Geminis are nasty jealous

not so much, with me it's more cap girls i get that negative energy from. she just sounds insecure, imo. if you can't take her vibe, keep away. seriously, it's such a drain. i would say ignore her when she acts up 🙂

as far as the back talking, i have seen that with a few gems. it's not something to take seriously. i think they just love chatting and telling stories and if that means dragging your name through the mud, so be it. i genuiney don't think it's done maliciously.

again, dismiss it. it's not your thing to take on.

Posted by urmadbro
It sounds like you are having more of a hissy fit then she actually being jealous; seeing that your words contradict your actions. Might actually be the other way around, you might be jealous of her.

nah, i think the gem has just wound her up. better to vent here then blow up at the girl. as for the gem, jealous or not that's all negative vibes so keep back.

i see how some girls don't know how to react to situations like these, so i'll always say don't take it to heart and don't engage in it. speaking for myself, that kind of stuff hurts me if it's between friends, so i just don't deal with it. i really think some girls can't help it, they're just naturally competitive/immature. so when i see that bullshit coming my way, i head for the hills.

Posted by escorpianas
Is just that she can't control herself...

that's what makes it hard. someone can be your friend, you know they can't help what they're doing, yet it still gets to you.

Posted by Nemesis
okay besides that; if you feel so superior - stand above it.

the only thing i can read between the lines is, that she likes the same guy you like.

are you married? engaged? even dating the guy?

until then - free market.

yes. and don't get in a flap over boys, that's some bullshit

Posted by escorpianas
Nimbue you have the best answer... That's how I feel bc I shouldn't pay her with the same actions...I never speak bad bait her even if she does about me..
I'm nice and kind every chance I get... Andnim just here bc I n?e someone to vent better than talking bad about her to people we know.. And I would never figt with a friend bc of a guy... That's not the thing... The problem is that I seethe jealousy and if you guys are scorpios you know and see more than most people and it just hurts you to see someone that you care about it acting that way and thinking that's there someone that doesn't see it... But I see it all and it sucks to pretend that I don't see it just so we can be ok

yeah, it's hurtful. the only person who needs to see it is you, anyway. if you're best friends and you can't see it stopping anytime soon, have a word with her. as calmly and honestly as possible, so she's not on the defensive and doesn't feel you're attacking her. so, no accusations. just tell her how you feel.

if she's not even aware of what she's doing, you'll probably get a good response from her.

No I don't talk bad about her like I said to peoe that really matter so no I'm not retarded I would if I was running my mouth about her to our common friends... And I can see how this wjole post came out wrong bc i would have to explain more about it and here you can just see me complaining and not the things that she did or says... So I understand but yal don't have to be so defensive that's why it was a question... I would like to see if you guys go through the same thing if you don't that's fine... Dont be nasty about it

And urmadbro put a picture if you're so good looking

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Scorps get it from the Geminis.
Aries get it from the Sags.

Bottom-line: Low self-esteem issues and they end up taking it out on you and blaming you.

Thank you bluemoon this completely makes sense... I'm not talking bad Im just venting about something I've been noticing

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Posted by escorpianas
I never speak bad bait her even if she does about me..

Are you retarded? You are doing that right now.

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yeah, but she's not speaking badly of her between friends of theirs. which in my opinion is very bitchy. she's talking about a specific issue to strangers in a forum, there is a huge difference.

don't even try to act like there's not. there's no need to be holier than thou and split hairs over semantics.

Sorry for the typos I'm on my phone

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Scorps get it from the Geminis.
Aries get it from the Sags.

Bottom-line: Low self-esteem issues and they end up taking it out on you and blaming you.

Thank you bluemoon this completely makes sense... I'm not talking bad Im just venting about something I've been noticing

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i think your approach got a few backs up, but i get what you're saying.

Sorry for the typos I'm on my phone

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Posted by escorpianas
I never speak bad bait her even if she does about me..

Are you retarded? You are doing that right now.

yeah, but she's not speaking badly of her between friends of theirs. which in my opinion is very bitchy. she's talking about a specific issue to strangers in a forum, there is a huge difference.

don't even try to act like there's not. there's no need to be holier than thou and split hairs over semantics.

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Exactly... Thank you.. You must be an eagle..

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I never speak bad bait her even if she does about me..

