Hot and Cold

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sentimentalsag
@sentimentalsag
8 Years

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We started out as nsa and have since become really good friends. We still sleep with eachother exclusively but we haven't made anything official because I'm not sure either of us are ready for more.

We enjoy the connection we share and have deep meaningful conversations and non sexual experiences together. He holds my hand in public, kisses me passionately and always goes out of his way to do nice things for me.

Its the hot and cold aspects of him that I don't particularly enjoy. Intense, passionate and intimate moments are usually followed by distance. I give him space during these times and he always comes back but I've developed feelings for him. Advice please!
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Rawr
@Epi
9 Years

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I said it in another thread, it's just a spell. It only lasts so long and it's completely normal for Scorps to check out for "me" time. Sometimes it's just being tired or wound up, you don't want to be around when we don't like ourselves. It's a powerful thing, but it's our thing. Don't make it about you, because you're the anchor, the thing that brings him back. Sometimes life doesn't go the way we want and that messes with us, but having a hard point to go back to is so comforting.