@Skykomish
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio
Damn insensitive Sagittarians
sometimes the words just dont come out right
Yeah that was a bit harsh.
Don't take it personal, she's just trying to push you to try harder. You'll thank her one day.
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*venting*
So my proctor at "work" is a Sag. (actually its a little rediculous how many OR nurses are fire signs). So, I didn't want to drive down yesterday because of the snow, my truck is dangerous in the snow.. and I came in late after basically being told I wouldn't be able to get a job there if I didn't.. of course, how fair is that.. given I'm planning on using my FIRST paycheck to get something decent in snow if I stay here. And I'll be graduating in MAY. I have like 5 months before it'll snow. And not to mention I have very little incentive to risk killing myself to go.. nobody's relying on me, and I'm not only not getting paid, I pay to do this. *pulls out hair* Then today, I was 5 minutes late (roads, I did leave extra early but still). You'd think the world ended. I got majorly chewed out. And my insensitive Sag proctor tells me: you're not even trying, you're not cut out for this, I don't even think you should be in nursing. Of course, with the ONLY exception of being scared to drive to the next town in my shitty truck with 2 inches of snow on the ground and black ice underneath, I have been trying REALLY hard. Like more than I usually do with most areas of my life. I just about left in tears at lunch time. But, I thankfully have 2 very good friends who are also Sag's.. one of whom I got in a fight with so bad that I didnt' speak to her for 3 months (despite working directly 1 on 1 with her 8 hrs a day). I've kind of learnt that Sag's aren't trying to bash you personally even if it feels like it, but trying to get you to do something. Plus a certain pisces texted me and cheered me up 😉. Anyway end of the day she says 'you REALLY improved, you did so much better, don't know if you could have done this before and just didn't feel like you should, but I'm impressed'. Sag don't give compliments lightly. I feel.. pacified. But still hurt. Like she didn't see it all along..?