do scorpios involve quickly in a relationship?

do you fall in love at the first sight or do you need some time?

first sight thign for me but lately i been needing some time. it has more to do with age than being a scorpio.

scorpio's fear? tell me more about that!

My greatest fear is losing my family, most of my family is dead already i am close to not even having one anymore so yes, we all fear something

yes keeping a bond with them but my family is involved with some bad things like me...Infact, its probly why I live the life I do, because i dont know anyother way. They could die for some of the things they do, its a miricle they dont but i still love them. We always used to be so close together so all of the crime stuff seemed usual.

20. feel older though 😢 my scorpio is 29

why?

i personally dont believe in love at first sight.. but what i meant is.. i sometimes do involve myself in a relationship with someone.. not saying im falling in love, but involving myseld quite fast, if i get the feeling... i just wonder how it is with you and how much you show it.

but thats too personal...im so not a secretive person

"i personally dont believe in love at first sight.. but what i meant is.. i sometimes do involve myself in a relationship with someone.. not saying im falling in love, but involving myseld quite fast, if i get the feeling... i just wonder how it is with you and how much you show it"

If you show it first then so will he 😉

hahah you're somehow right... but where's now this thing about scorpios liking to be in control?

We like to control because until you love us to death and are ready for total commitment, we dont trust you 😛 sorry but it's the truth. So if we are in control, we are safe. If that control is taken away, we can be secretive, violent and highly unpredictable. A good scorpio male who studies himself though would think before he acts.

I dont know DB, I think your right about not showing it but off by why we dont show it.
Dont you think its because it is too much to show ? 🙂

hahaha guys i love you so much 🙂 you help.. A LOT.

i guess he's 100% scorpio. i think he's got even rising scorpio from what i remember... he's weird, but somehow fascinating.. can be very charming for a while and then after 5 minutes very shy , cold and strange.. i guess he likes me and he's very jealous, but what hurts and confuses me is that he never says it, so im never sure when im doing something wrong or im being too flirtatious to others... he will just start acting weird and then im thinking he doesnt give a f... about me, so i stop showing him affection .. and then... we're both confused 😛

my rising is gemini and no idea about the moon

if you give him your loyalty he wont be jealous and if you get jealous infront of him, he will see that as love.

your very right DB ... as usual

100% scorp?? are you sure? thats something else. I didnt know people could be 100% of somthing

thank you. it really helps to understand him 🙂 and it really fits his behaviour!!

how can i know my moon and what does it tell about me?

"Well, you are a foxy tauras with a gemini rising...sounds like trouble...lol...I'm sure when you talk to men, it naturally looks like innocent flirting..."

SO TRUE 😛😛 but im just being friendly, thats it! 🙂

"100% scorp huh..*shakes head* This will be interesting...I have a feeling we will be seeing more of you on dxpnet...and then you will find refuge on the cappy board, where u discuss the problems with 'men'...."

hahahahhaha why is that? capricorns bore me...

your moon is the most specific of the other planets to you, you can find this out if we knew your exact birthdate.

"I mean one small incident will never be forgotten and can always be used against you..."

if there were one only it wouldnt be that bad...

"he just needs to learn to bite his tongue..."

but i think he's learnt it already!! he doesnt say anything he just gets distant.. grr my date is 30.04..i feel so naked now 😛 hope he'll never see this thread 😉

"www.alabe.com/freechart/"

this site is great!!!!!!!!! my moon is capricorn LOL havent i just said they bored me? 😉

maybe 🙂

"Venus is in 04 Degrees Gemini.
You are friendly, warm, open and tolerant toward others. You love variety in relationships, indeed you may even prefer to maintain more than one relationship at a time! Very witty and humorous, you have the ability to amuse and please others. This makes you quite popular. You love to play the field and thus find it difficult to settle down and make any deep emotional commitments. Your innate charm and vivacity makes you welcome most everywhere you go. "

oh i laughed... 😛😛

thanks guys! thank you ever so much 🙂

what about a woman with a venus in virgo and man is Sun Scorp??

just curious...

he he - lol! i was that obvious eh??

it won't work out... :/

"Venus is in 05 Degrees Sagittarius.
You are very aware of the need to maintain a high sense of morality in a relationship. Your loyalty and interest will remain constant in any relationship (either friendly, personal or business) that is based on fairness, honesty and justice. But you will become greatly hurt and disappointed if the other person takes any but the high road with you. Also, you cannot tolerate anyone being overly emotionally possessive of you. You are known for your friendly, outspoken manner."

thats his. im emotionally possesive.. like totally. :/

and another line: "Feelings are often very difficult for you to verbalize. Therefore you have a tendency to be very quiet - - to brood and think a lot. "

now i understand all 🙂

Scorpio. DB have you studied psychology? 🙂

lol

so true...

hahahah 🙂

actually he hasnt got a scorp rising!

ok there we go

rising: sagitt
sun: scorpio
moon : sagitt
merc: libra
ven: sagitt
mars: scorpio

I feel that I am easily crowded too...

always was- even as a kid my mother repeatedly expressed her dissapointment over my failure to be a huggy and cuddly child

good thing she went and had my sister to fill that void...HA- shes payin for it now though!

hmmm
good luck with that sagi rising...TL

hoping?? 🙂

thanks schoenetanz. macht spass beim tanzen. meine schwester ist auch scorpio und sie war immer kalt als sie ein kind war

except for sex?? oh DB tell me more ... 🙂

WOW !!!!!!!!! i love it!!

if i told you my planets would you see if we;re compatible?

thats ok 🙂 you helped enough. thanks xxx

DB, I'm always so interested in what you have to say (much like everyone else). I'm curious, what planets are your moon/venus/rising/merc in?

