Cancer man going thru break with Scorpio woman

So I was with this Scorpio woman off and on for about 2 years. For some reason she always decide to break up with me around the same time. Which I find weird and confusing. I do all of the thongs that are right like taking her out to dinner make her feel pretty by bringing her flowers to work and buying her gifts every now and then to let her know I am thinking of her. She said she feels as if I am trying to buy her love by doing all of these things. But when I explained to her that I am making a scrapbook that can't fit on paper so that the world can see how much I love her she goes silent and doesn't say another word. Somewhere in the middle of the conversation where i told her : " i will wait for you." Also, i said "you can't be holding me back if this is where I want to be" she said and I quote: she " But don't give up please for me your doing wonderful". She also said "I just need time to grow" She said she felt like she is holding me back because she is not ready for a commitment. She was in an abusive relationship before me. It's like every time I get close to her she runs away. She wanted me to stop lying I did just that. She wanted me to get a better job I did that. She said herself she is scared of commitment. Its like I get the feeling she wants me to fight for us and pull out the fire I am holding back. She has moved out of her moms house and I was going to go with her. Until she stopped me dead in her tracks. I am a cancer-leo cusp she is a scorpio-saggitarius cusp.

ugh u CANCERe. MAN UP AND GET OVER IT. BITCH. JK

Posted by SuperMissMan
ugh u CANCERe. MAN UP AND GET OVER IT. BITCH. JK

That's the problem whenever I go out and find somebody else she pops back up in my life saying she misses me and wants to see me.

Posted by flowingwater
Sorry you're going through this 😢

I'll be okay

hey dude i was joking. talk to her about this....ask herwhat she needs in order to feel loved..what u need togive her. you may not be fulfilling it like you think uar. thts wht happened to my cance bf. explin to her you need to knkw...tel her yoy try. tel her you can give her exactly the type of love she needs. look into love languages

Posted by SuperMissMan
hey dude i was joking. talk to her about this....ask herwhat she needs in order to feel loved..what u need togive her. you may not be fulfilling it like you think uar. thts wht happened to my cance bf. explin to her you need to knkw...tel her yoy try. tel her you can give her exactly the type of love she needs. look into love languages

There is no talking with her. She wants results. She won't give the recipe even if I asked. She wants me to figure it out. BTW I knew you was joking. But, in all honesty that is what she does to me. She knows I am capable of that but what she doesn't know the level of my capabilities. I read her like a book and that terrifies her. She has no control of her feelings when I overwhelm her. That scares her immensely.

Posted by SuperMissMan
hey dude i was joking. talk to her about this....ask herwhat she needs in order to feel loved..what u need togive her. you may not be fulfilling it like you think uar. thts wht happened to my cance bf. explin to her you need to knkw...tel her yoy try. tel her you can give her exactly the type of love she needs. look into love languages

There is no talking with her. She wants results. She won't give the recipe even if I asked. She wants me to figure it out. BTW I knew you was joking. But, in all honesty that is what she does to me. She knows I am capable of that but what she doesn't know the level of my capabilities. I read her like a book and that terrifies her. She has no control of her feelings when I overwhelm her. That scares her immensely.

Posted by flowingwater
I went through the same of being hurt by a Scorpio, now it's just war between us.

Just stay strong and if moving forward feels right, than do it. You know what's best for you. Hope all goes well in the end.

In all honesty she doesn't want me to move on and I don't either. Her fear is controlling her positive attitude and will not let her be happy at all.

another cancer thinking they overwhelm a scorpio lol. you are what is called a yo yo. you know what that is? think about it. what does a yo yo do? when you throw it out, it leaves. when you pull the string back, it comes back. you are so wide open that she easily uses you to her advantage. of course she likes the nice stuff you do. who wouldn't? but when you start to smother her (and cancers do smother), it's time for you to go away so she can get some space. when she wants you to come running back again, you do. you're being manipulated/ used. if you really read her like a book, you'd know that. sorry to say, but that's what it is.

Posted by LadyYin
another cancer thinking they overwhelm a scorpio lol. you are what is called a yo yo. you know what that is? think about it. what does a yo yo do? when you throw it out, it leaves. when you pull the string back, it comes back. you are so wide open that she easily uses you to her advantage. of course she likes the nice stuff you do. who wouldn't? but when you start to smother her (and cancers do smother), it's time for you to go away so she can get some space. when she wants you to come running back again, you do. you're being manipulated/ used. if you really read her like a book, you'd know that. sorry to say, but that's what it is.

Actually, you could be right. Because I just saw the pattern. The crazy part about that is this is not the first time this has happened to me it happened with another Scorpio woman where she would do the same thing. I became very cold and reluctant to bend to her will where she got on bended knee and proposed. You have allowed me to connect the dots here. And both of them came from bad situations. I feel as if I'm being tested. There is a reasoning. Behind the constant testing.

And for some reason whenever I try to move on. She would blindside me as if she knows what I'm doing. And say : "your still mine". Both of them would actually do that as if I opened them up. For some reason this has just to my mind she writes her name on me with her fingertips.

Everytime I saw a post coming from a cancer man I'm thinking *stihl*.

Jprepti,

I am scorpio with sagittarius rising. She is afraid to deal with the unknown future with you.

Can you be patient with her so she can survive in her part dealing her emotions.
In dealing a Scorpio woman you should be financially stable so she feel security. it's not all about love love love.
We like power .

Posted by M143

Everytime I saw a post coming from a cancer man I'm thinking *stihl*.

Jprepti,

I am scorpio with sagittarius rising. She is afraid to deal with the unknown future with you.

Can you be patient with her so she can survive in her part dealing her emotions.
In dealing a Scorpio woman you should be financially stable so she feel security. it's not all about love love love.
We like power .

Okay, I will take your word for it and be patient. And I am financially stable I have 2 jobs working on getting a full-time job.