How much does your Scorp mate annoy you? (Page 2)

You make it sound so easy! Lol

I crazy!

Aww 🙂)

Posted by capgirl69
Generally mine does not annoy me but there is one thing he does that drives me nuts:

When I get upset about something he tells me I'm making him feel bad.

It's like, "Hello, how do you think I feel right now? Didn't you make me feel bad first?"

Lol.

Yes! Mine did this. And then I would have to comfort him, lol.

AG; I think part of it is that I've noticed on a couple of threads that you mention your maturity, how you seem older yada yada...

But you are only 24! When I was 24 I was buying all kinds of ridiculous outfits & makeup, going to concerts i couldn't afford then eating 2 minute noodles for dinner, suffering a hangover Thursday to Tuesday, late for work- generally making a mess of my life and loving it!

As you get older *ahem* there is the tendancy to get cynical, harder, shorter with people etc... But don't be in a hurry to get there- make sure you have lots of fun, and dare I say it - act your age 🙂

Posted by tw1nk1e
I want to grow up. I'm tired of having things screwed up because I didn't learn my lesson yet.

I know hindsight is 20/20 but I've lost too much valuable shit before I knew it. I'm really tired of it.

Anyway, I'm rooting for AgentGem. If I knew what I knew now I wouldn't have lost my Scorpio ex. So I really hope that she does figure things out for her own happiness and that things go well for them.

Growing up doesn't mean you don't still screw up!
If only!!!

Life is one tough lesson

It does make sense tw1nk1e.
Sadly there are no 'do-overs' in life...

But you seem like you are at least capable of learning, growing and TBH normal is over-rated!

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Posted by theie
girl taking medicine to calm down making thread named "how much does your scorpio annoy you"



you dont deserve a scorpio u ugly whore

Just because you lack the balls to be open about your weaknesses doesn't mean you get to pretend like you are perfect.

So you have Scorpio in your chart. You want some fucking applause because your mom popped you out in October or November?

Get the fuck over yourself, douche.

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That was awesome!! -bows down-

Seriously, lol who is this ass? FYI, in case you didn't read...I am not on any medication to alter my moods. I'm taking BIRTH CONTROL, an oral contraceptive. Not a drug. I switched to one that had a negative effect so I'm switching to my old one.

Also, you don't know me so....if you did, you would know I'm not a whore, and I'm far from ugly. I appreciate your obvious jealous/insecurity though 😉

I may have my issues, but hell doesn't everyone? If you don't have something nice to say, kindly swim into shark infested waters in a burning building, k thanks. Now is the time to be constructive, not full out douche.

And thank you guys, that means a lot🙂 yeah see, I stress myself. I buy myself things but I would rather spend more money on healthier food and go out less. I have never been wasted or had a hang over...have I been out late before work with little sleep? Yep! But not wasted. I budget every thing...I budget my fun, food, gas, bills, etc for my check and if I have some left and still have at least $ 200 in the bank, I may get a shirt or get dinner with a friend, but I am broke! I chose to spend more money on good food and nutrition vs waste it on alcohol/clothes.


I may be "mature", but I'm naive at the same time...if that makes sense? And thanks, I really hope it works out too!! I would get lunch with you guys if you lived close, you all are great.

Birth control is definitely a drug.

Not an illegal or mood altering kind. It's a prescription, come on...you know what I mean.

The dude thought I was talking about anti depressants or anxiety meds etc.

Posted by Agentgem24
And thank you guys, that means a lot🙂 yeah see, I stress myself. I buy myself things but I would rather spend more money on healthier food and go out less. I have never been wasted or had a hang over...have I been out late before work with little sleep? Yep! But not wasted. I budget every thing...I budget my fun, food, gas, bills, etc for my check and if I have some left and still have at least $ 200 in the bank, I may get a shirt or get dinner with a friend, but I am broke! I chose to spend more money on good food and nutrition vs waste it on alcohol/clothes.


I may be "mature", but I'm naive at the same time...if that makes sense? And thanks, I really hope it works out too!! I would get lunch with you guys if you lived close, you all are great.

Well, admittedly I am a terrible influence (aqua rising) but honestly honey it sounds like you have a spreadsheet for having fun...
Block out 'FUN' 8.30pm- 10.30pm
I know you have the synesthesia thingamagig but you still.

I feel like hopping on a plane, dragging you out on one of my epic shopping sprees, having a terrible take away dinner then calling up your bf at 3.32am asking him to come pick our drunken asses up as we blew the $ 200 buffer with shots at the nearest bar!

