged. geez even so, why would i want to be friends with someone like him. who needs enemies?

im not a violent person. my kindness, laughter, smile is a gift to people and makes people feel good. when i take it away, they definitely notice it.

You just said you keep people around though ?

click to expand

no i dont keep people around per se. i hold on internally in my mind. i think about them.

Posted by ellessque

Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV is the kind girl you wanna go "You crazy !...shush don't talk back, woman!!" ruffle her hair and give her a hug.🙂

EXACTLY.

you NEED to get pissed so you can get over this.

not sad. PISSED. REALLY PISSED. RAWR.

click to expand

lol @ rawr



im not pissed anymore. i still havent gotten over things with my ex leo or my ex fish. the scorp is no exception. doesnt mean i build a shrine in their honor. i just never forget the good or the bad.

Posted by ellessque
take every great thing about him and twist it. twist it til it's ugly.

then spit those words. not in an angry way. a SARCASTIC, nonchalant way. in passing.

let his head spin and play tricks on him.

nope, make love and not war. thats not my personality. im a bubbly person. yes i get angry and its not a pretty sight. any real anger that i have is always shortlived. but disappointment lingers forever.

Nah I agree with DMV I think ignoring him was the best medicine.
If you had engaged in convo with him your guard would have slipped and he would have seen you still cared/like him.
Us scorpios are good at reading ppl from thier eyes and dialogue.
Thats why I always avoid eye contact and ignore them. Yup got to keep my composure.
Trust me,what you did wounded him...thats why he spent te rest of the night trying to catch your eye.

Posted by ellessque
THEN you'll get an apology.

til then, you are at his mercy. he'll chuckle and smirk at you everytime he's close enough because he knows YOU are exerting all this energy to ignore him. you are sag. it takes every single bit of your energy to consciously ignore him. that's too much work and he knows it.

actually it doesnt. 🙂 i find it a breeze to be smug with people i dislike. its like second nature. i dont like doing it but it happens.

Posted by ellessque
not over the leo or fish?

take it out on the scorp and get a three-for-one.

you have to stop holding on to these asshats, chicca.

take it out on someone!!!!!!!!

lol. NO! 🙂 thats not nice. im a goody two shoes and i think thats what people really like about me. id rather laugh and smile than anything else.

i just realized i spelled "visit" wrong in the title lol

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by ellessque
not over the leo or fish?

take it out on the scorp and get a three-for-one.

you have to stop holding on to these asshats, chicca.

take it out on someone!!!!!!!!

elle, you are so angry! 😛 aries moon.

click to expand

rawr!

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Cigarillo for me personally.
Stogies are too big and look like one's smoking a massive dried turd.

oooh i love cigarillos. especially peach!

Posted by ellessque

Posted by DMV

Posted by ellessque
THEN you'll get an apology.

til then, you are at his mercy. he'll chuckle and smirk at you everytime he's close enough because he knows YOU are exerting all this energy to ignore him. you are sag. it takes every single bit of your energy to consciously ignore him. that's too much work and he knows it.

actually it doesnt. 🙂 i find it a breeze to be smug with people i dislike. its like second nature. i dont like doing it but it happens.

then why aren't you over the leo and the fish? Ignoring them too?

you are collecting idiots in your head and think you are doing yourself justice by being the bigger person and ignoring them.

it's okay to be mad. it's healthy.

click to expand

i am over them, its just that i dont forget the good times or the bad times. its not in me. even with friends. i dont let go. for the right people, its an endearing character trait.

they are more than idiots.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Cigarillo for me personally.
Stogies are too big and look like one's smoking a massive dried turd.

oooh i love cigarillos. especially peach!

See how you show your awesome so easily ?
Cherry or Vanilla for me please.
Even though I'm on/of quitting right now, you don't inhale the smoke with cigars so it's kinda not the same imo.

click to expand

i smoke the marley.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
DMV is the kind girl you wanna go "You crazy !...shush don't talk back, woman!!" ruffle her hair and give her a hug.🙂

or hit with an inflatable bat!

i wish they would just hurry up and legalize it. im getting tired of tracking done my supplier.

its going to be a great day when i can order Marley off the dollar menu at Mcdonalds.

ive seen some therapists use that strategy. i do some boxing here and there and its a pretty good stress reliever.

Posted by ellessque
i have a sag male friend. coolest guy in the world. we've been friends for years. when we both were single we'd go out and dance. always platonic. best times of my life.

anyways...i lost touch after i got married to the ex scorp.

found him on facebook last week and was so happy to see he's finally in a relationship, has a son and a baby on the way. his girlfriend has a daughter from a previous relationship.

anyways...........i'm scoping out his page and hers. she is ALL over his page, pics and all. her and the kids. so, i checked out her page. there was no security so i could see everything. there is no mention of him anywhere. NOT ONCE. i was kind of sad. there weren't even any pics of their son. only her daughter from the other father.

i felt sick.

i thought "what a effin bitch!!".

