Are all scorpios so mean?

I was with my scorpio girlfriend for 15months, my 1st real relationship, it was great we got along fab, would have the best talks till early hours in the morning, we had THE BEST sex ever!!! it was just purfect it really was, i absolutly loved the pants off her and she did me, she was 3 years older then me and i was her 1st long term relationship and she love me loads, we obvously had our problems kind of re-occuring problems the sames issues would come up again and again.

we broke up but she used to call me up drunk saying she missed me, crying down the phone telling me to come see her, we got back together for about a month then finally split up, we have been split for about a month which sucks ass, i miss her so much, but when we split this time she was quite mean she said things like I need counselling because i need to love myself before i can love any one
she said i had changed and she doesnt love me anymore
she doesnt want to be with anyone anymore

they are only some of the things she said to me cant rememeber the rest but it hurt,how could she have been so mean if she says she loved me?

so now im cut up about it and i occasionally text her saying i miss her loads and want to get back & she goes made saying she doesnt need the shit.

sorry she said she doesnt need the shit dont know why i typed butter lol?

Maybe she said all those nasty things to help the healing process along. sometimes I do that..I am so mean to people I care about most, especially an ex..its to help them move on with their life.

What you need to do is back off..if she likes you and wants to be together, she'll be back but don't get all mushy on her..we hate that!..feel claustrophobic..give her space..

I am sure other scorpio women will fill you in...

ami virgo19

I went back with my sons father after 6 years of breakup. Why did I go back because I knew he loved and wanted his family back. I told him if this does not work it is OVER, and he understood that. 8 months into the relationship the same stuff came about, I realized that I did not really love him anymore and I left him and has not look back since.

Anybody that I break up it is mostly because I am tired of their crap, shit and all that I have put up with once I make that decision that I am finish, nothing no one can do to change that. That is when I become very stubborn.

And like MM said give her some space you will only make matter worst if you don't because the last thing you want to happen is her royally cussing you out if she has not already done that.

The thing is once I've made a decision to finish it with someone, I have put a lot of time and thought into it and its usually final. I don't stay in contact with ex's either..theres just no point..I really don't see the point..

Why does a Scorpio keep in contact with an ex? Is it because they don't want you to forget them and torture you in some way...

I think the men might..but I certainly don't..I don't see the point. If they contact me, then I will probably be as cold as ice to them..My ex leo just can't let go..he still phones/speaks to me on msn and calls me a heartless bitch..lol..I just laugh..I don't have anything to say to him..its done and dusted for all I care..

Yes scorpio women are mean...they have split personalities/very moody people....well the one I know is.

"I swear you have asked this question more than once softy..."

Probably so DB....because I am still getting tortured and have open teh door for more.......My bad,,,,

I know DB...I have no problem attacting men....But iys something about him that makes me participate in his bullshit...I cussed him out via text over the weekend, numerous of times and of course he ignored him...I sent him one last text today telling him that I apologize for overdoing it this weekend and that I would leave him alone..

All my friends say my scorpbabe has too much attitude. That's the first thing they say, but I don't recieve it. They also say he treats me good, so then who the he11 cares?!!! Attitude is hot. 😛 But there's different kinds of attitude I guess, and meanies suck if it's directed at you. 😢

Yes,we are all mean,DEAL WITH IT😛🙂

Actually im surprised this question is being asked by a virgo,does someone have to send branh after you about astrology stereotypes?And about how we wouldn't know what shes about just because shes a scorp also?

Erm,this part:"she said things like I need counselling because i need to love myself before i can love any one"-this is true.

Did she have some ground on that?Are you insecure or something?That could be what shes telling you if she did,scorp women tend to like strong men which includes self confidence-not to be confused with arrogance or the like front like alot of superficial people nowadays think.🙂

i dont know why she said the things she did but yeah i am quite insecure and the fact she threw it inm my face sucked!!! she is bisexual and when she goes for a guy she likes the big beefy MEN but she fellin love with me because i was the more quiet shy type who'd do anything for anyone! but later on in teh relationship my confidence grew and she didnt like it thats why we broke up!!!

She has control issues..maybe she thought she could control you and when you showed her the confidence side..she thought uh oh..and ran..

Miss Morals - i agree i think it may ne control issues, but why would someone have control issues? i just dont understand - i love her she loves me (she said it just isnt working) so why would she want to control me i'd do anything for her anyway, when we argued i just let her win most things because i aint fussy i'm more laid back! What sign are you MM?