Life is all about balance! If you are wound up too tightly you are only going to snap a thread or two.

Lol Lili, I'm an Aquarius rising too! Well I don't know about that...I would love for you to come out! We could have a lot of fun...but I couldn't afford any of that stuff. I love fun, but kind of hard when you are BROKE. I get paid today...I budgeted my account after rent, all my bills, gas the next few weeks, grocery budget...ahh! I'm left with maaybe $ 200 ~.~ I need to apply for the police department, I would make so much more money! I just heard an advertisement on the radio, I have been approached by some. I have a degree in Law Enforcement, after all. And the Physical test, it's a joke. I had an intense personal training session tonight and I'm about to do it all over tomorrow! I mean...you have to run 1.5 miles in 19 minutes for the test -snickers-. But I think it would be great! Not to mention, I would be going from making maybe $ 20k a year after taxes, to $ 50k.

Trust me though, if I had the money...I would LOVE to go shopping with you! And maaybe I would get drunk with you once, maybe. But not while I'm applying for the police department! Public image is everything, I've never even been drunk ~.~

*Lilli.
*highly tipsy, not fully drunk/wasted though. The kind of tipsy that goes away in an hour with me eating,

Posted by Agentgem24
We are still trying to figure eachother out cancer....and I started acting weird on the new hormones right before I met him :/

I think I really need to switch back after I get the next pack. Depo made me a crazy bitch and distanced a lot of my friends and almost tore my last relationship apart at the 5 month point. I was totally unreasonable up until then and then he put me on a break at 5 months and I freaked out. I got off depo and had withdrawals. Got on a pill that I had been fine with ever since but because of the withdrawals, had to be put in Lexapro for a year to counter act the side effects. I had panic attacks on occasion so I needed Xanax but then Lexapro was needed for a daily mood stabilizer. I took myself off it after a year though and felt totally normal like I was before depo.

I do have anxiety, but I haven't had panic attacks since back then. My stress is at a high though, with everything. My Pisces best friend says I need to chill the hell out. She wants to strangle me at times, yet pat me on the head and hug me at others. Financial stress is one of my worst.

I really think I need to switch pills and MAYBE get back on anxiety meds for a little bit but idk...switching back to b control I used to take symptom free is one thing but turning to pills to fix my mood is another and that's more $ down the drain and something I'm dependent on.

This sounds so much like me. Being on Beta blockers for years (after being on Diazepam and Finlepsyn during childhood). And after so many trials and treatments and clinical theories, I found that the solution is actually more simple, at least in saying it: a good sleep. I know is very difficult to get it especially for people with so much air in the chart (and the geminians with mercury in gemini is even worse), but you have to learn to get it, to discipline your schedule and fall in sleep as early as possible whenever you feel a bit tired; if your Scorp has to sacrifice some good sex for that, then so be it. And also, as Virgos, Geminies worry too much for too little. you have to learn to take it slower.. everything will come into your life at some point. You might want everything at once or fast, and especially independence is that one.
When I was younger, all I dreamed was about becoming financially independent.. and that was the time when my health went down into the toilet; but then I le

..learned to ask for help when the situation required it from my family and even from my bf without going through an intimate moral trial before. we're humans, so don't go too hard on yourself.

Posted by MellyMel909
Prescription drugs are often just as bad or worse for you than illegal drugs 😢

I agree with that fully, especially when it comes about anti-depressants. These will screw up your brain for many years to come, mostly during the old age. People should appeal to them just in extreme cases. I prefer to go through panic attacks again than to damage my intellectual capacities.

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Posted by theie
girl taking medicine to calm down making thread named "how much does your scorpio annoy you"



you dont deserve a scorpio u ugly whore

Just because you lack the balls to be open about your weaknesses doesn't mean you get to pretend like you are perfect.

So you have Scorpio in your chart. You want some fucking applause because your mom popped you out in October or November?

Get the fuck over yourself, douche.

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loved it.

Wow good points, all of you! I think I had read things about the IUD being surgically inserted and needing recovery time, and also I heard bad side effects and not getting periods. Also heard that it was expensive procedure I can't afford.

The sleep thing is true...I'm awful about getting to bed early and sometimes take naps which messes it up. I generally get 4-6 of sleep during the week and make up for it on the weekend.

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Posted by LilliLou
AG; I think part of it is that I've noticed on a couple of threads that you mention your maturity, how you seem older yada yada...

But you are only 24! When I was 24 I was buying all kinds of ridiculous outfits & makeup, going to concerts i couldn't afford then eating 2 minute noodles for dinner, suffering a hangover Thursday to Tuesday, late for work- generally making a mess of my life and loving it!

