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over the past couple of weeks, he's dominated my dreams with nothing but sex and i just brush over it cause im not interested in sex anymore. a couple weeks ago, he texted me asking to come over but i ignored it. it was a saturday night and i knew i was the last person on his list.

why do i say that? Because we havent slept together in a year. things have been ultra cool between us.

then after the text, i start to dream about him. but im ignoring the dreams. i havent talked to him or seen him since ignored his text. kinda apprehensive about how hes going to act.

then last night at a party...same deal. he walks in makes no eye contact with me and i say to myself, "here we go." but then he circles me like a shark and eventually stops me as i go to the bathroom. we chat a bit but thats about that.

so in my mind, i think to myself, maybe i will entertain the thought of sleeping with him..let me sit back and watch his movements through out the night and then i will make a decision to think, not do, but think. so thats what i did and i saw him holding hands with some other girl friend of mine. they are like booed up. i saw him go for her hand and she held his. thats just a bit too intimate for me to ignore.

so i says to myself, naw im good. we havent slept together in a year and thats how its going to stay.

then im sitting next to the card game and chatting it up with some people. this tauri girl is handing out neck rubs and i want one! so I ask her to give me one. she does and the scorp bumbs her to the side and starts rubbing me down. i was and am upset that he thinks im a sure thing and i will happily pimp him out and make him pay for that assumption.

to me, it feels sleazy. he's saying the same pickup lines that would have sold me a year ago but now im like so nonchalant about it. he yells to the room that im taking him home at the end of the night and i blurt out "the hell I am." he's all shocked and shit. then i spew off a list of all the other GIRLS who can take him home AND i make sure to mention the girl he was holding hands with 1st! then i mention another bff, my virgo gal, that she can drive him home.

now with this virgo, i was a bit skeptical about their past. but neither has come out with anything, but from time to time i will test the waters. he goes nuts at the thought that i have a roommate and its her. his voice has lost its confidence and he's mumbling, talking soft. makes me go hmm.

but through all this, im not
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but through all this, im not upset with him. i want him to have his own life. but the nerve to think im a sure thing? gwwwrrr. so he's making eyes with me across the room, begging for eye contact and i aint giving it up. i eventually cant take it anymore, so pissed off, and i leave.

he coulda had a shot at me "thinking" about it if he hadnt been so loose with his flirting.
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i mean anything could happen if i were to get so intoxicated, horny, and bored that i just completely throw caution to the wind, but naw you aint gettin this kitty when u were just holding hands with some other girl.

he flirts and i get that. but holding hands is another level.

i got ass that night, but it wasnt from him. maybe if he played his cards better, i.e. kissed my ass, than he coulda been that guy, but he choose to hedge his bets. i hedge mine, but im more lowkey about it.
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Nothing is ever as innocent as it seems with scorpio men, especially this one. Before when i would see him flirting and I would approach my aries or virgo gal about it, nobody would believe me, call me crazy and say oh no, he couldnt be having sex with her. Then turns out DMV was right. I know something is off. He pits women aganist each other so he coukd have another girl going cray cray over him.

Usually I will see him with his arm around someone and I know thats harmless. This is off to me. I will get to the bottom of it.

I dont want him, but I want to confirm my suspicions.
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Posted by DMV
.... so he's making eyes with me across the room, begging for eye contact and i aint giving it up. i eventually cant take it anymore, so pissed off, and i leave.

he coulda had a shot at me "thinking" about it if he hadnt been so loose with his flirting.



That Scorp moon is a b*tch huh? If I cover the screen name I would swear I was reading a post from a Scorp.

Do you really think you were the last one on the list, or the hardest to text? I don't know the history, so.....
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Posted by DMV
.... so he's making eyes with me across the room, begging for eye contact and i aint giving it up. i eventually cant take it anymore, so pissed off, and i leave.

he coulda had a shot at me "thinking" about it if he hadnt been so loose with his flirting.



That Scorp moon is a b*tch huh? If I cover the screen name I would swear I was reading a post from a Scorp.

Do you really think you were the last one on the list, or the hardest to text? I don't know the history, so.....
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without a doubt the last on his list. i know of 3 hes been banging and mindfucking in our circle. but he also has dealings outside of our circle.

see what i gather is, the other 3 aint been acting like he wants them to. How do i know this? cause the 3 do not come around the circle. whenever im beefing with him, i do not come around. his shenanigans are textbook.

he also has me blocked on FB to achieve 2 things:

1.) to get me to stalk him by actually calling or texting if i want to talk to him.
2.) to lesson the pain of seeing me being happy go lucky on another dudes page (a mutual friend). helps the jealousy factor. but he already outed himself because someone sends him screenshots.

since i aint been scewing him, he hasnt turned into a nun. lol
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your coming across fishy Neuro 😉



Nah. I'm a standup guy.

It's not my problem I attract crazy women



naw i think your cool. certain vibe i get from you. you have to set boundaries with a sag. one strong talking to and she will be set straight.



I usually throw Skittles at her to keep her away.
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LOL! Smh......
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.... so he's making eyes with me across the room, begging for eye contact and i aint giving it up. i eventually cant take it anymore, so pissed off, and i leave.

he coulda had a shot at me "thinking" about it if he hadnt been so loose with his flirting.



