Heartbroken pisces over Scorpio with Virgo

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I am unsure if any of you remember me. But I originally spoke about my love for my Scorpio man and then my concern over him being very friendly with a Virgo coworker of his. It seems like my suspicions were true. He came to me yesterday very stoic like, almost like void of emotion and told me he could not keep his feelings to himself any longer. He told me he had fallen in love with the Virgo and he could not keep on lying to me any longer.

He said he felt too connected to her, in ways that he and I did not connect. I broke down in tears and that’s when his demeanor broke and he started to hug me and comfort me 😢 I asked him if he had had an affair with her, and he said no. That their friendship was too intense and his feelings started to grow at their psychic bond. He left after we talked for many hours.

Please help guys, I am completely heartbroken over him. I am happy he told me but I have lost my Scorpio man. Is there really a psychic connection between Virgo and Scorpio man? What does virgo have that I do not? I thought Pisces and Scorpio was everlasting love. I guess not. Is there anyway he will ever come back 😢
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Posted by EveryOunce
That's awful. I'm sorry to hear that. The good news is he was honest wth you instead of leading you on. Mourn the relationship. Cry, yell, vent what ever you have to do then move on. Most importantly don't compare yourself to anyone else. Some things just don't work out.



Thank you, I have been doing all of the above. I know I should never compare myself to her or anyone but it is hard. I thought he and I was doing well. I should have known though... even I could feel their chemistry when they were together
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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yikes.. She'll probably cheat on him with a taurus. And then the taurus will cheat on the virgo with you, and it will all come full circle.



You should see the way his eyes sparkled when he spoke of her and was around her just months ago. That is why I became suspicious and Insecure. I could even feel the bond through the air...
I thought Taurus and Virgo were a match made in heaven. I also believed that Scorpio and Pisces were everlasting love. So I suppose I am wrong
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First thing is first, do not go by astrology to tell you if a relationship is suppose to last or not. Can you look at general compatibility? Sure. But don't believe just because two people have compatible signs, that will mean it will last forever.

Second, I am sorry you are heartbroken. But remember your worth. Why would you EVER want someone back that stopped making you a priority, and gave you what should have only been yours to have, his love? Value yourself as you should, that you deserve more than being second to another woman. But remember that you must give as much as you demand as well.

Last, he isn't worth your tears.
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Posted by DeleterNerd
Yikes.. She'll probably cheat on him with a taurus. And then the taurus will cheat on the virgo with you, and it will all come full circle.





You should see the way his eyes sparkled when he spoke of her and was around her just months ago. That is why I became suspicious and Insecure. I could even feel the bond through the air...

I thought Taurus and Virgo were a match made in heaven. I also believed that Scorpio and Pisces were everlasting love. So I suppose I am wrong click to expand
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I know what you mean about feeling the bond...and surely you must be feeling what you have to do now...let them be. You need to find someone to have a similarly strong bond with...so that anyone could feel it too!

Statistically speaking, Scorpio man is the worst choice for Pisces women. The best one is Capricorn. Good luck yo you!
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@SunsetVirgo .............





I honestly.. have no idea how to explain this click to expand

I think it's fair enough, Capricorn choose Piscean, Scorpio prefer Virgos.

But I want Pisces women to be happy, so this saddened me too. 😿 click to expand
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Scorpio really doesn’t LMFAOOOOO but this is a very sad situation indeed.

Maybe this is your chance to swoop in and sweep her off her feet 👀
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As a Virgo who has had many relationships and friendships with Scorpios, I would say that there is something very special and magnetising between us. They are my best best friends. I cannot describe it. Probably not the best thing to hear for you now but.. I do believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find your love soon.

As for the comment about Virgos being untrustworthy, I think that regardless if someone was in a relationship or not, I personally would only feel slightly guilty if I had to 'steal' (you can't steal people) them away if I thought we were meant for each other because I believe in true love. Though I will say if they were married then I would keep away. I could not deal with the shame.

Getting your heart broken is the worst but the good news is that it will get better. This too shall pass! I hope that things improve for you really soon as you seem like a kind person🙂
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As a Virgo who has had many relationships and friendships with Scorpios, I would say that there is something very special and magnetising between us. They are my best best friends. I cannot describe it. Probably not the best thing to hear for you now but.. I do believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find your love soon.