As you get older *ahem* there is the tendancy to get cynical, harder, shorter with people etc... But don't be in a hurry to get there- make sure you have lots of fun, and dare I say it - act your age 🙂

Lol if she's 24, she was born in 89 during the Capricorn stellium (including Saturn). I think people born in that year miss out on the happily frivolous stage of life. It always seemed that the people my age were much more serious minded than other people would be at their age.

+1

We're probably going to make up for it by being the crazy little old ladies who ride Harley Davidsons and make spectacles of ourselves at Bingo Nights 😄

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YES! When and where?

And I agree with all the mishaps! And geeze, invent something better then a sandwich bag over a guys dick! Science...-.-

^^ cute '89ers! ^^
Never too late to have a little fun... But with that cap influence I might have to write you an instruction guide with appendices and venn diagram 😛

I've changed my diet and worked out more, it def helps.

Not just the cap influence but also me wanting to be a cop and then FBI kind of puts a damper on fun. Having investigators call all my friends and ask about how much I drink or if I party etc...


Have to be careful, as a law official you are held to a much stricter standard of public appearance

Hmph. It's funny how simple life can be.

I'm a Virgo, and my wife's a Scorpio.

We're both very organized, BUT we have conflicting SYSTEMS and PRIORITIES. So... we had to negotiate boundaries and empires to keep the peace. Like: The Garage is Mine; the Master Bedroom is Hers.

Yeah, it's neurotic & crazy, but it works for us.

Posted by Agentgem24
Yeah Taurus and Scorp, pretty good there.

My main positions are: gem sun, mercury and jupiter. Aquarius rising. Libra moon. Cancer venus/mars. Scorpio Midheaven.

His are: Scorpio sun, mars, Midheaven, Aquarius rising, Leo moon, sag mercury, Capricorn venus.

All of our houses minus 2 are the same.

I think we add fairly compatible. I checked like 7 negatives, 18 positives.

LOL

Would it be more advisable to have him pull out every time with the pill? He thought me being on it and him helping pay half meant he could cream pie in me but it's making me nervous. Does it really add that much extra precaution? He def pre cums

My period was a day late (mostly because the switch) and I flipped out

Posted by Neurotoxin
No one has answered the question though...

If birth control pills are negatively affecting your mental and/or physical health, why continue to take them?

to not get pregnant

I'm on the combination, the one with sugar pills at the end....ortho tricyclen lo.

I've never missed a pill, I take it at the same time, and I don't take meds that could mess with the affects (really only 1 does that's an anti biotic if you have tb)

Am I really adding that much more protection if he pulls out every time? Or maybe if he just pulled out the 5 days before my period, and the 1st day after when I'm "ovulating"

You read the part about me being on the pill and using it as needed and directed right?

Just trying to figure out if pulling out makes a difference when I'm already OCD about pill

No nothing is. But if you do it exactly as directed there is very slim possibility you can get pregnant.

I know people that had gotten pregnant on the pill, but most of them didn't take the pill correctly or "said" they did everything correctly but messed up somewhere. It can happen, but so many people do it wrong.

Posted by Agentgem24
I have the patience, I used to baby sit an autistic child.

Elle, I'm not still attached to him. My issue is; that was the longest relationship I was in and it's my only relationship template for what went right and wrong. I need to stop comparing and using it for reference because they are totally different people. The comparison on past relationship experiences, I do this with everything. School, friends, jobs, everything!!

I reference other exes too, just him more because he was obviously the longest...idk why I do this. It's a really bad habit and I do it with many things!!

Probably because a lot of people do it. Even if it is only in their heads. We like to compare because it gives us a standard and makes it easier for us to grasp the situation because the past situation is familiar to us so we hold up this new/unfamiliar situation to the old one so that we don't make the same mistakes.

I've seen a lot of gem/scorp relationships become strained, but in the end it's not about the signs, but in realizing how much you care about him that you are willing to work through the challenges together. Sounds like you do care about him, even if he does annoy you. Heck my aries annoys me, but I still love him.