That Scorp moon is a b*tch huh? If I cover the screen name I would swear I was reading a post from a Scorp.

Do you really think you were the last one on the list, or the hardest to text? I don't know the history, so.....



without a doubt the last on his list. i know of 3 hes been banging and mindfucking in our circle. but he also has dealings outside of our circle.

see what i gather is, the other 3 aint been acting like he wants them to. How do i know this? cause the 3 do not come around the circle. whenever im beefing with him, i do not come around. his shenanigans are textbook.

he also has me blocked on FB to achieve 2 things:

1.) to get me to stalk him by actually calling or texting if i want to talk to him.
2.) to lesson the pain of seeing me being happy go lucky on another dudes page (a mutual friend). helps the jealousy factor. but he already outed himself because someone sends him screenshots.

since i aint been scewing him, he hasnt turned into a nun. lol
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Hmph. Sounds like a joker imo. So are you pissed at him because he's not being genuine ("loose with his flirting") and a ass (and feel offended), or are you upset at yourself that you're spending more than 2 second thinking about him and his BS?
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Posted by Neurotoxin
Sags are like what??

Should I be worried about my Sag coworker and drunk texts to me at 11pm?

Surely they aren't ALL like her...




99.8% of Sags are a peculiar lot.
You may have heard the saying "Making the same mistake over and over, expecting a different result is insanity". That's a Sag.
No matter how wrong the world can see they truly are, the sag believes they are right. - that's a Sag.
Part man, part Jackass.... That's a Sag.
They are closely related to the dual/polypersonality Gemini clan. Whereas the Gemini is able to psychologically cross-dress their personalities, somehow, the Sag is stuck somewhere in between in the psychological netherscape of shallow-minded stupidity.
Think of most of them as a strange product being the ilk of the alleged Philadelphia Experiment.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philadelphia_Experiment<BR>
IF you love your car, don't let them drive it. In fact, walk to work, because, somehow, the
Sag will find a way to wreck it. Irresponsibility is another trait, they possess.









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lol the first time you ever came to the boards was to complain about a sagittarius. I see not much has changed. nice.



Complaining? No.., Not complaining. Inquiring and since that time I see that it is a global phenomenon
rather than a local one.

What I wrote is based on what I have seen.
No complaints - not when I see what I expected to see.

You're predictable.

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lol the first time you ever came to the boards was to complain about a sagittarius. I see not much has changed. nice.



Complaining? No.., Not complaining. Inquiring and since that time I see that it is a global phenomenon
rather than a local one.

What I wrote is based on what I have seen.
No complaints - not when I see what I expected to see.

You're predictable.

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you don't need to get upset, it was a joke
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Posted by Sag89
lol the first time you ever came to the boards was to complain about a sagittarius. I see not much has changed. nice.



Complaining? No.., Not complaining. Inquiring and since that time I see that it is a global phenomenon
rather than a local one.

What I wrote is based on what I have seen.
No complaints - not when I see what I expected to see.

You're predictable.



you don't need to get upset, it was a joke
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Upset? I'm not upset.
Not at all.In fact I've been getting ready to go to the Asian market for some ingredients for Shrimp Chow Mein.
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Posted by Sag89
you hit your daughter don't you?



I slapped my Leo daughter, only once and after years of patiently dealing with her very foul
behavior.

Her own words were "I needed to be bitch slapped".
She KNEW darned good and well that she was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of line.
She still tells me she loves me.
Talk is cheap. Dammit, WALK!

Now... that you should remember these things, says something.
go figure.

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Posted by Sag89
you hit your daughter don't you?



I slapped my Leo daughter, only once and after years of patiently dealing with her very foul
behavior.

Her own words were "I needed to be bitch slapped".
She KNEW darned good and well that she was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of line.
She still tells me she loves me.
Talk is cheap. Dammit, WALK!

Now... that you should remember these things, says something.
go figure.

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What does it say? I have a weird memory
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Posted by Sag89
Posted by MrFirebird
Posted by Sag89
lol the first time you ever came to the boards was to complain about a sagittarius. I see not much has changed. nice.



Complaining? No.., Not complaining. Inquiring and since that time I see that it is a global phenomenon
rather than a local one.

What I wrote is based on what I have seen.
No complaints - not when I see what I expected to see.

You're predictable.



you don't need to get upset, it was a joke



Upset? I'm not upset.
Not at all.In fact I've been getting ready to go to the Asian market for some ingredients for Shrimp Chow Mein.
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I like pho mmm!
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^^^^Sorry, you said you weren't pissed. Bothered would be a better word.



I feel like if you wanna hit this, I need to be your only focus. Flirting non stop at a party is like foreplay to me.

I also feel like if he saw me flirting nonstop and I asked him to go home with me, he wouldnt give me the time of day.
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True story.
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Posted by Sag89
you hit your daughter don't you?



I slapped my Leo daughter, only once and after years of patiently dealing with her very foul
behavior.

Her own words were "I needed to be bitch slapped".
She KNEW darned good and well that she was waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay out of line.
She still tells me she loves me.
Talk is cheap. Dammit, WALK!

Now... that you should remember these things, says something.
go figure.




What does it say? I have a weird memory
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yes, you do.