..and of course, the free spirit, don't want to make anyone mad or ruffle their feathers, nature in him won't say shit.

i wanted to cry. for real. i'm thinking he's finally happy and i can only assume, only based on what i saw, that's she's walking all over him.

i know random. but he's on my mind.

ive actually seen this same unevenness with people on fb too. some people are private with their personal lives. but if shes gots pics of her boozing it up, she can have a pic of her kid and hubby somewhere.

Posted by exoskeleton
LOL @ DMV.

pass the dutchie. please.

on the left hand side.

the ex fish was there last night too. he looked good. i feel like slapping him sometimes 2.

Posted by ellessque
no, she doesn't have her birthday on there. GAWD i want to knoooowwwwwwwwww.

why her daughter and not their son?

he's got pics of all this "family" time, the park, chuck e cheese, the kids making hot cocoa. they look like they maybe about 2 years apart.

her wall is plastered with pics of the daughter....and her. but no son and not ziggy. (that's what we called him 😛)

bitch. *smh*

he is so damn sweet. he's about 5' tall. thin. can dance like nobody's business. smiling eyes. he's not unattractive at all. Great sense of humor. never really had a girlfriend. i didn't realize he was a sag til i found him.

he tried to kiss me once. it was way awkward. we giggled for about an hour and that was that. from then on we were besties 🙂

ive seen a few peoples pages and come to find out they have kids and married but youd never know i from their FB page. i find it odd. wouldnt you want to show off your family?

your an aries moon 2? i see the agression and name calling lol.

i know, i know. i just dont like that side of myself. it aint pretty.

it def is passionate!

i express those planets differently. i use those "powers" for good and not evil LMAO.

id rather use that cunning vocabulary to tell a great story or a great joke or to make the room laugh. i use the scorpio moon to help rather than to hurt. if im intutive or manipulative, i use to it to better people.

i know im a total spazz.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I would grab you and drag you by the hand if I was at that party, DMV.

LOL and do what?

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I would grab you and drag you by the hand if I was at that party, DMV.

LOL and do what?

Invigorate/antagonise/offend/goad those douches, and get real smart with teh pottymouth aka 'Voice of God' (that's what my name means anyways), air their dirty laundry right there with your help, then laugh all whilst delivering the redeemer !
hahaha
They'd be all drunk and crying or like 'hold me back, hold me back, I don't know what I'm capable of!' to their bumchums and stuff, it'd be a riot !🙂

click to expand

but wouldnt i come off as the "crazy bitch" if i just completely lost it in front of everyone and just went for the juggular?

then there was this other scorpio whose been eyeing me for a minute. he always has hand arm around my waist and last night, he leans over to me and goes "DMV, fuck it..we should just make out and get it over with." i was speechless, like wth. but i laughed and said nope, im a good girl.

i loved his approach and if i wasnt with the fish and the other scorp wasnt sitting that far away i would have taken him up on his offer.

i actually thought i was being set up to fail or something. like i was walking into a trap.

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet
I would grab you and drag you by the hand if I was at that party, DMV.

LOL and do what?

Invigorate/antagonise/offend/goad those douches, and get real smart with teh pottymouth aka 'Voice of God' (that's what my name means anyways), air their dirty laundry right there with your help, then laugh all whilst delivering the redeemer !
hahaha
They'd be all drunk and crying or like 'hold me back, hold me back, I don't know what I'm capable of!' to their bumchums and stuff, it'd be a riot !🙂

but wouldnt i come off as the "crazy bitch" if i just completely lost it in front of everyone and just went for the juggular?

Not at all, plus you'd have back up if that was the case, I'd take the guys, Elle the girls 🙂

Seriously though, everyone else allows themselves diva moments, why not you ?

click to expand

LOL @ diva moments.

men totally have diva moments.

now this second scorp is a character!

he confessed to friends, myself included that he has lied and told a girl that he loved her just to get stuff outta her. kinda despicable

Posted by beccy
good girl^^ ..having a threesome and stuff

omg how pathetic...........

come again.

Posted by DMV

Posted by beccy
good girl^^ ..having a threesome and stuff

omg how pathetic...........

come again.

click to expand

she's angry at the world.

*whispers* daddy issues

I think she got her car taken away. :/
Or new curfew? Grounded? Idk.

i am the last person who you should beat around the bush with. just say whats on your mind. if wanna take a jab, dont be scurred.

Posted by brianafay

Posted by DMV

Posted by beccy
good girl^^ ..having a threesome and stuff

omg how pathetic...........

come again.

she's angry at the world.

*whispers* daddy issues

I think she got her car taken away. :/
Or new curfew? Grounded? Idk.

click to expand

car got taken away LOL....good one.

Posted by ellessque
be nice to beccy 😄

lol, what happened to letting that mercury in scorp out the cage?