Confused

Scorpio here.I just want to know one thing.Like why the heck do we get obsessed over people.Even if we know there is no chance of anything happening with all our scorpio instincts screaming at us to NOT follow this path, but lo and behold, despite having such strong hold on ourselves (for the most part), we still start to obssess over a no-good person.Like WHY? I am fed up.I want to stop this.I don't want to keep obssessing over some guy who I know is not upto my potential. How can I do this? Can you fellow Scorps help me?How to stop such obsessive thoughts and to bring positive energy in my life?

The only reason i obsess is because i see potential of who that person could be or have an attachment to the story i've created around that person and I hold onto that..

But it honestly comes from a deeper realm.

You should be asking yourself why you are obsessing. Why do you feel like you can't let go? What type of feelings does this person bring up for you? How do you feel when you are incessantly thinking about this person? Is there someone in your life (parent/guardian/sibling/someone you look up to) who somehow resembles this persons behavior?

Everyone in your life is your own manifestation reflecting something back to you that you can expand from.. So, what is it that he is telling you about yourself?

When you understand why you're manifesting something in a certain way that's when you gain the power to release it. Look inside of yourself. That is where the true answers lie.

It's Pluto's curse😈

I've learned to live with it. At the moment I'm obsessing over 📚books📚, it's much healthier than people and less heartache...people rarely live up to Pluto's expectations..

Posted by alexscaries

Scorpio moon here, also Aries sun. I am trying to figure people out, know their nuances and see if they are compatible, maybe part of it is the need to help them by confronting what is "hidden" be that dark emotions or repressed sexuality.

Are you Scorpio dominant, Alex?

You're simply an over thinker and over analyzer. It's important for you to learn NOW how to control your thoughts. Thoughts can be emotionally triggering and cloud JUDGMENT.

You "see" his potential? Potential is NOT enough. Be realistic. That's only fair.

The 3 month rule above works. I know. I fell in love with someone who (1) I didn't want to love and (2) didn't deserve my love. Why? Potential wasn't enough nor will it ever be. Put the 3 month rule in effect and guess what? I very seldom even THINK about the dude. Thank God I'm back to myself. No more obsessing over what could be 🤦 Ish was exhausting and so UNFAIR to me ❤️