Help! I pissed off a scorpio!

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Sun_in_Leo
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I need help. I have pissed off a scorpio. I'm not really sure what I did, but this particular scorpio has recently gotten so mad at me for some reason that he won't talk to me, he won't even tell me what I did to upset him and make him never speak to me again. And when I told him that I wanted to come talk to him about it, he told me not to or he'll call the police! What the cus'—? Is he out of his mind? Or has anyone ever heard of this before? I'm so upset, I've tried to call him and visit him, but he won't answer his door, he did pick up the phone, but only to hang up on me. What do I do?
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sunnynight
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Hey tell us more...so we can help you..Just remember every little thing where you could go wrong(If you know the guy better,you will be able to catch it fast) My advice is to give him space for a while and meanwhile try contacting him in a silent way...try e-mailing him if you know his ID so he will know that you really want to make him calm down and want this relationship..or else he may think you don't care if you just stop contacting..All the best..and yeah tell us more,these scorps can give you real good suggessions.
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juwanapla
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Did you go through his personal stuff? Sounds like you really pissed him off! I would just totally ignore him like he is doing to you. If he wants to come around and talk, he will eventually. But not if you keep bugging him. The worst is when I tell someone to leave me alone and they are persistant in talking to me. I consider it stalking. Give him alot of space and time. Is he really worth the energy anyway Sun-in-leo—?
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Sun_in_Leo
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thanks all, yes, overdramatic...you can say that again. But I think that is becuase once when we had a fight, i went to see him and he told me to go away. I didn't and he couldn't make me leave, he wanted me to stay. I think he was mad at himself for not making me leave. So when i tried to talk to him the next day, thinking we patched things up...he was doubly mad, and we didn't speak after that for a few months! I can't explain it all, suffice it to say, that our relationship has been stormy with many fights. But usually I just leave when he starts acting up. I ignor it, and he gets worse, till i leave. Then he doesn't speak to me for a while. After the last fight i didn't think i'd see him again. But...who knows, he gets me so confused, i think i should just forget all about him, but I muct say...those sexy scorpios really to have a magnatism that's hard to resist.
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i am a virgo in love with a scropio, and now he is gone. i pissed him off . we have lived together for 3-4 months,but he left before ,and came back. he is a swwet guy, and i got to admit that i didn't see it he is young, but he made me feel very secure. he is loving, affectionate, and very honest. these are things i wasn't use to. he tired to be there for me, but i put up a wall, and now i regret it. i see a lot of you are going thru the same things so i don't feel alone. i want him back in my life, but im scared he want come back. i need help thru this time apart from my scropio what can i do?
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pookie42
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i have tried to call him, but his cell phone is not working i can callhis fathers cell# but i dont know if he will even answer. we have a lot to talk about especially me. i feel that i didn't give him a chance. he came in my life excepted me for who i was, and my kids. he is young so he did young things which i came to except he will grow. but what really mattered is that he was geniunely nice, and helpful he reached out for love, and i was scared, because of what people thought of him, and i. i love him, and i appreciate what he did for me. the last time we talked he said i nagged to much, and i m not sure what else he was sitting behind a door. i didn't know what to do he made up his mind to leave, but i am having a hard time without him i can't sleep or eat. will he come baack or is it really over?
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pookie42
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i am virgo and he is 26yrs old i am 36yrs old. he loved my kids, and he wanted to meet my mother, and my sister but i was to afraid of how htey would react you know he is the style st the saggy pants not to saggy the upbeat shirts sometimes hats not in bad taste, and he treats me well. i just don't know. no he didn't turn off the phone before it was turned off, because he pays for his minutes, and his minutes ran out. i just need to know waht to do to get him back in my life. we had so many good times things just got bad over the last month he life college to work, and a job was coming fast enough bills piled up, and i panick, and good frustrated. HELP
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"he tired to be there for me, but i put up a wall, and now i regret it."

pookie, it doesn't sound like the whole problem was just him not working and you freaking out about it ... for, it looks to me he wasn't feeling as loved by you, as you feel he gave to you. For instance, you were embarrassed to let him meet your family because you worry about what people will think .. your wall was erected when he tried to be there. Now, you saw you regret it ... however, regret doesn't mean you have actually sorted out the insecurities.

My whole point with this ... if you have a wall erected and this is what he is sensing, then it would be pointless to get him back until you figure out why you are afraid to open up, for he will just leave again. You go on about how he made you feel and how he treated your kids .. however, your only description of how you treated him was not with quite the same sense of security.

My thoughts are .. you need to work on yourself and exactly what it is you want and are able to give, before attempting to get him back.

That is, if, I read this right .. it's alittle confusing. Hopefully you will be able to find what you need to help you figure this out. 🙂
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pookie42
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wow you hit the hammer on the nail. i am afraid of my feelings of what may come of this . i am of afraid of failure i fail in one situation with a man for years, and i just want it to be right this time. i know i love him, and i truly believe he loves me ifelt that in my heart. i see the potential, and it is overwhelming we could do so much all it takes is me to jump in that pool , and swim. love is love, and that is all i ever wanted, but never truly felt it. i felt like he wanted no more then for me to prove my love for him, and i want to more then ever, sometimes this is waht it takes.