Geminis are nasty jealous (Page 2)

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Posted by beccy
Posted by bluemoon9043834
Scorps get it from the Geminis.
Aries get it from the Sags.

Bottom-line: Low self-esteem issues and they end up taking it out on you and blaming you.

are you fucking kidding?
you ridicolous ugly slut shut the fuck up.
look in the mirror, you aint got no fucking right to be arrogant.

you are getting what?
a fist in your face, bitch.

See? lmfao!

I don't think I ever really see anything good come from these ugly people. They just keep proving my points.
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lol they are so serious haha

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Posted by cokekitty
Maybe she's insecure, maybe she's competitive, maybe she's a backstabbing bitch, maybe she's got issues, maybe she's been hurt, maybe she feels inferior...or maybe you guys just aren't meant to be friends. YOU picked her. If you've known her for so long and she's your best friend, how are you just now seeing the signs? Shouldn't you already know if she has any of ^^ those issues??

If you don't like the way things are going, confront her. Don't come on a public forum and talk about how great you are and how shitty she is. You're doing the exact same thing she's doing except NOT on Facebook. If you're that bent out of shape about it one would think you'd have more compassion than anger. Get to the root of why she's behaving this way instead of complaining about it. They're might be a deeper issue with her that she's having a hard time dealing with and she's just projecting.

Oh, and bitches come in all forms - 12 of them. Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Cancer, Scorps...etc, etc.

hey miss cocaine you need to settle down and not be so all over my face about it...
I dont know her for that long so dont make assumptions.. I know her for 4 months..shes my roommate so we have a living situation so i have to be smart about whats worth and not arguing.. and yes i have talked to her multiple times and actually explained that i knew and saw what she was doing and that i didn like it and why but i understood her reason as a scorpio..we will give you one chance to redeem yourself ..as to maybe i had read the situation wrong..but doing it over and over than no im not gonna take it...

i could explain more but you seem like alot of drama and not worth of my time..as too whatever I say you will try to start some butter...soooo have a wonderful evening..

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calm down. I'm not making assumptions - I'm using your words and trying to offer you advice from another perspective, I don't come here to sugar coat or placate. You came here with your guns up ready to shoot, so don't think you can come here without someone wanting to shoot back.

Posted by escorpianas
Why are geminis so disgusting jealous... My roommate and best friend is a Gemini

If you would have just said roommate it would have been a little easier to swallow but you said best friend. If you've only known her for 4 months, then how can you consider her your best friend? And you hadn't mentioned (that I saw) you had had multiple conversations with her about it only to no avail. How much longer is your living situation under contract? Do you have the ability to change roommates or is this a college type situation?

Posted by escorpianas
And she thinks everyone is in love with her

Don't you think that's a pretty dramatic statement?

Posted by escorpianas
She likes the only guy that I like and she even started flirting with him.. She's always checking him out and what not
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I read here before that Geminins can 'flirt with a frying pan' so don't take everything so literally. If you trusted how he felt about you and your connection you wouldn't have to worry about it. If she is in fact jealous, then it's text book typical that this is what she would do, i.e. try to see if she can get/have what you want even if she doesn't want it. It's a game - 'survival of the fittest.'

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Posted by escorpianas
I know that she's always talking about me to other ppl when I don't even waste my time talking about her... She's just so jealous is so ugly... I don't care for her bc she's not a threat but she even told me that my personality always wins and that I'm a alpha Fe rake and I intimidate people... She also knows I'm way prettier and she doesn't get as many attention as to when she used to live with ugly roommates...

Do you even know how this sounds/comes off? Talk about drama. You make her sound like the hunchback of Notre Dame yet you're here saying she's a lying jealous bitch? You've really let her penetrate your skin. I'm curious to what it is that gets you so fired up. A word to the wise: if you don't let anything she does affect you, she'll back off. Your feeding into her game, don't. Don't feed the monster.

Posted by escorpianas
She's always talking on someone's back and she's so empty ... She thinks she can hide stuff from me... But she's just desperate for affection ad wants what I have.. I think it's ugly anybody has this problem with geminis??
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This is absolutely 100% true. She's so empty so she generates stories and anecdotes so people will listen. It's her way of getting attention. Most people think they can hide things from others; some are successful and some fail miserably. She is desperate for affection and attention which is why she's acting the way she is and it is an ugly way to live life. You don't live your life that way, so don't let her try and drag you down, you're a scorp for fuck's sake! Show her the stinger and *poof*, she'll be singing a different tune.