Scorpio and gemini is often a difficult relationship. Once you guys understand your differences, you will be an unbreakable couple. This relationship tends to be highly passionate and can often be characterized by arguments; Gemini loves a good debate, considering it the epitome of mental stimulation, and that characteristic Gemini flirtatiousness tends to grate on Scorpio??s jealous, possessive nerves. You two need to just sit down and talk things out and sort out your differences. Obviously, you two care a lot about each other. Every time you two argue, unlike geminis, scorpios remember every negative thing. They may forgive, but they never forget. If you ever feel like your scorpio is being too clingy, try to remind him that they're also other people in the world (this often happens a lot). Often when scorpios are in love, they will sacrifice everything for their lover (literally), and make you feel like you are the only girl in the world. That has its advantages and disadvantages. Take him out somewhere with a whole group of friends so he won't be as clingy. Also, DO NOT be afraid to tell him you need space. What most people don't know is that scorpios respect people's privacy when requested because they expect this person to have the same amount of respect for them in return. I think you two should stay together if you ask me 🙂 Take my advice and see how it goes! If everything gradually gets worse, call it quits.

Thanks, good advice🙂

The arguing is opposite for us however. Keep in mind my libra moon and gem mercury, and his Leo moon and Sag mercury. I want equality, and peace...I don't like to fight. He told me he always bickered etc in past relationships but only ones he cares about and he didn't think anything of it, he's fine after a fight and ready to move on. While I'm the one dwelling, focusing on the negatives, and that begins to be all I can see. It goes away, but I'm very analytical.

Also, the jealousy and possessiveness...that's very much me, not him. He's protective, but I have far more rules and jealousy and tend to lean towards double standards. My Scorpio female friend says I am just like her in a relationship, there is nothing wrong with that.

He said he felt like I was distant the past few days but that's just my hormones being out of wack. We have different schedules; he gets upset when I don't want to wake up at 9 am to spend time with him on the weekend, but honestly this is the ONLY time I can sleep and sleep is precious to me. I'm not a morning person, he is. I get up at 6 am for work, sometimes 5. I'm never getting more than 5 hours of sleep a night during the week, generally between 3-5 a night, 4 on average. And that's not solid, I'm constantly waking up. I can't even fall asleep until at least 12, if I can get 6 that's a good night! But it takes me at least an hour or more to get there, and then waking up multiple times.

He doesn't get out until late. So on the weekends, I can stay up til whenever. But if someone tries to give me shit for wanting to sleep in between 12-2pm, I'll get pissy. Yesterday, I slept until 6! Now that's extremely unusual, but I was running on a caloric defeceit and started a rigorous work out schedule where I am with a personal trainer 6 days a week. I'll get used to it, but this was my 1st week not to mention my period etc...trying to explain that to him. You give me shit about my sleep, I will tear you up...😉

But yeah I've just been in a tough spot emotionally. I think hormones are playing a big role and so it's good I'm switching back today! I go through mind sets where I feel I don't care, he's annoying me too much and I'm over it...but then I realize it's all in my head. I even did this with my 4 year relationship constantly for at least a year. Yet this morning when he mentioned possibly getting a drink with his female friend before his cruise after spending time with me, I went livid. Obv

Ok that was stupid, it cut me off.

Anyways, what I was saying was I got mad. He brought up how I go to my friends house who is a personal trainer to train but that's different. Sure we may chat during of a few min after but this is training purposes, this is me getting a service (although it's free) and bettering myself. I'm not going up call him up on a non training day to go get a drink etc.

I know it's innocent on his part and she's been his platonic best friend for awhile and he hasn't seen her in a few weeks and he's going on a 9 day cruise...but I won't see him either for that time. As irrational as it sounds...even though it's innocent, I want to be the last woman he sees before his cruise...not her. He will kiss me and tell me I'm number one and his princess but I still get so jealous. I mean, I haven't even met her. Perhaps I would be more inclined to allow a lunch or drink here and there once I do. But I don't like him meeting up with her at like 1am for a drink before his cruise after he leaves my place, just doesn't sit well with me.

She called him at 3am after we got out of the movie because he was returning her call and I got annoyed too. Because the hour. She serves too so she's up late, but I got annoyed even though he says he was just returning the call and she was at her bfs house.

Posted by Agentgem24
Ok that was stupid, it cut me off.

Anyways, what I was saying was I got mad. He brought up how I go to my friends house who is a personal trainer to train but that's different. Sure we may chat during of a few min after but this is training purposes, this is me getting a service (although it's free) and bettering myself. I'm not going up call him up on a non training day to go get a drink etc.

I know it's innocent on his part and she's been his platonic best friend for awhile and he hasn't seen her in a few weeks and he's going on a 9 day cruise...but I won't see him either for that time. As irrational as it sounds...even though it's innocent, I want to be the last woman he sees before his cruise...not her. He will kiss me and tell me I'm number one and his princess but I still get so jealous. I mean, I haven't even met her. Perhaps I would be more inclined to allow a lunch or drink here and there once I do. But I don't like him meeting up with her at like 1am for a drink before his cruise after he leaves my place, just doesn't sit well with me.

