Having Sex vs. Making Love

What are your views/opinions/definitions?

Having Sex Vs. Making Love...

I have done both and if you are just "having sex" there is no real intimacy. I mean not like you would want it to be with a partner. Making Love is beautiful you have such an intimate closeness. Kissing, cuddling, candles...*sighs* beautiful. But you know what, sometimes good ole fashion fukking can do it to. The animal may come out when you least expect it. But over the two. Making Love-Hands Down.

r u trying to torture me?!!

Making love is a cheap way of trying to convince yourself that sex is more meaningful than just sex. Love is a feeling, it has nothing to do with sex.

Probably the lamest thing i've heard.

Hey, Choc. No, I was watching some Lifetime movie and it was brought up in the script! LOL....so I figured I would find out what other people thought of it.

I can picture Mr. Crabby with his significant other...."so uh...you wanna knock boots, baby?"

GL, when's the baby due?

what are you having? is this yoru first?

"Significant other", you sound like an insurance chart.

oh, i don't frequent the aqua board much anymore because of one particular person...

sorry. I didn't know! 😉

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Sometimes I think as girls we've had the whole fairy tale/ harlequin romance novel thing so embedded in us that we want something that doesn't really exist. I'm 35...I've had sex that physically sent me places I'd never been before...but it wasn't "making love"..for some reason that has spiritual tones to me- and I've never found it. I'd like to- but I'm not sure it's real. I've tried to put my mind in that state of being during sex- but it doesn't reach what I'm looking for- perhaps because of my partner...I dunno. Maybe there's *supposed* to be a separation between physical "intimacy" and emotional "intimacy"?

No, but the way i see it, teenage girls with a boyfriend that sleeps around like to tell themselves they are special. So he's just "having sex" with the others, but he's "making love" to me. One of many possible explanations.