As for the comment about Virgos being untrustworthy, I think that regardless if someone was in a relationship or not, I personally would only feel slightly guilty if I had to 'steal' (you can't steal people) them away if I thought we were meant for each other because I believe in true love. Though I will say if they were married then I would keep away. I could not deal with the shame.

Getting your heart broken is the worst but the good news is that it will get better. This too shall pass! I hope that things improve for you really soon as you seem like a kind person
Same. It’s too magnetic. Makes me suspicious
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I havent read through this post..so things may had change with you..but he is full of shit. He is infatuated with some chic he really don't know. This is why oposite sex need to watch there friendships with each other while in relationships. I also seen scorps...do this a lot in relationships..especially the ones who don't really know themselves.

I had male scorp. Friend who was married for a couple of years. I knew him since I was 16. He cried for years over not finding the right women. He met a good women married her. Then few years later new female came on the job and he said to me in his words...I have been watching this girl on my job..we are connected. I said wtf you mean ...a connection. Later he said I talk to her in she is my soul mate. I told him...you are a dumb mother fucker..and you are about to fuck up a marriage over a female you don't really know. He was stubboring. I tried to speak some knowledge to him..but he was so far gone. He had that Peter Pan syndrome. Well long story short he end the marriage..been with this girl for 2 years and miserable but trying to front like he is happy. I know deep down he know he f up but he will not admit it over his ego. I predicted that he will have some type of break down in the next few years. I been around a lot of scorps..and if they haven't grown out there stubboring bullshit they will live years pretending they not fuck up while allowing it to spill through on other things in there life. Let me add to this..he or his exwife had no children at the time they was trying to have a baby. He also have no close relationship with his mother or father. When he met his ex wife he was so happy to have a mother and father figure in his life. Ex wife father paid for him to go back to school too...but left exwife for a women who had family issues too. This girl haven't spoken to her mom or father for years. She actually was raised by her grandmother who passed. She also have 3 kids..all different fathers..and the girlfriend don't have agood relationship with them. Self-destruction. .

I don't know. ..but I seen Scorpio do this alot. Mainly the ones who don't take time to figure themselves out. Scorps are good at doING the detective work on you..but they find it hard to see themselves and working on there own shit without trying to destroy or self-destruct themselves or others.
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As a Virgo who has had many relationships and friendships with Scorpios, I would say that there is something very special and magnetising between us. They are my best best friends. I cannot describe it. Probably not the best thing to hear for you now but.. I do believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find your love soon.

As for the comment about Virgos being untrustworthy, I think that regardless if someone was in a relationship or not, I personally would only feel slightly guilty if I had to 'steal' (you can't steal people) them away if I thought we were meant for each other because I believe in true love. Though I will say if they were married then I would keep away. I could not deal with the shame.

Getting your heart broken is the worst but the good news is that it will get better. This too shall pass! I hope that things improve for you really soon as you seem like a kind person



Same. It’s too magnetic. Makes me suspicious click to expand

I agree the connection is really suspicious

I had a crush on a scorp when I was like 19 and woah!!!!
I tried to run away but he wouldn’t let me. Thank goodness I moved otherwise I would be in that trap forever click to expand
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Ive had something similar. I don’t trust myself around Scorp men for that very reason
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Posted by Charleighrose22
As a Virgo who has had many relationships and friendships with Scorpios, I would say that there is something very special and magnetising between us. They are my best best friends. I cannot describe it. Probably not the best thing to hear for you now but.. I do believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find your love soon.

As for the comment about Virgos being untrustworthy, I think that regardless if someone was in a relationship or not, I personally would only feel slightly guilty if I had to 'steal' (you can't steal people) them away if I thought we were meant for each other because I believe in true love. Though I will say if they were married then I would keep away. I could not deal with the shame.

