I have done both and if you are just "having sex" there is no real intimacy. I mean not like you would want it to be with a partner. Making Love is beautiful you have such an intimate closeness. Kissing, cuddling, candles...*sighs* beautiful. But you know what, sometimes good ole fashion fukking can do it to. The animal may come out when you least expect it. But over the two. Making Love-Hands Down.
Hey, Choc. No, I was watching some Lifetime movie and it was brought up in the script! LOL....so I figured I would find out what other people thought of it.
Sometimes I think as girls we've had the whole fairy tale/ harlequin romance novel thing so embedded in us that we want something that doesn't really exist. I'm 35...I've had sex that physically sent me places I'd never been before...but it wasn't "making love"..for some reason that has spiritual tones to me- and I've never found it. I'd like to- but I'm not sure it's real. I've tried to put my mind in that state of being during sex- but it doesn't reach what I'm looking for- perhaps because of my partner...I dunno. Maybe there's *supposed* to be a separation between physical "intimacy" and emotional "intimacy"?
No, but the way i see it, teenage girls with a boyfriend that sleeps around like to tell themselves they are special. So he's just "having sex" with the others, but he's "making love" to me. One of many possible explanations.
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I met a scorpio.... I was also married to one for 15 years and said nooooooo never again, but here I am. I'm a Virgo and he is a three time Scorpio. I don't know much about that but thats what he says. Of course we met after a recent brakeup of mine,
This may have been posted on here before, but I can't find it.
Scorpios, what do you look for or find attractive in the opposite sex? What makes you say "she's/he's a keeper" or "no, thanks...next"? What do you find irresistible?
Libra husband, scorpio wife married 18 years, together 21. Nineteen of those he has ongoing spiritually and romantically charged mostly long distance with an ex girlfriend. I am for the most part forgiving and understanding except f
Was watching the late news last night and found out that the planet pluto is in an identity crisis because scientist want to take the smallest planet with the the most sensitivity and emotion and rename it with a unemotional planet called Zena taken
why people disappear and come back to the boards with different names. I don't understand that. I don't post often, but lurk about quite a bit- and I've seen these "rebirths" occur frequently. Is there a reason behind it? Does someone make such an idio