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hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
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Posted by scorpio04
i think he is a psychopath/sociopath. i researched about it. he does bad things without empathy. i told his wife about his flaws but what he does is tell and show his wife that he changed. but from my experience, people like that don't change..it's only a matter of time when he switches back to normal.
it's the strangest thing, where there are actual couples that bad mouth, and the woman/man stays anyway. It's love, blind love?

if she stays with him, you have no chance in hell. because it's her heart you have to win. she may love him with all those flaws.

i mean if you think he won't change, why would you think she would change?

OR
maybe you will be better for her.
i dont know though. Being doormatty has alot of consequences and in the long run you may end up resenting her. Just like it seems the capricorn guy is.

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she's not a prize to me. i love her dearly. that's why i took revenge on her behalf. he cheating without her knowing. i can't stand that because i would never cheat on her...
Are you good looking ? Cool personality etc?? You don't sound very highly emotionally intelligent nor mature.

I know I am being harsh. But she has her own money. What do you have that she needs? How can you seduce her?
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Posted by scorpio04
hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
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Posted by scorpio04
hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
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no that's not what happened. i think she was aware that she is being mistreated, so she has been flirting with me before i learned that the husband is like that... after i learned about her husband, i became serious and pursued her.
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Posted by scorpio04
hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
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Oh no he is a really NICE guy. 😄
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hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
no that's not what happened. i think she was aware that she is being mistreated, so she has been flirting with me before i learned that the husband is like that... after i learned about her husband, i became serious and pursued her.
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Sounds like the beginning of something wonderful.

Srsly though I don't think it's common practice for victims of psychopaths to frivolously engage in that type of behaviour with other men.

Say are you knighting or just looking for ways to justify any missteps that may take place in the future?




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Posted by BlondeAmbition
Srs though shower her with gifts praise and attention ..get the ring off her finger ...and put a new one on....hopefully she got him to sign a ballsy prenup agreement if not you are screwed ...she ain't leaving!
unfortunately she said before that she doesn't believe in prenup, so i think she didn't, but i thought what i'd do is tell her to leave everything to him. she'll have things with me anyways. but the thing is, the husband is preventing us to see and talk. he blocked all my numbers on her phone and even on facebook he blocked me. he is distracting her from me and he got all her family members and friends involved by badmouthing me to them and to her. he is confusing me and her and everyone involved. he is also convincing her to think and feel a certain way. i think that she can't directly counter him because she would look bad to her relatives and friends. sometimes she plays along with him. i never imagined he was like this. he seemed like a good guy when i met him. the only time that she gets the courage to find a way to contact me to be with her is when he does something she doesn't like.
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hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
no that's not what happened. i think she was aware that she is being mistreated, so she has been flirting with me before i learned that the husband is like that... after i learned about her husband, i became serious and pursued her.
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Got it. In that case, it's still wrong.
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hello.
can someone give me advice how to deal with a capricorn man as an enemy and win against him? he showed me that he cheats on his wife so i made a move on his wife to teach him a lesson. he is financially dependent on his wife so he is hanging on to her for dear life. now what he is doing is badmouthing me to her and to her peers and convincing her to stay but i know that he will never change. i think that i can give his wife a better life if she is with me than with him.
Wait am I reading this wrong or are you actually saying you're dragging an innocent woman into this because you want to teach the Capricorn a lesson?
no that's not what happened. i think she was aware that she is being mistreated, so she has been flirting with me before i learned that the husband is like that... after i learned about her husband, i became serious and pursued her.
Sounds like the beginning of something wonderful.

Srsly though I don't think it's common practice for victims of psychopaths to frivolously engage in that type of behaviour with other men.

Say are you knighting or just looking for ways to justify any missteps that may take place in the future?




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may i know what is the common practice of psychopath victims?
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Posted by BlondeAmbition
Srs though shower her with gifts praise and attention ..get the ring off her finger ...and put a new one on....hopefully she got him to sign a ballsy prenup agreement if not you are screwed ...she ain't leaving!
unfortunately she said before that she doesn't believe in prenup, so i think she didn't, but i thought what i'd do is tell her to leave everything to him. she'll have things with me anyways. but the thing is, the husband is preventing us to see and talk. he blocked all my numbers on her phone and even on facebook he blocked me. he is distracting her from me and he got all her family members and friends involved by badmouthing me to them and to her. he is confusing me and her and everyone involved. he is also convincing her to think and feel a certain way. i think that she can't directly counter him because she would look bad to her relatives and friends. sometimes she plays along with him. i never imagined he was like this. he seemed like a good guy when i met him. the only time that she gets the courage to find a way to contact me to be with her is when he does something she doesn't like.
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Ok ok, hold on for one damn minute. You need to move on. I haven't read one inspiring fact about this woman except for your infatuation with her. What is so fabulous about a woman who thinks its ok to flirt and encourage a man because her HUSBAND is an asshole? How awesome is it that YOU have shown your sincere interest but she's too busy trying to keep her image intact as a victim of the asshole husband.

