Frustrated with Scorpio Man

I am a Gemini Sun, Taurus Moon, Cancer rising. Been with a Scorpio for 4 years now. He's not like that. It depends on the man and the issues he's having. Ignore him. Let him come to you. If it was meant to be.....he'll come back. If he doesn't...it never was.

Thanks guys. What's hard is knowing whether it's because this is his character or just the circumstances of what he's going through. I know that men are very different from women in the sense when their career is not straight that is a big blow to their ego. Knowing that he can be shy with women, makes me want to take the initiative to keep the contact going (even as just friends)...but at the same time, I don't want to put myself out there (I kinda have already!) and get my feelings hurt in the long run.