First date with Scorpio man! Secretive or honest?

I'm a aries girl. 2 weeks ago I met a guy when I was in train. I needed his phone to make a call even if we don't know each other. I kept his number in my phone and today I called him asking for a date. He accepted my invitation and we'll go out saturday. I don't know how it'll be. I'm 19 year old and he's 37 year old(doesn't seem to bother him or even me). What to do and what not to do in this saturday? I've heard about being mysterious but i'm more a honest person.

You're putting a lot into one date. Be yourself.

I'm not even gonna touch the other stuff.....

#autocorrectblows

You're putting a lot into one date. Be yourself.

I'm not even gonna touch the other stuff.....

*sigh* autocorrctblows

Realistically, are you looking for a relationship? Aint gonna happen.

1.) He's 37. If he knows your age, he's thinking this is a FWB setup waiting to happen for him.
2.) He is almost 2 decades older than you. He's forgotten shit, you aint even learned yet.
3.) He cant even take your young ass out for a drink at a bar (that is if you live in America, he cant.)

Im all about having fun and sowing my oats. That should be your mentality.

just my thoughts.

I don't like when people get super nosy on the first day
Like why do you want to know my ethnicity, what my childhood was like?
Are you going to evaluate me based my environment?
A condensed version of my past?

Not my thoughts or feelings interests, desires?
To be frank I'm not interested in hearing their biography on the first date.

I usually try to feel the person out, I kinda getting to know a person past one step at a time.

fire and air signs seem to want to know anything.

Esp air signs oh my god.
This one libra was like.
So you're mixed?
Oh wow, that's cool
You're attractive.
Hey I knew you had some white in you.


I was just like.... you run your mouth a lot huh?

Ewww. That's like dating your dad.

Oh, wait, nevermind. You must have daddy issues.

And he must be having a mid-life crisis, trying to regain his youth by accepting a date with you.

I fucking hate preconceptions. I'm non-conformist and I don't live in America and here isn't a big problem if a man is 20 years older than his girlfriend. I grab his number and called him and he was exited when I called him. He knows that i'm 19 years old and nothing changed.

We'll have the date today and I called him tuesday. After my call he was the only who texts me and called me everyday since the day I called him firstly. I remain without father since I was 3 year old and the psyhologist told me that now I search for parental love and attention(maybe this is way i find attractive men above 28 plus I don't like a immature boy)

When i asked this question I doesn't expect JUDGING! No one is perfect and a looooooot of people in this word have a relationship with a gap between ages.
So please keep your mouth shut if you have some conceptions about ages. Thanks!

I just asked "what to do at a first date with a scorpio man", not "my scorpio man is 18 years older than me".

I'm not immature, I just expected an proper answer. So what if he's 18 year old than me I just wanted an answer with tips for the first date with a scorpio man. I'm an aries girl and I have courage to take a guy's number and call him if i like him, isn't big deal. As I said I'm nonconformist.

Sure i'll take the good advices from here. When i answer to questions I focus on the question and not on a thing that i think "isn't conform rules". Wish people focus more on questions and not on judging.interpretations.

Posted by andrea13
I'm not immature, I just expected an proper answer. So what if he's 18 year old than me I just wanted an answer with tips for the first date with a scorpio man. I'm an aries girl and I have courage to take a guy's number and call him if i like him, isn't big deal. As I said I'm nonconformist.

Good for u Andrea13..If a girl did that to me and I thought she was pretty I'd be thrilled lol that takes guts....sounds like he was thrilled too...have fun 🙂

oh yeah,,, I agree with that answer BTW= be feminine

The DATE was today, i arrived home now. He was really thrilled to be with me, we talked about a lot of things and discover that i like his style , seriousness and his balanced attitude. After the date he kissed me and that kiss was intense. He also kissed me in public without being ashamed he kiss a younger girl than him. I was honest and feminine(and it works) Thank you for good advices!

People who say that are dumb.
it's just biology.
Women prefer to breed with more mature men while mature men seek out fertile females who happen to be younger.

It's only modern society who says it's wrong.. I mean yeah if she's 17 can't u wait a year, fucking hell right?

Frankly older men tend to be more sexier.
They actually have glorious facial hair..

I've seen so many men way in their mid twenties who look like they don't have any hair on their balls..

50+ is like when they begin to lose vigor...
I don't know how I feel about that 😛

that's when they begin to stop caring from my experience.

Are you seeing him again?

It's better than day time TV soaps! :-)

Posted by tiziani
Well maybe she wants sex, herself. She hasn't actually elaborated on what she wants from this - if both people are responsible no harm no foul.

yeah, sex with her dad, lol

do you have a strong 10th house? 11th? Aquarius and/or Capricorn placements?

that's an indication you like 'em older. /mature.

it's Saturn that's loving the maturity.

Posted by warmwaters
50+ is like when they begin to lose vigor...
I don't know how I feel about that 😛

that's when they begin to stop caring from my experience.

When he's 50, she'll only be 30. He'll be way past his sexual prime and she be beginning hers.

Today was the second date. And sure, i'll see him again. We don't discuss about what type of relationship or even if we have a relationship. This year i'll have 3 exams and he said that he don't want to take my time for studies. And thats what I want. Suuure men above 27 years starts to look like real men.

He said that we should take things slowly and that's what I want. One of my big problem is that even I like mature men I'm still a virgin at 19 year old. So this have to be a problem here, I told him the truth from the first date(don't seem to bother him, he was more thrilled by this). So....taking things slowly with a scorpio man it's the best idea...or not?

I'm aries with rising sun in pisces. I have moon in aquarius, jupiter in capricorn, uranus in aquarius and neptune in capricorn. He is scorpio with rising sun in leo.

Never mind...I should have read the whole thread..