Lovely chart actually. You are the more "evolved" Scorpio....it's a pleasure to hear what you have to say.

BTW: Do you know much about the relationship compatibility in terms of a man's Mars vs. a woman's Venus positions. This tells a lot about sexual and love compatibility, right?

Oppps...I hope I didn't just flag this post. That was stupid of me. I hit submit above Add comments instead of post message. I'm obviously still a bit new to posting. Hope it didn't screw anything up.

Great site! I came across it earlier in the week, but haven't had the chance to reeeeally check it out til now. Love the detail. Mars in Sag....mmmm.

"When Venus or Mars is in Sagittarius, sex is treated rather like a sport. These lovers are direct and forthcoming with their desires and needs. They have an almost innocent frankness about them, and they love to have fun in bed. Laughing and roughhousing are huge turn-ons. They are actually a bit selfish in sex, and their need to "get off" will almost always be expressed. Games are acceptable for Sagittarius lovers, just as long as they are not too time-consuming or intricate. They have little patience with people playing hard to get or beating around the bush. The same goes for too much seriousness or romancing. The best way to approach sex with these people is to just do it, and then talk about it after the fact, if need be"

Yummy!! My Scorpio-love has his Mars in Sag, too. It's pretty much on point!

DB, yep, his Venus in Cap. mine in Cancer. (I forgot that put that on my profile) I was thinkin' there that you are more 'intuitive' than I thought! LOL.

Opposite sides of the Zodiac. "Your approach to love is sensitive and intuitive, while your partner is more practically inclined. He or she prefers to have tighter control in the emotional department. "

That was with regards to our Venus positions. His Cap. "emotional control" combined with his natural Scorpio "don't like expressing full emotion cause he might be vulnerable", can be frustrating at times. As a Cancer with Venus in Cancer, I am full of emotions (but logically, not an emotional wreck)....his "control" can drive me frikin' insane. But, I truly believe that our Mars placements spice it up a bit and we just let loose. thank God for that firey Mars in him. mmmmmm.....

Well, this topic got my attention. :-) I guess my scorpio is an exception to this rule? He told me his intentions point blank, VERY clearly from the VERY beginning of our relationship. When I continually questioned him how he could be so sure since we were just beginning to get to know one another, he told me my questions sounded like I was punishing him for knowing what he wanted -- ME! -- and that he would take his punishment because I'm worth it! 🙂

Is this an evolved scorpio man's behavior or what is it? I do believe him now, though! Hey, do scorps enjoy pain?

Thanks, DB. Sometimes I feel as though my Venus in Cancer gives me tooooo much emotion and not enough logic. Although, passion is never a problem. Loooooove it!

Let me ask you, does that Scorp moon stir up a bit of a temper at times? Just curious. You really do seem mellow, but this is only typing so that may sound naive. LOL!

"Well that sounds right...Is he stubborn and controlling?"

lol DB. The stubborness comes first hand, being a fixed sign at all. The controlling thing isn't so much "don't do this, or that, etc", right? I mean, in my experience, it is silent control that takes over. It's almost passive aggressive. Or who knows, maybe my guys just has "issues".

"I can go from very passive to extremely pushy...but the intensity is ridiculus sometimes...I feel it flow from my chest to my fingers and toes."

You & me both, DB!! I don't know what it is, but I feel it exactly the same feeling. Although, it gets me right in the pit of my stomach, too. (Cancer does rule the stomach, maybe that's why). If you can hold it back, you're one step ahead of me! I, at times, struggle terrible with that. You are probably more disciplined than me.

"But doesn't the sag moon have a bit of a temper...the only major difference is that he probably doesn't hold as much resentment as I would..."

Yesssss sir eee bob! Temper galore, when provoked though. It's like a volcano. It boils, and rumbles, spouts and then BOOOOM erupts! LOL. Although, that Scorpio sun of his stills leaves room for the resentment, unfortunately. But, so passive it's frustrating.

how can one find out in which sign his/her venus is?

http://www.cafeastrology.com/venussignstables.html

(tks. to DB) Here's a venus table.

ok he is scorpio with venus in scorpio and mars in sagittarius...is he a typical scorpio... is that a good combination with a leo or is it just helpless?

"There seeems to be alot of boyfriends out there with sag in scorpio, lol....fun"

I'm assuming you meant mars in sag..I guess there's just something about you Mars/Sag gentlemen. Fun is exactly right!