This is either a trainwreck or a telenovella, but either way, steer clear and find you a girl without all the crazy.
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no that's not what happened. i think she was aware that she is being mistreated, so she has been flirting with me before i learned that the husband is like that... after i learned about her husband, i became serious and pursued her.
Sounds like the beginning of something wonderful.

Srsly though I don't think it's common practice for victims of psychopaths to frivolously engage in that type of behaviour with other men.

Say are you knighting or just looking for ways to justify any missteps that may take place in the future?



may i know what is the common practice of psychopath victims?
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For one they don't see themselves as victims.

He'd had to be a pretty crappy psychopath.

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Posted by GetMisted
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Posted by babygurl
Do you know the sign of the woman?
cancer
She's playing you.

/thread
Psychopathee becomes the psychopath



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i see. at least i have an idea of what i'm up against. recently he's actually convincing her to hurt me. she agrees and play along with him when i do/say something that made her feel hurt.
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i see. at least i have an idea of what i'm up against. recently he's actually convincing her to hurt me. she agrees and play along with him when i do/say something that made her feel hurt.
Sounds like they're using you as a ploy to reignite za passion.
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no i don't think so. i think babygurl is right. she's blinding herself. she demands true love from her husband, but her husband can't fake it and give it for very long.. he doesn't go with her. he leaves her by herself on trips abroad, and physically when they're together. he doesn't care for her, he doesn't romance her... etc. the only time that he did things like that was because of me. but i know that he can't keep it up for long and he really doesn't i've seen it. she always tells good stories about him to other people that is not true. i feel sorry for her when she is most of the time proven wrong about the good stories she is saying about her husband, but she almost always brushes it off. with me she doesn't have to pretend because i want to make all of her dreams come true.
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btw, this is a new hell for me. her husband is the worst person that i have encountered thus far with what he is doing. i don't feel like taking revenge. but i want to deal with him properly without being like him because i don't want to be like him. so maybe i should change my question from how to deal with a capricorn man to...has anybody experienced someone badmouthing them to other people behind your back? what happened? and how have you dealt with them?
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Posted by enfant_terrible
You're starting to sound a little like Stihl46 when he gets into one of his Scorpio ruts

"She does this/says that but I know the real her, and what she really feels/thinks is..."
everything that i've said is from my observation. i've always wondered why she always says good things about him and i actually believed her stories about him at the start until i saw that the stories weren't true after all... took me 3 years of observing her and him to come to that conclusion right there.
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i think that she needs to evolved spiritually first.. i'm already a phoenix. i've been through a lot of hell and survived.
A Phoenix has no need to get revenge. ijs
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yes. i don't even hate him. i just want to know how to properly deal with someone like that because he is ruining my name and reputation by telling other people (their friends and her family) things about me that is simply not true. when i do something to please her (i give her roses) i think that he badmouths it to her and other people (to counter it, i guess) making her believe what he wants her and other people to believe about it. i said to someone i don't even know him or even talk to him or spend time with him..where did he get all his crap? i have encountered someone like him before in college but he is the worst that i have encountered thus far.
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i think that she needs to evolved spiritually first.. i'm already a phoenix. i've been through a lot of hell and survived.
A Phoenix has no need to get revenge. ijs
yes. i don't even hate him. i just want to know how to properly deal with someone like that because he is ruining my name and reputation by telling other people (their friends and her family) things about me that is simply not true. when i do something to please her (i give her roses) i think that he badmouths it to her and other people (to counter it, i guess) making her believe what he wants her and other people to believe about it. i said to someone i don't even know him or even talk to him or spend time with him..where did he get all his crap? i have encountered someone like him before in college but he is the worst that i have encountered thus far.
You want him to stop tarnishing your reputation?

How about not interfering with someone else's marriage? That's probably a good place to start.
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i care for her very much. i can't stand her being treated that way. i want to take care of her properly.. i don't know why she married him but it just so happens that she got married to him first. and we met later in her life.
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Posted by Scruffles
Why are you condemning her husband for cheating on her when you are seeking for her to cheat on him with you?
i think that it's different. he cheats because he wants to, for pleasure, as a vice. i want her to be with me because i'm the one who is going to be faithful to her and care for her properly. i want to make all of her dreams come true because i'm the one who truly cares for her and loves her. i want to take care of her and her family as well.. because i consider her family as my family too.
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