Getting back to normal?

Hi all -

How do you get back to normal with your Scorpio man after you've acted like a stupid fool? My guy has always treated me with love, adoration & respect, but after drinking WAY too much at a Christmas party, I became overly emotional & tortured him the whole car-ride home with my crying (for no reason, might I add). He did nothing at all to induce my crazy behavior, and didn't know what hit him!
I am normally not like that when I drink, but for some reason I can get all weird emotionally with him after too much wine.
Besides not drinking wine anymore, any tips on how to make it up to him??
He is the greatest guy & I am afraid I may have scared him off a bit!

Thanks,

Silly girl

Hey welcome to the human silly-moo-girl season S-girl!!!! I am that solider!!!:-)

OK so you made a fool of yourself, you made a mistake - to make mistakes is our birthright:-)!!!!

But let's get things into perspective....here....you haven't killed anyone and you/he are not dying of cancer!! OK!!

Certain drinks can have weird affects on people...wine is good for me but I can't touch bacardi or I would end up fighting with my toe-nails literally!!!

Anyway...to get back to your dilemma....you don't make a big deal or drama out of it (if you start on that track, you are going to alarm him and get him hyper and upset) - you simly in a matter of fact voice say - listen about last night and my drama-queen act, please forget it, it wasn't personal - it was a once-off and won't be happening again...let's not talk about it anymore...I feel foolish enough....if he's half the guy you know he is...he'll know how bad you feel and how sincere your apology is and he'll probably reply - forget it...we all make mistakes....

As for scaring him off....maybe he was upset and scared at the time it was happening but listen to me - after a day or so, everything is just a 7-day wonder!! or 7 minute wonder!!!...everyone forgets...the bad feelings fade and dampen and normality, swings back in quickly for everyone....so I say to you...don't get "stuck in a moment" - that moment has gone, it was another time and another place:-) Be happy:-)
Alana x

Oh s-girl122,

You must be beating yourself up right now. There must be something deep inside that is hurting you to have it come to the surface for seemingly no reason other than wine.

Scorp's are pretty forgiving of the human condition.

Hope you didn't cross the line and he will bounce back to your side.

candlegirl

Alana & Candle Girl...

Thanks for your encouragement!
You both are right ...it's not the end of the world & I am feeling better already. I wish I could erase last week all together because I was an emotional disaster all week. Might be the pill or even just being nervous about finally finding the right guy. (I have this little habit of pushing away the men I love once I'm close to them). Leftover childhood crap I suppose........that's why I was alarmed enough to write my message. I don't want this one to go away!

Thanks again ladies!!

Sgirl - I have to say I agree with Candle Girl that we're pretty forgiving of the human condition (that was put very well, by the way). He is fine, you'll both be just fine, just explain that you're sorry for being weird and you yourself aren't sure why you were.

Ya know phoenix rising, I have found my Scorpio to have that terrible trait of turning his back on people who have 'crossed that line' but when people are weak or hurt and lash out, or use poor judgement, he is most forgiving. That's why I used the human condition term. To really know a Scorpio or should I say if a Scorpio let's you close enough to know them, they are very loyal and even protective.

C-girl