Confused Scorpio looking for advice...

It seems like I have the worst luck with relationships. I was on here last year around October, November, when I started dating a girl that was also a Scorpio. In fact we were born two days apart. Anyways, that didn't last. I found out she was cheating on me, so I broke up with her. Since then my luck with women has pretty much gone down hill from there. I either find someone I'm attracted to, and they're not feeling mutual. Or, I find someone, and I'm not sure about what the hell is going on. Lately, I've gotten so frustrated with the whole thing that I've pretty much given up. I've come to terms. There is someone out there, I'll let her come to me.

Well, recently, I had a girl send a friend request to me that I went to the same school as. She said I looked familiar and wanted to get to know me. Well we ended up meeting up at a bar and hit it off really well, seeing as how this was the first time we've ever even talked. The whole night she would say things and then give me a wink. Kinding teasing with me about certain things. At the end of the night she gave me a hug and friendly kiss. Since then we've been back and forth on the whole myspace thing. She invited me out to a restaurant that she just started working at. In fact it was her first night last Saturday. Of all the girls I've ever talked to, the communication with this one just seems to flow. It's not like we were trying to make up small talk or anything just to keep the converstation going. She kept coming over to my table to talk to me and wouldn't leave for a while.

Once again she was doing the whole eye winking thing, and the teasing. Cracking jokes on me. Nothing to hurt my feelings or anything, just trying to get a rise out of me I guess. Of course it was working. Everything has been going really well since we've met, but she said something Saturday night while I was at her restaurant that kinda freaked me out. She mentioned another guys name, but she's never mentioned him once in conversation up until now. She's also never said whether or not she's single or with someone. I don't just want to come out and ask it. I'm thinking it's gonna make me look like an ass. Either way I'd still like to be friends with her. But this girl just seems like "the one".

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I'm a momma's boy and she's already said she wants to find someone she can take care of, as she considers herself very motherly. Loves to take care of people, cook clean, the whole nine yards. I'm totally attracted to it, her physical apparenance, and her personality. I'm usually very shy with the ladies until I get to know them better. For me to just be totally calm and relaxed around her is very rare. It's almost like my idea of the right girl finding me coming true. I just don't want to be let down yet again.

I've come here, because I was given rather good advice the last time. However, this time I'm going to listen. If it helps she's an aquarias. I'm into the whole zodiac thing, since everything I've ever read about my sign since I got into was almost spot on every time.

If more details are needed, I'll give them. 🙂

Wow, let down once again. I'm hopeless. It was staring me right in the face this whole time and I just realized it. She's with someone...

Thanks anyways.

Dancing Bread, I've read elsewhere that aquas have a tendancy to be very outgoing and seem to give out a lot of false signals to people that they meet. She seems like a very sweet girl an all, and I'd like to be friends or even more with her. It doesn't matter at all. My problem is, I feel like I'm being toyed with and I don't want to lead myself to believe it's more than it really isn't. The last girl I dated did exactly the same thing, it's almost like she didn't want to go out with me, just doing it to be nice or something. Then the last girl I was interested in seemed very interested in me. Then I find out from her friend that she really likes me, but because she's super picky, she just wanted to be friends. It's hard to deal with really. I rather just flat out be rejected, then messed around with, which seems to happen every time. I guess my question is, since I suck at this, is, how do I probe her without sacrificing what friendship we've gotten already. I also don't want to smother her to try to get attention, but I'd like to do everything I can to see if she's interested back.

She says that girls generally know when a guy friend likes them more than a friend, so she says to ride this 'friend' thing out and see what happens...TRUE SAY!

DB:

I'll see what I can bring up regarding relationships. I know I can be creative. I just don't want to say the wrong thing and totally offend her that's all.

Missmorals:

Since you seem to agree with DB, I'll go for the ride I guess. Better to understand the whole situation then hurt her and/or myself.

Thanks!

Want to know her intentions...the topic needs to be about relationships...be creative...mention a woman that you find interesting...or comment about a certain female behavior that you just don't understand...ask for her input....

So that is what scoprs do to find out how much a girl likes them....—??

Gosh your quck undergrad..lol! That is just one little thing in our HUGE database of tricks..

quck=quick?

huge database of tricks eh? indeed....

Rodge,

im an Aqua and i find Scorpio men Freaking awesome 🙂

I agree with DB here... when Aquas are happy in a relationship they will tell you right away coz we are very straight forward people... im assuming she doesnt like that guy as much and isnt quite sure if hes 'the one'.... sometimes Aquas can be shy and dont want to make the first move so shes kind of giving you hints to make the first move....

i totally agree with DB that u should go ahead and ask her if shes available or whatever and comeon thatz not gonna make u look like a loser— NO WAY!!!

i do hope all goes well.... all the best 🙂

Of course I suck at the first move thing. I'm going to have to come up with something creative. I was thinkging about bringing up the subject of what you would change in order to get someone to like you more. For instance, she's a complete health freak and I know she's turned off to smokers. I myself smoke and I'm trying to find other reasons to quit. Here's a start.