Are you retarded? You are doing that right now.

yeah, but she's not speaking badly of her between friends of theirs. which in my opinion is very bitchy. she's talking about a specific issue to strangers in a forum, there is a huge difference.

don't even try to act like there's not. there's no need to be holier than thou and split hairs over semantics.

Exactly... Thank you.. You must be an eagle..

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heh, i've only got a scorp moon what decan are you?

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Grab the guy, problem solved.

it's not about the guy there's plenty of others out there... It's about my friend doing this bc of a guy... And what hurts more is that she knew and knows how much I care we would spend hours her talking about the guy she likes and me talking about the one I like... But what if it was the other way around.. What if it was me that was doing and trying to flirt with the guy she likes... Isnot about losing te guy is about losing the trust in a friend that I actually considered and I know that once I lose trust I can't never get it back

I'm Scorpio-sag cusp... With Scorpio moon 🙂

I'm new to this... Why's there's so many hidden messages? Why they block it?

Posted by escorpianas
I'm Scorpio-sag cusp... With Scorpio moon 🙂

that's my favourite cusp! 🙂

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Tell her to grow up ?
Ask her how she'd feel if the tables were turned and let her know its an easy way to break trust with her ?

+1 but maybe not such a blunt delivery. this best friends stuff is emotional shit!

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Scorps get it from the Geminis.
Aries get it from the Sags.

Bottom-line: Low self-esteem issues and they end up taking it out on you and blaming you.

Thank you bluemoon this completely makes sense... I'm not talking bad Im just venting about something I've been noticing

Aww, it's all good. 🙂

Also, just want share this quote with you:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our Light, not our Darkness, that most frightens us. - Marianne Williamson

People are more comfortable with darkness than the Light. So if they see the light in you, it is like they want to put it out. Misery loves company.

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Bluemoon that quote is amazing... I just made it my Facebook status lol 🙂 silly me but it really makes sense...
Thank you

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I'm Scorpio-sag cusp... With Scorpio moon 🙂

that's my favourite cusp! 🙂

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Me too 🙂 I dont feel so serious as an actual Scorpio... But I'm emotional bc of my moon but I hide... But I'm a baby when it's about love but super strong when it deals with pain

Once she told my friend that she shouldn't talk to this guy bc she used to like him in high school that's like 4 years ago and that they almost dated... Lol when I heard that was like what about me?? She doesn't even let's me speak to her exs... Bc she's afraid and I know she doesn't like it so I respect that... I know she wouldn't be ok if the positions were changed...

A jealous Gemini is the worst! Ugh.

Posted by prettyladii
A jealous Gemini is the worst! Ugh.

🙂 see
I'm not the only one who thinks this lol

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Posted by prettyladii
A jealous Gemini is the worst! Ugh.

🙂 see
I'm not the only one who thinks this lol

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i still say a jealous cap is hell on earth *shrugs* 🙂

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I'm Scorpio-sag cusp... With Scorpio moon 🙂

that's my favourite cusp! 🙂

Me too 🙂 I dont feel so serious as an actual Scorpio... But I'm emotional bc of my moon but I hide... But I'm a baby when it's about love but super strong when it deals with pain

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yeah, the sag optimism goes nice with the scorps emotion...less negative overall, i've found

I've never seen a cap jealous... I've had two exes one gem and one cap...but my cap wasn't very jealous of me.. Butt taurus On the other hand those are actual ugly jealous... Like geminins they are silly they aren't jealous on purpose they are just nTural gossipers so that's why... But Taurus they are jealous and they don't care what they do to get to where they need to go...

And ya I like it been a scorp sag... It gives me a pretty smart sense of humor.. The smarts of a Scorpio with the fun of a sag..

What's your sun sign?

Posted by escorpianas
I've never seen a cap jealous... I've had two exes one gem and one cap...but my cap wasn't very jealous of me.. Butt taurus On the other hand those are actual ugly jealous... Like geminins they are silly they aren't jealous on purpose they are just nTural gossipers so that's why... But Taurus they are jealous and they don't care what they do to get to where they need to go...

And ya I like it been a scorp sag... It gives me a pretty smart sense of humor.. The smarts of a Scorpio with the fun of a sag..

