Ex scorpio came back... what do you think?

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Hello,

So i have this ex scorpio man (scorpio/Sagittarius) cusp 21st of november- who came back after a year and a half appologising for breaking up with me and for all the shit he did .. and honestly i wasnt mad anymore and i had no good or bad feelings so we became friends ...

And one day he came to me with deep emotions talking about all the good things and saying sweet stuff to me ending it with a theoretical question (if i asked you to be together would you? I said no)

After a while of this friendship... he kept it friendly but then he said... i know for a fact that we are better off as friends cuz you drive me nuts !... but that doesnt mean i dont get attracted to you or deny the fact that i love you... and i cant explain it... but I can’t live with you and i cant live without you...



Now ... the problem is ... we met twice .. and on the second time he kissed me .... yet he keeps saying we are just friends ... And honestly.... i do have this intimate feeling towards him but i know he is not the one for me ..... and i’m not sure what is this....



is he doing this just becuz he has no one to date —

? Or he is just having fun?

Or he still has feelings and he is trying to get into it slowly...

I dont know how to feel or think about this ... and i do trust him but guys are guys and i’m afraid with time i catch hard feelings and fall again hard .. lol

What do you think all this about?
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N_leo
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i was asking myself ... why am I doing this ?? I was okay with us being just friends... alyhough i never in my life did it or even believed that it could work.... but i really had no feelings for him but when it got in this gray area ... i felt confused ... but he didnt do anything bad to me and i dont know how to cut him off all of a sudden ... but I was just wanted to make sure if there is another perspective before I act ... but yeah i guess at the end of the day it is wrong and i’ll have to..





Posted by LaPetiteEtoile
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Posted by LaPetiteEtoile

Lmao my Scorpio ex is 11/21 and he did the same shit. I broke up with him and he proposed almost a year later. Out of the blue.

He probably just misses being with someone. Whether you are it or not IDK. I don’t understand what goes on in their heads and why they behave like a relationship isn’t a priority until it’s gone and they’ve had space from it.

If you don’t see a future with him it’s best to not get too close. They’ll grow on you eventually even if you know it’s best not to get close. They’re sneaky like that.

It can also be said she is stringing him along

Yes, that’s a potential thing. We only get her perspective. But he’s obviously okay with it if he’s saying just friends.
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Posted by sagaciouscorp
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Posted by sagaciouscorp

Why do people not believe Scorpio when they say they love n

No one works a year and a half for someone for no reason

If there is no interested we don’t have that attention span.

Ha!

You would be surprised the at the level of petty some people have.

Some people will wait forever for:

Revenge

Sex

Vindication

Revenge

Yeah I don’t trust that Scorpios give real second chances...

I e never met one that vengeful

And I’m a Scorpio

I don’t operate that way so it’s hard for me to underStand

Is it because you guys would be that way?
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If it dont apply, let it fly.

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Posted by Gobby

Typical Scorpio energy mind games. The 'let's be friends' excuse gets really old, once you've experienced it a couple of times - it's just pure manipulation.

The last time a Scorpio tried that with me, I just played her...

can you expound on this a bit more please explain when you say "the lets be friends" statement is a form of manipulation

It's just a lame attempt at keeping their hooks in you, in the hope that things can go back to the way they were before.

Overall, it's just an underhanded exercise in possession and control...
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ok so i have been in situation where this scorpio man and i have been talking when things are good betwern us he calls me baby babes huni etc. whenever we argue he would say were just friends were just good friends we havent even had sex yet etc. and that would continue until one day i just cut all communication after an argument .so he called me a month after i didnt answer he texted me 2 months after asking if i was staying safe from covid 19 it got tiresome and i didnt have the energy anymore to deal. so when i saw this thread it brought back memories of him always saying that whenever we argue but he told me once that when he does anything and i am hurt it hurt him as well
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Posted by Gobby
Posted by candykane38
Posted by Gobby
Posted by candykane38
Posted by Gobby

Typical Scorpio energy mind games. The 'let's be friends' excuse gets really old, once you've experienced it a couple of times - it's just pure manipulation.

The last time a Scorpio tried that with me, I just played her...

can you expound on this a bit more please explain when you say "the lets be friends" statement is a form of manipulation

It's just a lame attempt at keeping their hooks in you, in the hope that things can go back to the way they were before.

Overall, it's just an underhanded exercise in possession and control...

ok so i have been in situation where this scorpio man and i have been talking when things are good betwern us he calls me baby babes huni etc. whenever we argue he would say were just friends were just good friends we havent even had sex yet etc. and that would continue until one day i just cut all communication after an argument .so he called me a month after i didnt answer he texted me 2 months after asking if i was staying safe from covid 19 it got tiresome and i didnt have the energy anymore to deal. so when i saw this thread it brought back memories of him always saying that whenever we argue but he told me once that when he does anything and i am hurt it hurt him as well

It really doesn't matter what his star sign is, that's toxic behaviour, which is best avoided...
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agreed 100%