How do I get this Scorpio man to be mine?

I've invited him to lunch, he turns me down. He will hang out when it is our group of friends, but never alone with me. I like him a lot, he has told me, that he is not interested in a relationship, but never tells me why. I don't really know him that well. We have a lot of mutual friends. Fast forward 3 days later, I find out from his best friend that him and his ex broke up because he has some things that he needs to sort out. I find out from his best that he still loves and cares for his ex, him and his ex text everyday for hours on end and I even find out that they hook up occasionally. His best friend told me that him and her are very close, they see each other at the least, once a week. He told his best that he has stuff he needs to figure out on his own, on top of being sure that he really wants to be with his ex. His best friend told me that he leans on his ex a lot for support. His best friend showed me a picture of her, I really don't see what the big deal is about her. She is what I consider to be a plain JANE. I like to think that he is just using his ex, Scorpios don't just hook up with girls or at least have no respect for girls that do that sort of thing. How can I get him to notice me, that I can be all that an more for him.

Posted by LittleMissPerfect

LMAO!! 😄

Posted by GetMisted
1. Ever think that maybe your "plain JANE" is his dream girl?

2. Ever think that maybe pretentiousness isn't attractive?

3. Ever think that he knows he relys on her too much, hense the need to step away and fix himself?

4. If you think he's using his ex, why would you want that?

5. Do you think you're better than her?

6. Do you think you can fix him?

PS.. I hook up with women. And I still respect them afterwards.

Check yo self!

+1

Posted by alisharose67

... he has told me, that he is not interested in a relationship, but never tells me why.

I don't really know him that well.

In saying, "never tells me why", you make the clarification here that it has been multiple times that he has been approached with your interest in a relationship.

so, this isn't even an isolated incidence. This is you pressuring a guy to be with you, who is clearly not interested.

And then you turn and say that you don't really know him.

You're either another dense Taurus ... or a high school girl, failing miserably at trying to pretend to be an adult.

Suddenly, in the past 2/3 days, there's been this influx of really emotionally immature people making threads, pretending to be adults.

They're transparent, but, completely clueless to it, like a typical teenager.

I cannot stand dxp when school is out ... fake teenagers are buttcracks