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😢 it takes too much patience to love a scorp.

No shit and we're supposed to be the sign with the most patience, right?

Aww..whats he done

Capricorns and Aquarius have always worked for me.

I'd say it requires much more than patience!

No, just understanding...

The way you say "just understanding" makes it seem so simple 😛.

Exactly! Because they don't exactly provide you with a guidebook on how to understand them. Far from it.

Lol..oh ok..well you know what to do then..

Its a hard knock life..

What is the problem TG.

Not patience. Understanding like MM says.

TO KNOW US IS TO UNDERSTAND US.


Aprilbaby

"Nice Virgo boy for ya will do the trick"

Virgos are nice, but lets not get it wrong here...they can also be an ass.

I just stop speaking to my virgo friend of 8 years because he did not stick to his word and he can't be man enough to tell me and he claim to really care. That is grounds for losing a friendship with me.

And that is what I don't like about virgos, they talk shit about what they are going to do and think you won't hold them to it but I do.

Hey don't be....

When he get some guts he will call and I will remind him of his word and make him look silly.

losing friends is not a big deal to me. because most of my friends are special to me and they know it, so for them to lose my friendship will hurt them more than it will hurt me. and I am not bragging or anything is just that I lay it on the line at the begining...

I'm telling ya, Capricorn or Aquarius for us.

HP

I think Capricorns are whimps and I don't believe in working to hard for a relationship if I have to do the majority of the work myself. Not happening....ha ha

Aquarius - I have never dated but if I did run across one I can't say how the relationship would be but I know it will be challenging...LOL

I like Aquarians..

If you can get past their arrogance at times, they are actually quite likeable and lovable.

I don't take well to people who are arrogant. That shit drive me crazy especially if I know they aint shit.

You know.

I don't mind arrogance, I love debating and arguing so arrogance is tolerable..

"can only tolerate arrogance if they have the intelligence to back it up with"

Yep thats it..for instance, I know I have it so I will argue the toss with someone to prove it 😛

"it takes too much patience to love a scorp."

did TG elaborate...i must've missed it?

patience is a virtue...the trick is figuring out if it's worth the wait
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OK ur totally right mm. Understanding is the key to loving a scorp. One of his friends told me back home before I moved to be with him that "he (my scorpbabe) is a very misunderstood man, but he loves you to death, don't forget that."

I am patient, otherwise I wouldn't be here, and I wouldn't of allowed myself to love him. You can love or understand a person all you want but I think if I don't communicate my needs or things that he needs to do than if will go sour.

He needs to understand ME TOO! It goes back to that whole double standard thing! lol 😉

PEACE LOVE y'all!

"In my opinion, love has no patience nor reason...Are there easier men to be with? Sure there are...but I'm sure easy isn't where your love lies..."

Very well put, DB! 🙂

Patience and time is what you need, TG! No one ever said love was easy...Good luck!

TG: "if I don't communicate my needs or things that he needs to do"

By this statement alone, it seems you want him to do things YOUR way. Come on, you should know by now that isn't going to work..Thats a form of control. Two control freaks aren't going to work trust me. And how nice of his friend to tell you that...if he's discussed it with his friends, he DOES geniunly care..Yes I admit there are some real bastard scorpio men out there, but your one seems so geniune and sweet. And the fact that you have up sticks and left to be with him means A HELL OF A LOT to him..he won't ever forget that..

You CAN communicate your needs, but just pick the right moment. Are you intuitive? Can you detect when your scorpio is in need of space?. I give you an example..today I am feeling pretty damn shit and I know my scorp is also feeling the same..Don't ask me why but I detected it..He phoned me about an hour ago and I said hey I am the one suffering PMT whats your excuse..lol..he said I am feeling your PMT too..I am receptive..so I was right in leaving him alone this afternoon..cos I wasn't going to get a conversation out of him anyway..he came to me when he was ready!..You just have to pick the right moments to communicate your needs...Don't force them on him or whinge about it..just tell him straight and he will listen..They are good lads..

Awww...I am sorry TG you are having problems with your Scorp and yes it does take a lot. Any Scorpio on this board that says it doesn't is lying. We know how annoying we can be sometimes...we can't help it though. To know us is to love us and that is the god honest truth.