Getting your heart broken is the worst but the good news is that it will get better. This too shall pass! I hope that things improve for you really soon as you seem like a kind person



Same. It’s too magnetic. Makes me suspicious click to expand



I agree the connection is really suspicious

I had a crush on a scorp when I was like 19 and woah!!!!
I tried to run away but he wouldn’t let me. Thank goodness I moved otherwise I would be in that trap forever click to expand

Ive had something similar. I don’t trust myself around Scorp men for that very reason click to expand
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that cuz theyre the ones that can easily hurt u the very most. thats why scary.
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At least he was honest. Accept it and move on the best you can. Astrology is crap. The good news is that your real true mate is still out there waiting for you. Take time to heal and love yourself. This heartache will pass.

Exactly this, at least he came to you and was open. I know that doesn't make it easier, but better than him doing something behind your back.... Were you with him for a long time?
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Never trust a Virgo.



Or the Scorpio men that marry them. click to expand


What does that mean? Do they cheat on us? Or leave us— click to expand

It means nothing. @therabbit is married to a virgo. I was lowkey shading him. click to expand
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Do they leave virgo woman tho for another woman?
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Never trust a Virgo.



Or the Scorpio men that marry them. click to expand


What does that mean? Do they cheat on us? Or leave us— click to expand



It means nothing. @therabbit is married to a virgo. I was lowkey shading him. click to expand

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Do they leave virgo woman tho for another woman? click to expand
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I don't know.

But I don't accept any man that puts me behind another woman.
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This time I have a different take on it to @nikkistar but I am not a woman.

No doubt it sucks you didn't get what you want, but you got honesty. That's a credit to you.
The honesty isn't necessarily the issue. I give that dude some credit in telling her, cause if they make a different agreement, so be it. But she obviously doesn't want to share, so why play second fiddle? It would just make her miserable to share his affections with someone else.
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This time I have a different take on it to @nikkistar but I am not a woman.

No doubt it sucks you didn't get what you want, but you got honesty. That's a credit to you.



The honesty isn't necessarily the issue. I give that dude some credit in telling her, cause if they make a different agreement, so be it. But she obviously doesn't want to share, so why play second fiddle? It would just make her miserable to share his affections with someone else. click to expand

I admit I only skim read the thread but I didn't see him offering to share her, just that he didnt feel what she felt.

And really if I'm in a place where I can attract that kind of honesty from others then I'm in a good place to be dateable and find what I want in the right person. click to expand
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Agreed. That is why I believe she should move on to find someone that would not make her second. She could easily find someone who will be honest with her, and have the same relationship wants as she does.
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Posted by Charleighrose22
As a Virgo who has had many relationships and friendships with Scorpios, I would say that there is something very special and magnetising between us. They are my best best friends. I cannot describe it. Probably not the best thing to hear for you now but.. I do believe there is someone for everyone. You'll find your love soon.

As for the comment about Virgos being untrustworthy, I think that regardless if someone was in a relationship or not, I personally would only feel slightly guilty if I had to 'steal' (you can't steal people) them away if I thought we were meant for each other because I believe in true love. Though I will say if they were married then I would keep away. I could not deal with the shame.

Getting your heart broken is the worst but the good news is that it will get better. This too shall pass! I hope that things improve for you really soon as you seem like a kind person



Same. It’s too magnetic. Makes me suspicious click to expand



I agree the connection is really suspicious

I had a crush on a scorp when I was like 19 and woah!!!!
I tried to run away but he wouldn’t let me. Thank goodness I moved otherwise I would be in that trap forever click to expand



Ive had something similar. I don’t trust myself around Scorp men for that very reason click to expand

that cuz theyre the ones that can easily hurt u the very most. thats why scary. click to expand
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I suppose ur right.
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Never trust a Virgo.



You still with yours Rabbit? click to expand



We Virgo's are no men stealers we don't like leftovers nor someone who can't speak the truth if you have a girlfriend we rather distance ourselves maybe he is just being obsessed with the virgo but maybe she doesn't even know it. click to expand

Virgo’s like it like the baby birds that receive premasticated food from it’s mother click to expand
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lies all lies why you have to hate on us?
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Is there really a psychic connection between Virgo and Scorpio man? What does virgo have that I do not? I thought Pisces and Scorpio was everlasting love. I guess not. Is there anyway he will ever come back



First off, this is just messed up. No matter the sign... This is cheating. And it burns so badly.