What's your sun sign?

pisces-aries cusp 🙂

i've seen it mostly with cap girls, and i don't care for it at all. but i also see it's not something they choose to do. with gems, i think alot of it comes down to immaturity, and like you said, they're natural gossipers.

and, yeah taurus too. it's quite a threatening/challenging energy, i think. or competitiveness gone wrong. it makes me back all the way off, lol.

Omg you're Pisces Aries cusp.. We are like meant to be 🙂 lol

Why haven't you cut ties with her? I would! I've been burned by jealous and insecure girls, and not just Gemini's.

Posted by escorpianas
Omg you're Pisces Aries cusp.. We are like meant to be 🙂 lol

it's true, we're a good astro match! my ahem, 'boyf' is a sag, scorp rising. yeah, baby 😄

but seriously, i could clap on about sags forever. adding scorp to the mix is just...*fans self*

Posted by hiplove79
Ahh yes the frenemy. That's why I prefer male friends over female friends

+1 i'm more like a dude anyway, that's probably why i get on with 'em better/easier 😄

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Ahh yes the frenemy. That's why I prefer male friends over female friends

+1 i'm more like a dude anyway, that's probably why i get on with 'em better/easier 😄

I'm outwardly feminine, inwardly boyish, lol. I notice the girls I do really gel with are the ones who prefer male friends. Is it the same for you?

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yeah, actually...i mean, my close girl friends are all quite tomboyish. so we all have quite a few male friends, but i seem to be the only one who doesn't blur the boundaries with the guys. i'm literally one of them and they look out for me...i also have three brothers, so think i'm just used to how guys operate, generally.

and then, you have those girls you'd hang out with, but aren't close to. associates...same for you?

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Ahh yes the frenemy. That's why I prefer male friends over female friends

+1 i'm more like a dude anyway, that's probably why i get on with 'em better/easier 😄

I'm outwardly feminine, inwardly boyish, lol. I notice the girls I do really gel with are the ones who prefer male friends. Is it the same for you?

yeah, actually...i mean, my close girl friends are all quite tomboyish. so we all have quite a few male friends, but i seem to be the only one who doesn't blur the boundaries with the guys. i'm literally one of them and they look out for me...i also have three brothers, so think i'm just used to how guys operate, generally.

and then, you have those girls you'd hang out with, but aren't close to. associates...same for you?

Yup. 😄

I call those party friends or shopping friends. Not ones to really depend on, but cool enough to hang out with for fun.

To me guys friends are so much better. Laid-back, goofy and can left heavy stuff, lol. Oh and gay male friends! The best of both worlds. Your non-competitive, non-drama gurlfriend *snaps fingers* Oh and they will not let you walk out the house looking like a disaster...unlike some catty, jealous women. Love gay men. You?

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haha, no gay male friends for me yet! but a few bisexual ones. see, i need me one of them now, clearly. don't you love it when female friends let you leave the house looking like whatever, then you meet up with the guys and they're like, 'shit what happened to you.'

love the ease of it. if there's an issue you can face it head-on and everyone gets on with their lives. obv, i love my girlies but at times it is very over-dramatic.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Aries get it from the Sags.

Lol yeah right.

If I was jealous of any sign it'd be a pisces

LMAO!!!

think i've got a new spot to hit this weekend might take my scorp friend, he's always scouting for new meat

thank you...i love that girl. she has me singing her songs all the time now. only thing, i wish we had more material from her 😢 but nevermind, that's life, hey?

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Aries get it from the Sags.

Lol yeah right.

If I was jealous of any sign it'd be a pisces

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sag, the feeling's mutual. you know how much i love your sign

god, it's like penis envy...but not. lol!

I'm the same way... Most of my friends are guys actually all of em.. This and a cancer are the only gf I actually consider... Bc sometimes you need some gfs too... But I'm always one of the Gus and my Gemini friendost of her friends are guys too so that's why we got along at first... But she's like that she will get physically involved with en and I don't so she has some drama brought up to the group while me it's just one of the guys and they respect me... The guys even know she brings drama but we just accept her.. And te reason why I don't drop her is bc scorpios always wanna help and teach people about life I feel like she could learn to not be jealous... And I also feel that she doesn't do it bc she really means it.. But hearing you guys talking that you have the same problem maybe she knows about it and do it on purpose... My only true and real friend that's a girl is a sag I love her to death fun and real...

