can u take what u put out u SCORPions?!!

U can be so harsh & and tough, but then are soooooooooooo fukkin sensitve, what double standards!

having trouble with your scorp?

taurusgoddess...i think it's HOW you say it to them..tone of voice and all that stuff...i'm probably wrong though lol

Some can't take it back, but others (like me) can. If I know I deserved it, I put my hand up and accept it..but then dish it tenfold the second time around..LOL..

only joking..well actually I do..lol

Its not fair but thats life..get used to it.

No troubles, my roomie got me Super drunk on red wine last nite & then I call my hunny, and it sounded like a bunch of people were there & he was being a little short with me, so i called back and left just a nasty message, well about how when he is down I do my damnedest to make sure he feels better & when i need to talk he's not always there, so ya, i pretty much called him an a $ $ .

I mean there was reason, but i only voiced it cuz i was drunk.

Point being, the whole double standard thing. My sis is the same fukking way!

Get used to it is right MM! OUCH!!! lol

It's true, we do have double standards. I don't know if a nasty message is the way to go. If you can tell him without loosing your cool, he may realize it faster and come to apologize. A little strategy could be good, but you tauruses want to have it straight so I don't know.

LOL @ TG 😉

Ya, being straight while being drunk was not my best play! lol

I think I'm just gonna slip away from calling him till tommorow. It's crazy I'm moving in exactly a week, and I acting like a nutjob already! haha, he'll send me back! 😢

TG, that actually sounds like something a scorp would do! It sounds like you are sabotaging yourself. Maybe you have some doubts about the whole thing? If he is not making you emotionally secure about the move, that could explain why you were feeling the urge to call him while drunk. But you are a wise woman and are figuring things out more or less in real time so that's good🙂 That might take me a week to figure out for myself 😢 We scorps get so blinded by our emotions. It's an affliction.

TG, it also sounds like self-fulfilling phophecy...lay low and evaluate things. one thing to remember is he is still living his life without you moving in yet. don't suffocate him. perhaps this get together was planned in advance and i know when I'm hosting a party, I don't want to be rude by staying on the phone.

We tauruses have a good knack for self-fulfiing phophecies - willing something negative that hasn't happened to come true.

Yeah we are double standard we can definitely dish it out but it is hard to take BUT when we take it and if we have to dish it out a second time "shaking of head" you better watch yaself. You may have caught your Scorp at a bad time though. Tell him about it and move on 🙂 Good Luck with the move in "hee-hee"

" figuring things out more or less in real time so that's good"

Oh ya, when he moved I told him that I would of wanted more time, u know just to let time take it's course on us. Now I'm force feeding all dramatic sitiations to see how we do in them. How he feels, or acts. It feels like it's some sick testing, but i don't really try it.

When we get into issues he always says, don't forget I love you. BUT, the little things matter to me too, sometimes love isn't enough.

Don't get me wrong I'm pumped about going & confident in us, cuz we keep growing & battling though & learning each other.

No one is perfect - you know, I don't even want perfect, because that isn't real. I love the 'real' people in my life.

Depending on the circumstances,I take it......think about it....then I respond. If I was quicker on the response I don't know if it would be better or not. My responses are usually rational. Sometimes I wish I was quicker because then things wouldn't drag out so long and become ponderous and heavy.

The other response is defensive, I've been a lot worse lately keeping my head. Primarily I keep quiet because my spouses reactions are primarily defensive and I hate to feed that fire. We're both reactionary right now. I'm just tired of letting things simmer away inside me now!

Good luck with your move and your scorpio. I only know one scorpio male and he's incredible. He's a dynamo in the world of climate change education! A soft spoken super nice genuine guy. Evolved for sure.

"have patience-ur greatest virtue as a taurus..."

sometimes I wonder if I was meant to be an aries....i don't think i carry the patience gene at times...

Oh man, I think I screwed up, I'm not sure exactly what I said, but I remember him saying how he HATES mean messages on his phone - well who doesn't,

But I texted him hello, & no response, so he's probally pissed off bad. Fuming little scorpio and mean bully.

i told you to lay low....

self-fulfilling phophecy....look it up.

TG, we scorps do the testing thing too, to see if we can really trust. I do agree it can give you info, but sometimes at a great cost... I liked your response about how you are really open to figuring each other out, yet you are basically forcing a response, and there are two possible outcomes. One, he reacts in a considerate matter and shows you he really cares for your wellbeing even despite you freaking out for a bit. Two, he reacts irritated and pushes back, wchich can put doubts in your head. If you have decided to move in and feel that decision is based on solid experience, then why test him now?

Thank u HP.

Why test scorpoffcharts? Because u never ever really totally know someone. But ur right.

bling, where've you been?!!!!!!!!!!!!

With Scorps, its all about how you word things and the tone of voice that is used....the difference between the two can spell the difference between a night of make up sex and a night of secretly planning a way to "get you back" with a scorpio. No one understands this better than an well-educated cancer....because we are the same way (except instead of getting you back we'll just ignore you for a day or two)....

Ya my cancerex did that to me. Man, that drove me nuts!

😢 omg, scorps still hasn't called me, I think this is bad. f f ffffffffffff
I gotta go out 2nite & totally get my mind off, just space for everyone!

What's everyone doing 4 the weekend? 🙂

PS. to anyone getting drunk & having relationship issues...LEAVE YOUR CELL PHONE AT HOME!!!

I need to learn yoga, I could use an hour long massage too.

Hey, PM, where's ur poem from?

On your profile, kinda cool. 🙂

Oh man, my mom just called they are FREAKING that I'm leaving. FFFFFFFF if only my babe realized, he'd understand why I need a little extra love right now. 😢

deep breah, deeeeeeeeeeeeeep breath

Wow, that's really good, do u write lots?

Ya, I know, and he should. It just really sucks when I'm sitting here helpless and about to completely transform my world and be with him. I realized I am moving for more reasons, it took time, but I really really do wanna move, be reinspired in a beautiful place.

I can't wait to attempt my yoga in the mountains. 🙂

and it helps your posture!

😛

relaxxxxxxxxxxing weekend! 🙂

Hows everyone doing? OMG, I decided I'm gonna kidnap my nephew, I cried when i left the farm, he's just so precious! I think I'll miss that guy the most.

Anyways, doing my yoga streching & my friend gave me "healing beads" whatever that does.

so no drunken calls this weekend to the Scorp? That's good to hear.

Kids do have a calming effect, especially when you can send them home after you're done with them! 😛

hey where has taurusgoddess been? i've haven't "seen" here on here lately.

don't get overly emotional there aprilbaby...what would your guy think? 😉