Decoding This Scorpio Man's Behavior

I'm a Cancer female, who was dealing with a Scorpio male. It's been cut off, but I just am able to confirm that. I don't even understand what happened. We started off dating, him taking me out, to eat, the park, and just wherever regular dating. He was very sweet, and charming, a gentlemen. He introduced me to his child. I used to spend nights at his house, and come and go whenever I pleased day or night.. And all this went on for about a year. This year he starts acting all different. First just being distant which I understand they disappear and need alone time, but this was for awhile and even when we see each other just seeming, different.

Fast forward we didn't see or do anything Valentines day, I didn't trip over that. Next time he see's me he hugs me, we talk more than 2 hours +. He tries to kiss me before I leave, I decline. After that we don't see eachother awhile. He comes over my house, just does some small talk and leaves. See him again this time in passing, he hugs me and does more small talk. Last week he drove by my house. He doesn't knock or try to come in, he stays out there for awhile, I see him and he pulls off. Now today, he says hi and as I'm leaving I see with him another girl, he looks me straight in the eye giving me this look... like I'm fucking up what he's doing and I keep going. He's not my boyfriend but I feel deceived still. There's too much for me to put but I'm just giving a little bit of the picture. It just seems like he did all he could to get me to the point where I am now, to have some feelings just to cut it off... As soon as I showed a little emotion, or tried to subtly let him know I care and not in a extravagant way things seemed to change.

You're gonna get some good wisdome soon from the people here. I have a feeling I know what they will say but let me ask....was this a FWB relationship?

And why did you refuse to kiss him? Cus you were pissed off at the V day blow off? Be honest now, these scorps will sniff the truth outta you and then spank your heiny for fibbing. We will help you, but no Pinocchio stuff, k?

Hang in there.

Yes, it somehow turned into that. And no, I'm not lying. I didn't write everything because I didn't want to make it so long ppl would be discouraged to read. I am hurt, but I am over it. Just means, I am not trying to be with him, I never was pushing for a commitment or anything... Just after sometime I subtly let him know I care. Then things started to change, I kind of even feel disrespected a little bit. But you live and you learn. Tomorrow is a new day. I just am wondering if there is something I missed or did not see or catch. I communicate better directly, than guessing or figuring out these games. One thing I've noticed is I usually take things the opposite of what he meant but with this this couldn't have been taken any other way.

Thanks.

I have been with mainly Scorpios and although they are listed as high compatibility I agree and I disagree. Or maybe I'm just dealing w/ unevolved ones but I am starting to feel like they are not for me. It has so much potential and can be so great but something about the communication barrier, hurts this match. It took me to go through hell and then some, for my ex to act right and it seems as if he's really ready but after so much damage, and torturous games its just too late.

Nobody has anything to offer..?

Maybe he started pulling away to see how much you care, maybe in hopes that you would go after him. Idk, but did either of you ever speak of making it official? Seems like he's BEEN letting you know he was interested, and after a yr of work, your just now subtly giving signs. I think the pulling away was a test gone wrong in a way, but also a test to confirm how you feel/felt about him, which in a nutshell is you will be okay without him. Its like you did the opposite of probably what he wanted you too. Idk if this is the case but just something to think about.

Well letting me see him with another girl isn't the way to go about it.. We did speak, and he's told me several times he isn't dealing with anyone else, and he has no reason to lie to me. I also was/am not dealing with anyone else. Oh well.

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Well letting me see him with another girl isn't the way to go about it.. We did speak, and he's told me several times he isn't dealing with anyone else, and he has no reason to lie to me. I also was/am not dealing with anyone else. Oh well.

I can relate to your story in a way. I personally think it's stupid to have someone else flaunted in your face, but I figure that it's all for a reaction. Again, to see if you care, then how much. Also, probably to let you know that he can move on if he have to. All games. If you would have reacted like you cared, then he would have dropped that girl and probably ran to you in a heartbeat, I'm sure.

Do you think you can have a heart-to-heart with him, and just communicate, then possibly lay your feelings out there? I'd say give it shot. If he's willing to be honest, you never know what the "other side" of the story sounds like.