How does Scorpio recover from heartbreak?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by SalamanderCandy on Sunday, August 12, 2018 and has 12 replies.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Don’t know about men but women...my cousin getting married 4th time soon!

Though every time she had divorce she sworn not to ever marry again! Lmao

Last one was BAD! 15 y/old younger man. 15 years marriage!

Thought she would go nuts!

No shit! Phoenix arosed from ashes and there she goes! Happy af!

Lol

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@PhishFood
8 Years

Posted by Lala1393

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I think we can recover but we still stay attached to the person. That person forever stays a part of who we are and will become simply because they were part of whomever we used to be.

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I felt something when I read that. Feels like you worded something I had been thinking but couldn't articulate.

But why does that happens though, it's painful. I don't like to say good bye to anyone 😢

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@PhishFood
8 Years

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Time.

Scorpios always have a hard time letting go. You either drown yourself in your emotions until you move on or find someone else to love; whichever comes first but that person always stays with us. It may not seem like it but we are true unconditional lovers

Why do water signs have a hard time to let go? They should be able to move, make their own way and flow.

I feel really upset now just by reading that their are others who feel the way I do and struggle to let go 😢

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@PhishFood
8 Years

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Time.

Scorpios always have a hard time letting go. You either drown yourself in your emotions until you move on or find someone else to love; whichever comes first but that person always stays with us. It may not seem like it but we are true unconditional lovers

Why do water signs have a hard time to let go? They should be able to move, make their own way and flow.

I feel really upset now just by reading that their are others who feel the way I do and struggle to let go 😢

@PhishFood

I mean water signs generally do but when there is a connection of some sort especially an emotional one, it is hard for us, no matter how bad the relationship gets... attachment.

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Do you feel like there's so much brain space available that each and every emotion, feeling just gets captured. It seems like a chest, you open it, think about something and all the feeling, the pain the anguish comes flying back, often harder than it was the first time round ?

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@PhishFood
8 Years

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

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Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Time.

Scorpios always have a hard time letting go. You either drown yourself in your emotions until you move on or find someone else to love; whichever comes first but that person always stays with us. It may not seem like it but we are true unconditional lovers

Why do water signs have a hard time to let go? They should be able to move, make their own way and flow.

I feel really upset now just by reading that their are others who feel the way I do and struggle to let go 😢

@PhishFood

I mean water signs generally do but when there is a connection of some sort especially an emotional one, it is hard for us, no matter how bad the relationship gets... attachment.

Do you feel like there's so much brain space available that each and every emotion, feeling just gets captured. It seems like a chest, you open it, think about something and all the feeling, the pain the anguish comes flying back, often harder than it was the first time round ?

@PhishFood

Like rumination?

For me the most difficult part about experiencing these intense feelings is not being able to put it in to words. I try to explain it to others sometimes and they are just dismissive because they don’t understand; think I’m being dramatic or overreacting. That may be the case sometimes but I don’t share often so for me it’s everything I’ve pent up. The intensity dies down over time so it doesn’t affect me as much

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I just question a lot! People don't seem to get what I feel.

It doesn't gets easier though, it seems like either I'm incapable to tell, or they don't want to understand.

I push away people a lot. Being involved is scary.

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@PhishFood
8 Years

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Posted by PhishFood

Posted by TwinnFlamee1989

Time.

Scorpios always have a hard time letting go. You either drown yourself in your emotions until you move on or find someone else to love; whichever comes first but that person always stays with us. It may not seem like it but we are true unconditional lovers

Why do water signs have a hard time to let go? They should be able to move, make their own way and flow.

I feel really upset now just by reading that their are others who feel the way I do and struggle to let go 😢

@PhishFood

I mean water signs generally do but when there is a connection of some sort especially an emotional one, it is hard for us, no matter how bad the relationship gets... attachment.

Do you feel like there's so much brain space available that each and every emotion, feeling just gets captured. It seems like a chest, you open it, think about something and all the feeling, the pain the anguish comes flying back, often harder than it was the first time round ?

@PhishFood

Like rumination?

For me the most difficult part about experiencing these intense feelings is not being able to put it in to words. I try to explain it to others sometimes and they are just dismissive because they don’t understand; think I’m being dramatic or overreacting. That may be the case sometimes but I don’t share often so for me it’s everything I’ve pent up. The intensity dies down over time so it doesn’t affect me as much

I just question a lot! People don't seem to get what I feel.

It doesn't gets easier though, it seems like either I'm incapable to tell, or they don't want to understand.

I push away people a lot. Being involved is scary.

@PhishFood

I totally get where you are coming from. If you ever need to talk DM me.

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Thank you