It's all in your head.
I can just sense that the Scorpio loves me
It sure is all in your head. I could have written this myself because here you are so SURE about what you feel thinking he feels it, too. He doesn't. Time will prove it.
He said he wasn’t looking for a relationship.
Run, Libra. I swear, just RUN.
Take it from a Libra who dated Scorpios. These two signs are good as friends but lovers? No.
YOU. WILL. LOSE. YOUR. MIND Trying to understand a Scorpio. Just leave them to the Pisces and Capricorn women.
Find yourself a nice fire sign.
P.S. Any person of ANY SIGN who says the bold text above means just that, they are not looking for a relationship. Y'all need to stop fooling yourselves thinking they love you. If they love you, they will lock you down.
Run, Libra. I swear, just RUN.
Take it from a Libra who dated Scorpios. These two signs are good as friends but lovers? No.
YOU. WILL. LOSE. YOUR. MIND Trying to understand a Scorpio. Just leave them to the Pisces and Capricorn women.
Find yourself a nice fire sign.
P.S. Any person of ANY SIGN who says the bold text above means just that, they are not looking for a relationship. Y'all need to stop fooling yourselves thinking they love you. If they love you, they will lock you down.
He’s not at all worried about losing you.
He said he doesn’t want a relationship.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
Unless you’re going to drop your kids off at the fire station, focus on someone who doesn’t want to lose you
He said he doesn’t want a relationship.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
Unless you’re going to drop your kids off at the fire station, focus on someone who doesn’t want to lose you
Posted by DMV
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
He said he ain’t feeling your kids.
This
I just can't imagine wasting time on someone who doesn't want you because you have a kid. I mean I know there are people who don't really want to date single parents and it's fine, you move on and find someone who will accept that part of you.
OP is one of those googly-eyed Libras when in love. A recipe for disaster when you're responsible for kiddos.
The fact he’s not reaching out means
Let it go. Instagram is not a relationship or real communication.
Let it go. Instagram is not a relationship or real communication.
Posted by MareInfame
What would I do? I’d say BYE the second he’d say he’s not into the kids.
I’m at a loss here with all your Cardinal energy. You can’t change his mind when he has already decided (Fixed). But he can open an emotional door to you now because he is CLEAR on the ending of this story. If you didn’t get it, that’s your problem…. And your mess.
You are starting to get emotionally invested, so that’s just more pain for you. He already knows HIS ENDING with you.
I’m just really annoyed that you involved your kids into this… that’s just NOT COOL👎🏼.
Wise words
Nah, it's really me he loves!
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There are so many single dads out there that would understand your situation in a heartbeat more than guys without kids. Why can’t you make yourself fall in love with them instead? Rarely are there single men without children who would step up to a father figure in the name of love. I don’t get when people don’t easily see that? I get keeping your options open as much as possible but you also have to be real with yourself on the reality of things.
*Normally I’m a flighty little Libra bird as soon as I don’t get the attention I need to feel secure in a connection*
Just for future reference, Scorpios don’t usually like that ^^^^
Just for future reference, Scorpios don’t usually like that ^^^^
Posted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by MyStarsShine
*Normally I’m a flighty little Libra bird as soon as I don’t get the attention I need to feel secure in a connection*
Just for future reference, Scorpios don’t usually like that ^^^^
Yes I think I’ve figured that out now! Nothing makes a Scorpio colder than fickleness. I was trying to do better this time around. Actually, I’ve learned a lot about the impulses of my fear-driven ego. Scorpio does cause one to heavily analyze their insecurities. It’s painful but it’s not a bad thingclick to expand
Yes indeed
Venus and Pluto ~
Very different energies
Generally speaking Libra and Scorpio aren’t compatible romantically
Air and water -~- very conflicting
Posted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by HypnotoadPosted by ImperfectStormPosted by HypnotoadPosted by ImperfectStormhe’s not sure if he’s okay that I have children….
Ewe. First of all… who the hell does he think he is?
Second of all… why do you still like him? How would you even feel comfortable considering long term with someone who is not “okay” with you having kids— Huge red flag, and EWE.
From a Scorpios perspective, he does not love you. He enjoys feeding off your energy or whatever it is that you’re providing for him, but he does not love you. When a Scorpio loves you, it’s an all consuming love. He will love ALL of you.. even your children.
Fuck this dude! Accept the situation for what it is and stop deceiving yourself. That’s not just a red flag that’s a whole damn carnival. 🚩🚩🚩
lmao dudes/dudetes are aloud to not be okay with dating someone with children.
No he’s not! 🚫 lol HE’s FIRED 😡 lol and his punk ass knew about her kids beforehand because he met them.. then turned around and acted like he wasn’t cool with it. He’s a bitch and he has to go lol
I said what I said!! 🤷♀️ 🤣
"He backed off once I told him I have kids"
Okey dokey
He backed off, then came back and asked to meet them. Then we saw each other a few times after that and then he went mostly silent. It wasn’t until recently that I asked him why and he said that kids are the issue. So he either played me or he was just really unsure about whether he could handle it. That or he could have handled it if he liked me more but he decided he didn’t… there are a few options hereclick to expand
You also have to be more discerning.
You’re allowed to say NO, you’re not meeting my kids.
Maybe make a list or something about what someone needs to do before they meet your kids.
Nope, I’m not a single parent.
I have zero idea how to navigate that environment.
