Bedroom Personalities

Okay, so I have been a naughty little voyeur lately...

So, I found this in somebody else's business:
"Ok, well since were on the topic there are three types of bedroom personalities. Dominant, Submissive, and switchers. Switchers are the least common of the three types, they switch from dominant to submissive, sometimes having a slight preference for one of the other."

It got me thinking about Scorps. All the horoscopes state that Scorpio's are always dominant...

That being said, I don't like always being dominant. While I can state that being in a sexual relationship where I would have to be submissive 100% of the time would SOOOOOOO not work for me (and I have a hard time comprehending that a man might not like occasionally pinned against a wall and have his clothes ripped off of him), I do not think that I would completely enjoy 100% domination either. I am really having a hard time deciding which I like the most (even trying to think about which one I like a itty-bitty-bit more), and keep jumping back and forth between my choices (do you think that is my Gem Moon?). So, I think I would prefer 50% /50% the most, with 75% /25% being workable (either way).

So, I am curious, which are you?

And which part of a person's astrological chart do you think would truly influence their preference?

Just curious...

"I've found a lot of Scorpios to like coming across as being dominant, but secretly a lot of em love to submit and be humiliated and spanked and stuff. They also sometimes veer on being bi-sexual."


- Spanked? - I am game...
- Humiliated? - Don't think I game...
- Bi-Sexual? - Hrmm... While I can say that I find women attractive, perhaps even in some small way sexually attractive, I always tended to think that was common for women. As for bi-sexual, I think women are lacking an important quality for me...being a man. I am not talking merely about plumbing, but there is just something yummy about a MAN... 🙂


"the women I think actually like being dominant."


I like being dominant, sometimes... Not all the time, though. As I said, there is just something yummy about a MAN. Any man that just cannot step up to the plate needs to be recategorized...

I like being dominant, dont like being dominated? no idea why!

I like alternation; I like experimentaion even more...... 😉I will try just about anything once.....so long as it's hot, heavy, and won't let up easy! I like ing untill the pain sets in!! I LUV SEX....I like the charming a person into the bed room....It's like I transform; I'm on that SPECIES SH1T!! LOL really I'm a Sex Hound!.....

I look at sex as one force trying to swallow/dominate the other.....see if you can control me.....😉 I like it forceful, and intense....She'd best bring her A game, cuz if not....I'm not a happy camper.

dominance is the ability to 'let go' of control and recieve it....if you can give as much as you take, you're on top.

give it to me, and don't BS around either; I don't need it on a reg, but I do NEED IT GOOD!!! Virgs, tend to be like camels; we can go for a while without to enjoy the craving, but when we want it.....well, I'll be grabbin' the nearest Scorp, or Aries For some 'Me' time... lol

VE: "well, I'll be grabbin' the nearest Scorp," - LOL..Good to hear 😉

I like to show dominance on occation. "Sit up, roll over, spank me...." But for the most part I LOVE TO BE DOMINATED!!!!! I have to have control over everything in life. It's nice to lay back and let someone else control me (in the bedroom).

But when your in a long term relationship, the best is when you both know what the other needs and there is no dominance. It's just making love. Like riding a peaceful wave.

Only by a professional, kris!

Is he a good spanker? Does he know the correct technique?

"I think women are lacking an important quality for me...being a man."

Thats because in my experience, all Scorpio girls have a fair amount of "Penis Envy".

"..well, I'll be grabbin' the nearest Scorp, or Aries For some 'Me' time... lol"

The Virgo girl I know was like that too. Until she met a Libra guy (me of course), I became the go too for the ultimate in pleasure after that. Good thing one of us is representing. 🙂

"the hell?"

No it's true notso07. It would do a Libra guy interrested in a Scorpio girl some good to understand this. They like the sensual steamy stuff as much as anyone, but sometimes they just want to be ravaged. Anywhere and everywhere.

Penis-Envy... LOL... I suppose that is possible. But, as I stated, it is more than just plumbing. There are many concept of manly-ness that go beyond merely the plumbing.

Ravaged? I certainly wouldn't put up a fight, too much... 😉


Extreme S&M, I guess I might try, but I doubt it would really get my goat... I am always game to try most things.

"Ummm, no, sorry, nic. May I call you, nic?"

Yeah, totally.

Sorry, I wasn't referring to the humiliation. I wasn't clear on that. I haven't known any Scorpio ladies that want to be humiliated during sex.


"Besides, in the following post, she claimed that Scorpio women generally prefer being dominant."

In my experience they naturally revert to dominance because it is the surest way for them to get what they want in the bedroom. However, I feel that they like the guy to take control. They have the push-pull and teasing thing down really well in the bedroom. They secretly want to be picked up thrown on the bed and "taken" but it is hard to see because they are so willing to initiate that most people don't see passed the initial. I don't really think it is a definate either way with them. If they want to take the lead they will roll you over and mount you, but at the same time they will also hint you into taking charge as well.

"Ravaged? I certainly wouldn't put up a fight, too much... "

See what I mean? Scorpios are detectives, they like to explore the underlying motives and have a great curiosity, this flows over into the love life as well. They may not outright want it to be a cirtain way, but they are down for figuring it out.