I am a Taurus mother who is seeking advice on how to best raise a Scorpio boy. He's 3.
Caring for a Scopio
give him the attention he needs
The only word of advice I have for you is keep doing what you are doing. You obviously love your son and want to do the best you can for him. I am a Scorpio and am very devoted to my loving parents..the only thing that tears us apart is them invading my privacy or space. When your son grows up remember how important it is to a Scorpio to be independent. Do not try to control your son or he will grow to be resentful. Give him loving guidance and I'm sure he will turn out wonderful. Good luck to you.
One piece of advice that I would give, is let him always have some sort of "secret" spot, like a place where he can keep his treasures or anything he wants. Or a secret place he can just physically retreat to--(Within the limits of safety of course)--such as a tent that you keep in your back yard or even inside your house, or a special room he can go to where he won't be disturbed. When he gets older, resist the urge to pry into his private papers, or anything that you suspect he would like to keep hidden for whatever reason. I will you tell you that one major source of discord in my house as I was growing up was the fact that my parents sometimes would read my journal and got hrough my personal notes and papers. Lots of fights over that! : ) I'm a scorp, so the things I want to keep private have to remain that way or I will have even bigger issues with paranoia and distrust as scorps are automatically inclined to have already, without provocation.
Good luck to you!
Love,
Heather
Good luck to you!
Love,
Heather
Thanks for the good advice everyone!
You're welcome! Also, talk to him fairly early about safe sex...he will be curious and interested early, so make sure there's no mysteries he feels the need to solve on his own if you know what I mean! ; )
Heather
Heather
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