How long does someone have to wait??

Aimed at those with strong Scorpio influence.... 😉

Is it possible for someone with hella Scorpio in his chart to see someone for YEARS and still not be in love?? I mean, his actions show he cares. But I am trying to get him to move in. I want it all. Shouldn't that be a Scorpio trait too? All or nothing? Yet, he seems to be in between and torn. I understand him for the most part. It's just the indecision over something that should have been established a LONG time ago. All I get is "I know we belong together"


Excuse me you guys. I am a little toasted. We haven't spoken in 2 weeks. He calls but I have had it. And am currently trying to kill this off (again).

I can't ever feel for anyone the way I feel for him. Never. I have confronted him and asked and asked and the same evasive answer. I have known him since I was a kid. I know there are posts regarding Scorpio evasiveness. And I should know him by now. But this one particular thing has me all knotted up. How can someone NOT know after 15 years what they want? He has a SAG moon btw. I blame THIS.

WRONG BOARD!! oops! Unless of course someone has all the answers LMAO

..."Why Men Marry Bitches," - Sherry Argov....


LMAOOO so hard I dropped my mouse!!


omg, I think I will check it out LWC. I am soooo at the end of my rope. You have no idea.

In fact he tells me "I think I am attracted to bitchy women. I don't know WHY"..... (referring to me)

Not that I am mean. I went AGES without telling him anything. Except to be there for him. But lately, I am mucho aggressive. I want my patience back.

LWC...THANK YOU...

I will buy it this weekend and give you feedback even. 🙂

Read her screen name kris. Sounds fed up to me 🙂 No doubt with reason🙂

Well, she isn't talking about YOU. So the best thing would be to BE there for her kris. And not be afraid.

..im quite frankly scared of you ...


This is what I am talking about. If she is talking about her cappy, then why should it affect YOU—?

Apparently it IS if she is scaring you....

omg, I have no sympathy for ANYONE right now. I should take a nap.

...have a nice nap...

:::::::questions sincerity:::::::::

Because I don't agree with you of course. Who cares if he is intimidated. When you are trying to be a "real" friend you are NEVER intimidated by someones venting.

Get used to it kris. Women are moody.

I will. I'm off too. For awhile.

I finished one bottle.

...So u r going to end this?...

I am being a bitch right now because I want some concrete answers. I backed off with the real intent to make it stop. I think he is afraid. But I can't imagine why. Yes, he is freedom loving. A freedom loving Scorp 🙂 go figure lol


I don't know.


...or what the both of u need....

Yes. What we both need. I know it.

lol chocolate I wish you were here right now. I would open that 2nd bottle lol!

(((Purrr)))

I have had to do this too. With a very dear soulmate. But I was honest with him. I told him what my needs were, I needed a permanent committment from him, he couldn't do it ... so I walked away. I hung around for a year. He still can't give me what I want so in order to be true to myself, I needed to move on and find someone who can give me what I want.

Sometimes the only way people know what they want, is when they loose it.

(((Purrrr)))

Thank you ((little sparrow))

I've walked away before. For a long time. I am asking him for a lot right now. I don't know. (see scorp board)

Anyways....how was your night?? Did you have fun?

chocolate,

grr, I keep doing that.

....he's just scared, typical..right?...

Yeah. It's a lot. Thank you for the link chocolate. I'm reading it now.

LWC....Yeah, better. I wrote this while my phone was ringing off the hook and drunk lol! Thanks you guys. For listening to this. Feel FREE to please change the subject anytime please 🙂

Hey Purrr

My weekend was very lack-luster. I don't know what is wrong with me. I am not in the mood for going out. I am trying but .... I was home by 11:30 Friday night. I didn't go out Saturday night either. I did go on a hike which was fun but my roommate and I are both being homebodies. I don't know what the problem is!

Little Leo phoned on Friday night and left a nothing message. I didn't return it. He didn't call back either.

These are the days of our libra lives. lol!

BTW, I was prepared to sacrifice my entire life waiting for Virgo-Virgo Rising to get his act together. But when I met Little Leo, he reminded me of all the great things that come with having a partner ... all the companionship, intimacy, sex, fun.

If your guy doesn't step up ... are you willing to give up a lifetime of those things?

Just something to think about.

Changing subject: So did the wine get better after it was open a bit?

LS
Just some unsolicited advice (I am a Leo after all), but you might want to go after someone closer to your own maturity level. I've been hanging out with some people lately that are a little younger than me and I've noticed myself acting very immature. Don't let him bring you down to his level. It takes awhile for most men to grow up, especially Leos...

I agree Cookie.

That is why I didn't return the call.

I sincerely do not believe he is a bad person, but going through a bad time. Which is fine, but doesn't help me. I need to find someone who has their stuff together. Ambivalence is not an attractive trait.

But, in all fairness, I do credit him with helping me get over my ex and reminding me of why men are great and why I really do want one as a partner. Had he not come along, I would probably still be devoted to my ex and not really entertaining the possibility of someone else.

Blessings sometimes come in unexpected ways.

🙂

How was your weekend?

As the Libra World Turns?? lol

Yeah, uneventful here too.

...I was prepared to sacrifice my entire life waiting for Virgo-Virgo Rising to get his act together....

Maybe it's a Virgo rising thing, lol ...my bf has this too.

Yes, the wine did get better. Can you recommend anything fruitier?

IMAO—

I am not familiar with that one. What does it mean?

Don't even start me on the Virgos Purrr. There isn't enough wine in the world. LMAO!

I am not the best at picking wines. Italian Pinot Grigios or German Rieslings are the one I like best. I also like fruit wines like Peach Chardonnay. (ducking as wine coinsures throw things at me.)

How was your weekend chocolate?

(((((chocolate))) good morning sweety. And I hope so.

...Don't even start me on the Virgos Purrr. There isn't enough wine in the world.....

lol little sparrow.

I'm off to work you guys. Wanted to pop in and give some room love. I'll see you all laters 🙂