Scorpio Male w/Independent Cancer Female

I know that Scorpios are very self-sufficient, but I was curious about some thoughts Scorpio males had about independent, Cancer females. Cancers are known to be 'clingy,' gentle, shy, but what about a more extroverted cancer female?

@O.P..

The good thing is Cancer and Scorps have a deep understanding.

You already realised she is an independent person so give her space to do what she do!

Honest communication is key here, if something is bothering you (speak to her directly about it).We love having deep coversations with our boo boo!

I'm sure she would want to know if something is bothering you that she could possibly fix...or try to work out a solution to make you feel a little more comfortable with us.

*her not us.

Cancer women have a duality because we are also Cardinal which gives us a little push.
We can be quiet and gentle but we can also be very outgoing and independent.

Whenever I have gone out with a Scorpio male, I have felt as if I am a bit too much for them.
One told me he thought I was a handful, so I started to downplay my more rambunctious nature to be more demure.
Then it went nowhere. I think he wanted the full on intensity & loony tunes, that Lunar women are known for.

Be yourself, I think if any male is going to understand the natural duality of a Cancer woman it's a water male.
If a Scorpio male has fire and possibly earth in his chart he may actually enjoy the outgoing nature of his Lunar woman. 😉

Posted by Reincarnation
It should be fine.

I think it's harder on the extroverted Cancer's part to accept Scorpio's stoical disposition and tendency to brood.

Extroverted Cancers can handle stoic and brooding, but they can't tolerate not showing up and being present. Non of that is an excuse to not pull your own weight in a relationship.

I haven't met a scorpio man who had a problem with my personality, other than by the end of the day they might reach for ear plugs. I talk A LOT.

What makes you so chatty moon?

I'm not sure which placements to blame. I have some Gem, Leo, Libra, Aqua, Sag, Aries.....who to blame, who to blame!? lol

lol your chart sounds a lot like mines,Gem Mercury I'm sure is why I'm so chatty.

I have a Leo mercury, I should be a motor mouth. 😆

I'm leo mercury, gem saturn.

Posted by MoonArtist
I'm leo mercury, gem saturn.

So am I. 😱

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by MoonArtist
I'm leo mercury, gem saturn.

So am I. 😱

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~glomp~ We're practically twins!

We should have a Leo Merc club 😄

Scratch that....we should have an awesome crabs with awesome placements club 😄

One more catlady / Leo mercurian here! Hi!

just from the sun signs i think this is a very compatible match. my girl friend was hooking up with a scorpio male and i remember her telling me that she never felt such passion before. sooooo, thumbs up for this combo.

Don't forget me, I'm a Leo Merc too.

Posted by Rabbit
AKA The Catlady Club

**ducks and runs out the door**

~throws feral cats at Rabbit~

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
just from the sun signs i think this is a very compatible match. my girl friend was hooking up with a scorpio male and i remember her telling me that she never felt such passion before. sooooo, thumbs up for this combo.

But did she have a Leo Merc though?

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
just from the sun signs i think this is a very compatible match. my girl friend was hooking up with a scorpio male and i remember her telling me that she never felt such passion before. sooooo, thumbs up for this combo.

But did she have a Leo Merc though?

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Why, what's wrong with Leo Merc?