@bluemoon - I like your link, it's very telling.

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These Gem people you mentioned, have been your people for a long while ... since they are family, friends and best friends.

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@cokekitty-i like your perspective. esp 'you're feeding into her game, don't. don't feed the monster.'

once you get the measure of someone and work out what their game is, the rest is easy. result, petty games have no effect 🙂 seriously...girl on girl friendships...it's a jungle out there

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Posted by escorpianas

She also knows I'm way prettier and she doesn't get as many attention as to when she used to live with ugly roommates...

I think your ego is likely the only real culprit .... for, you measure people according to they look like

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Posted by hiplove79

Most times, confronting these people isn't going to solve it. They will NEVER admit to it. They'll play stupid and hate you more because you read them like a book. And they knew in those pages you saw their insecurity and how inferior you make them feel. One way to handle a friend like this is to focus on her. With that I mean, help her buildup her self-esteem. Compliment her looks or fashion sense. Praise her accomplishments, support her in her goals. Sometimes it will also require dimming your own sunshine when you're around her. Don't brag and downplay anything good in your own life.

^^^my tactic and it works for me!

no, they really won't admit to it...because it's subconscious behaviour. so rather than tread on eggshells or blow up at 'em...if the person has other areas where they're a great friend to you, go with that option.

if it can't be done, i.e it's too much of a drain, or you feel you're being manipulated to serve their needs while neglecting your own...cut loose. toxic friendships are every bit as difficult as toxic relationships. maybe even more so.

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Cocaine you're evil.. I knew you were gonna say all those stuff is so lredictable I was even gonna say no she's not my best best friend I do consider her a good friend... I'm from brazil my best friends are there a wonderful sag and always will be but I consider this Gemini a good friend I like her and she loves with me there's another roommate bu it's always the gem and I together... And no I'm not gonna sting her bc it's not to that point I don't need to sting everybody.. Wrong view of scorpios... I only sting people that I think can handle.. Scorpios have mercy if they know you Aretha strong to handle we will just ignore you and move on...

Ad no p angel I don't hate all geminis how horrible of you to say that about my brother ie never said it that way I love my brother more than anything... I was just suing that he and this girl have the habit to gossip sometimes and they know they are doing but they just can't control

And for yoh guys to understand this I would have to write a book about me and my roommate I wrote what I thought was necessary but there's alot more to it.. But I don't need more advices I'll figure out on my own.. Thanks tho

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And thanks to the others of you that actually gave good advices I did take notes

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Wow hiplove what you said all of it makes so much sense..

Since I've noticed I changed the way I treat her I even treat her with more love.. I compliment her.. When someone says something nice about me I always say and you too bc you are so much like me.. Like I try to put her as the same level as me.. Never trying to be more than her... I introduced her to alot of new people I have fun with her
I honestly dot despise her I Just despise that I'm always trig to look after her and every chance she has she gossips lol

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Nimbue that's what I've been doing.. But like you said if it gets too hard I might have to cut it

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Posted by escorpianas
Cocaine you're evil.

Really? Because...I didn't placate you and jump on your haterade train? I'm not hear to tell you what you want to hear, I'm here to tell you what you need to hear. You're misreading everything I'm saying because you're taking it as a personal attack. It's not you I'm attacking, it's what you said that I'm attacking.

Your tag for this thread is 'Geminis are nasty jealous.' You're pigeonholing an entire sign because of a bad experience you had. Do you think if I had posted 'Scorps are nasty (fill in the blank)' that it wouldn't have gotten some attention? Both negative and positive? You're generalizing a lot about your situation and then getting defensive because people are passing judgement.

Posted by escorpianas
I consider this Gemini a good friend I like her and she loves with me there's another roommate bu it's always the gem and I together.
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Really? Do you think she'd feel all of that 'love' you're now professing if she read this? You can't complain about what someone is doing (that it obviously bothering you) and then turn around and do the same thing. It doesn't work that way - 2 wrongs don't make a right.

Good luck with your situation. I don't wish you any ill will, I just think you should read everyone's perspective first and look within before spinning your wheels.

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Posted by escorpianas
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Oh yeah, it's DEFINITELY because she's a Gem. Gem girls are total bitches and whores. Jealous ones too.

oh man thank you..and some of you were saying i was being mean..haha 😉
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Lol she lives* with me haha

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