Forgiving Perspective

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by taurusgoddess on Wednesday, August 16, 2006 and has 15 replies.

Profile picture of ninainthesky123
@ninainthesky123
20 Years

If we didn't create expectations, we wouldn't have to forgive anyone. But we do, so we have to forgive ourselves for creating expectations 🙂

Profile picture of ninainthesky123
@ninainthesky123
20 Years

Hahahaha! So, does this mean that scorps cling to the past, cannot forget neither forgive? Cuz if you can forget you kind of forgive right? Well, I have to admit that if I feel betrayed, I can forgive the person, but my relationship with him/her will change. Does forgiveness imply trusting the person again, the same way?

Profile picture of Karima27
@Karima27
20 Years500+ PostsScorpio

NO! Scorpio's I wouldn't say "cling" to the past that is more of a Cancer thing. Sorry Cancer's but it is true. If we are more mature. We take each relationship for what it really is. I forgave my ex numerous times. But he is such an idiot. I just can't do it anymore. Forgive we can do. Forget? Never!

Profile picture of taurusgoddess
@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

I am pretty forgiving if I know they are truly sorry, and I think in my forgiveness the other person becomes the same way - it's part of understanding each other & growing together and as humans.

Profile picture of Yama
@Yama
20 Years5,000+ PostsScorpio

"If we could read the secret history of our enemies, we should find in each man's life sorrow and suffering enough to disarm all hostility."

Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Profile picture of VAL
@VAL
20 Years500+ Posts

Forgive?

Only if you show you're really sorry- Scorp. can facilitate that.

Tears are good, stripes are better.

tears and stripes will always do the trick.

tears and stripes should be a scorp. flag.

Profile picture of taurusgoddess
@taurusgoddess
21 Years1,000+ PostsTaurus

Thanks for the advice Val...actually I think that's what worked when my scorp was really mad at me once. Oh f, I thot I lost him & bawled and he suckered him in. But looking back I acted more sorry than he deserved, he has a way of turning things totally completely only in his perspcetive. Damn scorps!