Wow there's a name I remember. It's been a while. I guess I can say it's going rather well lately, well minus the whole relationship thing. Then again this seems to be a repeating problem for me. I've grown to live with it I guess. 🙂

'...I was thinkging about bringing up the subject of what you would change in order to get someone to like you more. For instance, she's a complete health freak and I know she's turned off to smokers. I myself smoke and I'm trying to find other reasons to quit. Here's a start....'


Rodge,
Aquas dont want people to change for them....i mean i wouldnt want a guy to give up smoking or drinking if he loves it only for me coz he wont be happy coz he'll be only giving it up to impress me... ( im a health freak too n smokin, drinkin' and excess of anything is a turn off for me )

Yes but im sure she would love it if you gave up smoking for yourself coz you KNOW its not good for your health and not only for her....

But really im impressed how u wanna quit smoking for a girl... itz not very common these days.... i would recommend u quit smoking anyways even if u guyz dont get together 😛😛...LOL.. jus playin....


good luck and hey keep us informed 🙂

'........but as a health freak Eliza......would you NOT go out with someone you were attracted to just because he smoked?....'

ok thatz a tough one...i dont know... i might give him a chance but so far i have never dated a guy who smoked....

'..Because I think that's Rodge's fear and why he wants to quit...'


i understand his fears....and hey im not saying i wouldnt ever date a guy who smokes... but it really is a turn off for me coz a man who smokes or drinks in excess seems like a weak person to me who is a slave to his appetites and have no control over him... but i totally understand people have weaknesses...we all do.... no one is perfect so rejecting a guy coz he smokes is silly...

but emeraldgem i bet this Aqua girl will be darn impressed if Rodge quits smoking coz hey thats not easy ... it requires alot of strength, determination and is hard....

'...)......the only one who can make you do it is YOU.........not because of anyone else and not for anyone else. They may provide the incentive but it is very much your own personal battle....'


i totally agree with you on that coz no one can make you do anything... and even if u do it to impress someone your not going to be happy anyways so why bother—



'...So, I guess I understand "the weakness" but I don't think I see them as weak people in any way....'


by 'weak' i meant those who say they cant think if they dont have a cigarette...LOL... how can u depend on a cigarette or coffee to think right?? this i never understood...

'...I think that says a lot right there about his feelings for her....'


totally agree...

'...granola and bean sprouts and tofu and see where ya are THEN!...'

LOL these r healthy 😛😛😛😛😛😛

but wat good is smoking— i cant think of any health benefits 😛😛😛 can u emeraldgem—?😛

oooh im starving let me grab an apple 😛😛

'...now WHO could want an apple when you can have THAT?...'

lol.. why not take apple in healthy form— why take it loaded with sugar n fat— 😛😛

lol......emeraldgem i was just playin' ... i love chocolate n thatz not very healthy unless its dark chocolate but i go for light one 😛








now who cares if this isnt healthy —? 😛😛😛

'..hahahahhaha...............she's HUMAN.....ohthankgod!....'

😛😛😛

'...But I refuse to give up coffee!...'

i can totally understand if u dont want to 🙂 and come to think of it we're all gonna die anyways whether we eat healthy or not..... you are your own God and you know whats good for you what not 🙂

'...god didn't want me to have coffee he wouldn't have planted it on earth...'

LOL...



'...thank you eliza....'

your welcome 🙂



'...Rodge, we gals are rootin' for ya.....wish ya the best!...'

o yaaaaaaaaaa... go boy 🙂

o ya and Rodge before leaving i thought that might help since ur considering givin' up smoking 🙂


DANGERS OF SMOKING




smoker's Lungs






smoker's skin




SMOKING AND UNFITNESS:
Cigarette smoke contains carbon monoxide - a poisonous gas which replaces oxygen in the bloodstream. When this happens, as it does in smokers, the muscles don?t get enough oxygen to work efficiently. Also the brain and heart are starved for oxygen. This, along with smokers? bronchitis and emphysema, is what makes smokers so much less fit than they should be.



o this can help you too i found it online:

TRY ONE OF THESE METHODS

1. Quit "cold turkey". That is, decide not to have another cigarette ever, and stick to that decision.
2. Switch to a low tar brand of cigarette. Cigarettes are less dangerous if they contain less tar and nicotine. If you find it impossible to quit smoking, it will at least be some benefit to switch to a low tar brand.

3. Form or join an "I Quit" club - a group of people who have kicked the habit and who are helping each other to stay off cigarettes.

4. Enrol in a course sponsored by the Anti-Cancer Council.



good luck and take care buddy 🙂

Wow this went off on a tangent...Holy hell. We go from smoking to eating granola, to a health lesson. Thanks for the support girls!

'....is it like we DON'T know? ....'

i know u already know but hey itz always good to remind ourselves 😛😛

i used to work ( voluntary) with this quit smoking program once and hey this pixxx thing really REALLY works.......u dont know what other hilarious thingz they use which are very effective....


Rodge,

sorry for hijacking your thread 😢... it wasnt our intention you know 🙂... but hey our best wishes are with ya 🙂

'...I know this because I didnt understand it.....'

hahahahahaaha.... 😛