In the Scorpio and Virgo relationship, there is at the core this Virgin meets Sex image. It may sound stupid but only in the aspect that if you have torn love from sex so much that this Virgin and Sex imagery gets kind of marred and loses it's beauty. Scorpio brings virgo into its fears, its worries, its paranoia, it's sorrows and helps face their curses and then... Execution. Scorpio is also death, not just in the physical aspect but it's spiritual as well...this is what Virgo seeks. Actually what virgo needs: to face it's fear, to be put to death and then regeneration... All aspects of a Scorpio. Scorpio itself is the actual process, the "valley of shadow and death" and the rebirth virgo craves, if she allows herself to embrace it and finally disregard the evil gatekeeper within that prevents her from breaking free (I speak of this pain as a more personal level though. I know we're all different and have our own hells to go through).

In their relationship, I'm sure there's more to play than what's going on in just the sun.. It alone isn't enough because a virgo and a scorpio can and does have a quality of nobility to them. But these two... these two are not right and using there zodiacs alone as an excuse to just twist your heart. TF? Do not tolerate this.

You sunk to the bottom little fishy. Time let these pangs of pain rebirth you into a beautiful and much stronger creature. Put that middle finger in the air and say goodbye. (I'll help you lol) click to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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I like this analogy...Virgo is a mental, controlled, maternal energy and Scorpio is an emotional one. They teach us to go to the depths of heaven or hell without overthinking. Classic Persephone/Hades.
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I don't understand what you're all talking about ? What Scorp/Virgo connection ? Personally, I really can't seem them other than a friends. They make good friends though. But as a lover ? No thanks.


Chased a handful or two or three, but never got any play from them. I don't see it either (on their part).

Most consistent sign in ghosting me - by far. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand
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Dating my 3rd scorpio, and ex was aries with scorp moon. If you ever get the chance to date a virgal I'd say go for it, it's a calm, naturally easy mix. Especially if you find one of us with MiS like yourself...
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I don't understand what you're all talking about ? What Scorp/Virgo connection ? Personally, I really can't seem them other than a friends. They make good friends though. But as a lover ? No thanks.


Chased a handful or two or three, but never got any play from them. I don't see it either (on their part).

Most consistent sign in ghosting me - by far. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand

Dating my 3rd scorpio, and ex was aries with scorp moon. If you ever get the chance to date a virgal I'd say go for it, it's a calm, naturally easy mix. Especially if you find one of us with MiS like yourself... click to expand


They ones I talked to seem very focused on the 'idea' of perfection.

I am definitely not perfect. click to expandclick to expand
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None of us are, that's one of the many reasons I like being around scorps. They have taught me to be more relaxed and feel more...play in the dirty end of the pool so to say.
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Posted by peachy06
I don't understand what you're all talking about ? What Scorp/Virgo connection ? Personally, I really can't seem them other than a friends. They make good friends though. But as a lover ? No thanks.


Chased a handful or two or three, but never got any play from them. I don't see it either (on their part).

Most consistent sign in ghosting me - by far. click to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expandclick to expand

Dating my 3rd scorpio, and ex was aries with scorp moon. If you ever get the chance to date a virgal I'd say go for it, it's a calm, naturally easy mix. Especially if you find one of us with MiS like yourself... click to expand
They ones I talked to seem very focused on the 'idea' of perfection.

I am definitely not perfect. click to expand
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Have you ever talked to the “tattoo and hippie” type of Virgo
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This time I have a different take on it to @nikkistar but I am not a woman.

No doubt it sucks you didn't get what you want, but you got honesty. That's a credit to you.



The honesty isn't necessarily the issue. I give that dude some credit in telling her, cause if they make a different agreement, so be it. But she obviously doesn't want to share, so why play second fiddle? It would just make her miserable to share his affections with someone else. click to expand

I admit I only skim read the thread but I didn't see him offering to share her, just that he didnt feel what she felt.

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/>And really if I'm in a place where I can attract that kind of honesty from others then I'm in a good place to be dateable and find what I want in the right person. click to expand
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that's assuming he didn't lie when he said he hadn't already cheated on her

which let's be honest he most definitely did

and the sex only confirmed the intense connection