She called him at 3am after we got out of the movie because he was returning her call and I got annoyed too. Because the hour. She serves too so she's up late, but I got annoyed even though he says he was just returning the call and she was at her bfs house.

Now that you have told me about his fire influence, it all does make sense now. Signs influenced by fire signs often thrive on attention and do not do well if their egos are not fed on a regular basis. Since lately, you have been rather annoyed at him (hormones, I totally understand! I act like satan himself on my period lol), he maybe feeling somewhat unwanted by you so he is trying to branch out to this other girl (who sounds pretty desperate to me). Or, he could be 100% oblivious to the fact that this girl may have some secret motive (such as trying to take him from you or something) and just be talking to her as a friend. Him bringing up how you go over to your friend's house is his clingy/suspicious scorpio-ness setting in. Before you take action, scorpios absolutely hate it when their partner distrusts them in anyway. He may get extremely hurt if you accuse him of cheating or flirting with this other girl. I say before you confront him, call up the girl and tell her straight up that you do not feel comfortable or happy that she is calling

I say before you confront him, call up the girl and tell her straight up that you do not feel comfortable or happy that she is calling/trying to take YOUR MAN out without even knowing you. I know you are influenced by libra that does not like to fight, but if you just tell her in a very respectful tone, she may understand. OR you can tell him exactly what you just said here: "I want to be the last woman he sees before his cruise." Best of luck 🙂
*Sorry it cut me off too lol*

Well see the thing is with her, she is actually one of his top best friends and they have always been completely platonic and he said nothing would ever have him see it other ways. He doesn't like her that way. He even helped her get with her bf and told her to stay with him and that he's a keeper. It makes her sad he said when I'm so accusatory towards him when there is no attraction there (like my male room mate) and he only cares for her like a friend. The whole going to get a drink was his idea because he wanted to see her once before he left since he's with his dad for the game, and then me. He's known her way longer than me. I even live with my platonic guy friend and he really likes him.

He was jealous at first with my trainer friend, thought he had a hidden motive for training me for free until I told him he too offered to train him for free a few weeks if he was intersted.

I know it wasnt hidden motives or trying to get me jealous with this girl. I have so many rules and I did say it was ok if he OCCASIONALLY went for lunch or a drink with her, but I don't like the 1am thing.

He told me that she's one of his best friends, she's one of the guys and she's fun to hang out with and get a girls perspective but he is not attracted to her. He says she's good as a friend, but as far as her personality goes and all her issues, she would never work as a romantic partner and he's not intersted in her like that or attracted to her. He looks out for her kinda like a brother, a coach.

My best Taurus male friend/room mate is like my life coach. He helped me get with my bf. he says I'm very attractive but he could never be with him because I'm not his type and would drive him CRAZY...but he does help me out a lot, he looks out for me. That's why when this girl told my bf she may break up with her bf, he talked her out of it because he didn't want her to go back to destructive/slutty mode and thought he was a good guy for her.

Correction; he says it makes her dad when I am accusatory towards her. She does want to meet me and we've been trying but our schedules are conflicting lately. He says she has nothing but nice things to say about me.

They used to hang out all the time before me and her bf was ok with it but since I came along and haven't been ok with it, he respects me and hasn't.

We def agreed on no friends with the opposite sex that are new while in the relationship, only the 2 that that we had prior to eachother.

Mine are my Taurus room mate, other than a room mate and car pooling to save money, we don't really "hang out". My Gemini male friend, he's been with my good Pisces friend for 8 years...they are getting married next month! 90% of the time the 3 of us hang out together. Only difference is if I go over there on occasion since she has opposite schedules as us, and he (like the trainer) offers me a service as in fixing my clothes, hemming etc. I bring us food and he fixes my clothes and we chill for a little bit. I'm just as good a friend with his fianc? as him so she's not put off by it at all.

Maybe I will be ok once I meet this chick, I don't feel she is a threat. Unlike the little girls he told me at his work that like him. But I still have to meet her and don't feel comfortable with them meeting up that late even if I do like her. Lunch at school, them grabbing a drink while I'm at work, that's fine so long as it's not a regular thing...but I have my limits and even innocent, drinks at 1am doesn't cut it

Gemini blab neuro, Gemini blab. Come now, you should know this lol

Triple air sign blab, nothing unusual.

I liked the family guy interpretation