CONFUSED - UPDATE

Just wanted to update all of you who've helped me, both with concerned advice and criticism.... both have been helpful.

He finally broke the camel's back... came up with an STD. Apologized with flowers and a sweet card.... but the fact is, I'm all out of foregiveness. This crap has been going on long enough that I've FINALLY decided to throw in the towel... for real.... my will to move on has kicked in. I pity him really, and that's a good thing... once i've gotten to that point, I really realize he is a hopeless case.

Thanks again to you all. Hopefully, the next time I post I can report that I've found someone worthy of my love and devotion.

Good luck to you all!!!!

204.167,

I heard a very frightening news flash--900,000 people are infected with AIDS in this country.

This guy is not worth your health, or protentially, your life. I know I have said that before, but I'm tellin ya again; please try and spend a little of that attention you give him on yourself, and you will eventually be strong enough to let go. You love him too much!!! There is a book out titles 'women who love too much and the men that hate them' if he can have his cake and eat it too, he is not gonna change. Start with loving yourself and taking care of you and then you will attract the best man for you!

And I am right behind you, ok, you know what I mean. We are all gonna win the fight!

Susan

PS One other thing, he should have been giving you the card and flowers before he got the STD's not because he thinks he f***cked up! Don't let him work ya like that!
Susan

Thanks Susan! Believe me the card and flowers didn't work. I told him under the circumstances I didn't even think I owed him a "thank you" for them. About the AIDS thing, I had a dream that he had AIDS.... that's scary. He's a tall 6'4", big man, and in my dreams he was rail thin. I told him about the dream and I also told him that he was either gonna die of something he catches or some jealous woman was going to kill his A**.

My stinger has finally come out.... and when that happens, I know the rest is history.

Thanks again for your support!!!

I'm happy to hear what your saying but i would really be happy if i knew you good enought to know it,s true.I hope you hang in there and always know you were the winner in the end,and maybe next time he plays that game he'll rember the one that got away. The one that was always to good for him. P.S. The best thing you can do is have no contact at all with him no getting back at him by telling him your bad dreams just do nothing thats your payback.you go girl and i do know for a fact time heals all wounds.

Good for you 204--you did the right thing.