Also I feel like I have alot of "friends" acquaintances people always want to be around me but friends the real ones just a few...

The guy I like is an aeries nimbue... With Taurus moon;. I hope we are good for each other

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Aries get it from the Sags.

Lol yeah right.

If I was jealous of any sign it'd be a pisces

sag, the feeling's mutual. you know how much i love your sign

god, it's like penis envy...but not. lol!

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Exactly!

Pisces are so badasses their little ways.

They are often underestimate like sags

If I wasn't a sag I'd want to be a pisces.

I would want to be a Pisces... Or a an Aries... I would hate to be a libra or a virgo

I would like to be a sag too lol

Lol... I might do that... I always have to be careful with her it's annoying... I wish I could just be me

Posted by escorpianas
Why are geminis so disgusting jealous... My roommate and best friend is a Gemini... And she thinks everyone is in love with her... She likes the only guy that I like and she even started flirting with him.. She's always checking him out and what not and I know that she's always talking about me to other ppl when I don't even waste my time talking about her... She's just so jealous is so ugly... I don't care for her bc she's not a threat but she even told me that my personality always wins and that I'm a alpha Fe rake and I intimidate people... She also knows I'm way prettier and she doesn't get as many attention as to when she used to live with ugly roommates...
She's always talking on someone's back and she's so empty ... She thinks she can hide stuff from me... But she's just desperate for affection ad wants what I have.. I think it's ugly anybody has this problem with geminis??

maybe you should confront her and tell her to have a nice big cup of shut the fuck up

Posted by bluemoon9043834
—?_Do not allow people to dim your shine because they are blinded. Tell them to put on some sunglasses, cuz we were born this way bitch!??
?? Lady Gaga

LOVE IT

Oh yeah, it's DEFINITELY because she's a Gem. Gem girls are total bitches and whores. Jealous ones too.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Oh yeah, it's DEFINITELY because she's a Gem. Gem girls are total bitches and whores. Jealous ones too.

oh man thank you..and some of you were saying i was being mean..haha 😉

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Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Oh yeah, it's DEFINITELY because she's a Gem. Gem girls are total bitches and whores. Jealous ones too.

oh man thank you..and some of you were saying i was being mean..haha 😉

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Good lord no! The whole lot of 'em. They suck. Scorpio women.... TRULY superior. Hands down.

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Aries get it from the Sags.

Lol yeah right.

If I was jealous of any sign it'd be a pisces

sag, the feeling's mutual. you know how much i love your sign

god, it's like penis envy...but not. lol!

Exactly!

Pisces are so badasses their little ways.

They are often underestimate like sags

If I wasn't a sag I'd want to be a pisces.

I would love to be a Scorpio with a Pisces moon or a Pisces with a Scorpio moon 🙂

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My boyfriend is a scorpio with a pisces moon lol

Posted by escorpianas
I would like to be a sag too lol

Haha it's a good time. Are you half one?

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Scorps get it from the Geminis.
Aries get it from the Sags.

Bottom-line: Low self-esteem issues and they end up taking it out on you and blaming you.

are you fucking kidding?
you ridicolous ugly slut shut the fuck up.
look in the mirror, you aint got no fucking right to be arrogant.

you are getting what?
a fist in your face, bitch.

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*smh* Did you think she meant every person under those signs has low self esteem? Chill pill baby, chill pill.

Blue, I love you. I'm a Gem and I don't have a problem with what you posted. Doesn't have to be true every time. Maybe that's just my Aries moon confidence though.... 😛

Maybe she's insecure, maybe she's competitive, maybe she's a backstabbing bitch, maybe she's got issues, maybe she's been hurt, maybe she feels inferior...or maybe you guys just aren't meant to be friends. YOU picked her. If you've known her for so long and she's your best friend, how are you just now seeing the signs? Shouldn't you already know if she has any of ^^ those issues??

If you don't like the way things are going, confront her. Don't come on a public forum and talk about how great you are and how shitty she is. You're doing the exact same thing she's doing except NOT on Facebook. If you're that bent out of shape about it one would think you'd have more compassion than anger. Get to the root of why she's behaving this way instead of complaining about it. They're might be a deeper issue with her that she's having a hard time dealing with and she's just projecting.

Oh, and bitches come in all forms - 12 of them. Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Scorps...etc, etc.