But I know how to establish boundaries that have kept the riff raft out.
What I’m saying is, what do these guys do to deserve to meet your kids as quickly as you want to introduce them to your kids.
Do you ask your kids if they even want to meet these guys?
I do like another users suggestion to date men who already have kids.
That way they understand your world.
I have zero idea how to navigate that environment.
But I know how to establish boundaries that have kept the riff raft out.
What I’m saying is, what do these guys do to deserve to meet your kids as quickly as you want to introduce them to your kids.
Do you ask your kids if they even want to meet these guys?
I do like another users suggestion to date men who already have kids.
That way they understand your world.
this sounds like a cheesy romance novel from coleen hoover.
Posted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by SassyKiwi
There are so many single dads out there that would understand your situation in a heartbeat more than guys without kids. Why can’t you make yourself fall in love with them instead? Rarely are there single men without children who would step up to a father figure in the name of love. I don’t get when people don’t easily see that? I get keeping your options open as much as possible but you also have to be real with yourself on the reality of things.
I’m totally open for that! For some reason or another I haven’t run into any. Or the ones I know live too far away. I think good dads are very attractive! And I don’t have a daughter so I’d love to meet a guy with a girl that I could share all my hard-learned female wisdom with. Or just do girly things if she’s up for it. I’m sad that I don’t have a daughter to buy dresses for and curl her hair. Instead I have these adorable dirty boys that always rip their pant knees and regularly gang up on me for pillow battles. Not complaining but there’s a huge difference!
I think the problem is that I don’t look like a mom at all and I look much younger than my age and so guys swoop in who wouldn’t be ready for those responsibilities, trying to play as if they could be. Then once they realize what it actually means, they swoop back out, having wasted my time and emotions in the process…click to expand
There’s this distant relative of my mom’s who’s a single mom with two young boys that recently got married to a single dad with one young boy around the same age. According to social media, they’re all over the moon happy with each other and the boys all look like each other’s brother and best friends. It seems like she couldn’t have found a more happier ending. Well you need to do a combination of disclosing you’re a mom subtly as soon as you can as well as not further entertain them if they don’t have any children of their own, because you have to be real with yourself, *you’re* letting them waste your time and emotions. I get not wanting to be identified heavily as just a mom but unfortunately society doesn’t work that way. If I were you, I’d be strict about a criteria, write it out, and manifest it by believing you will be getting exactly that. And just go from there. He will show up in your life when it is time. It’s a lot less sillier and stressful than the alternative of holding out on guys with no kids hoping they fall hard enough for you in order to eventually become a father figure to your kids. There’s no hoping, only taking control of how you want to create your exact future.
Posted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by DMV
Nope, I’m not a single parent.
I have zero idea how to navigate that environment.
But I know how to establish boundaries that have kept the riff raft out.
What I’m saying is, what do these guys do to deserve to meet your kids as quickly as you want to introduce them to your kids.
Do you ask your kids if they even want to meet these guys?
I do like another users suggestion to date men who already have kids.
That way they understand your world.
Ask my kids if they want to meet people? What does that mean? Kind of ridiculous. You obviously think being a mother makes me an alien and kids are aliens too that can’t meet a stranger even once, casually, to play video games. You think it breaks their heart to meet a nice stranger once? Lol this is seriously absurdclick to expand
No, I don’t think you being a mother or your kids are aliens.
I’m going off what you’ve commented.
You seem more upset with me than the Scorpio who said HE DOESNT LIKE YOUR KIDS.
He said that.
Not anyone on DXPNET
He said that to you!
And youre still starry eyed for him.
But wanna catch an attitude with moi because how dare I tell you to vet strange men meeting your kids.
Kids probably don’t even want to meet those guys. How would you know, you yourself said that you never even ask your own kids if they want to meet.
Posted by Tetka_Iz_Daleka
this sounds like a cheesy romance novel from coleen hoover.
Is that a pseudonym for Danielle Steel? 😂
Posted by Enfant-Terrible-IIPosted by Tetka_Iz_Daleka
this sounds like a cheesy romance novel from coleen hoover.
Is that a pseudonym for Danielle Steel? 😂click to expand
hell ya! 😹ohhh those covers ....
Posted by lilyofthevalleyPosted by Hypnotoad
Drop your kids at baby daddys and run away with the Scorpio.
Omg no. Do people honestly believe I’m some bad mom just because I fell for a guy who decided he’s unavailable after I fell for him? This is so unfair to me. I’m a human too, not just a mother. I feel objectified by people using my motherhood to say I shouldn’t have romantic emotions. It’s actually some embedded fragment from the patriarchy that believes women should be nothing but married, and stay married, and humiliates those who are dating. Also, you try being a mom for a decade and a single mom for 6 years then get back to me about what that meansclick to expand
TBH, I would say the same to a man with children chasing a woman who doesn't like his kids. Saying you don't like my kids would tell me you don't like me since my kids would be the most important to me if I had them. I wouldn't even want to talk to him again after he told me that no matter how attractive he was. Also if you introduce your kids to every guy before you get serious with him what do your kids think of all these men they have to meet? Most single mothers only introduce their kids to guys after they've gotten serious and know the guy is going to stick around.
@DMV - I have to tell you how exactly right your advice was about asking the kids if they wanted to meet. I was watching The Today Show this morning on a bit about single parents dating. First piece of advice they gave? Ask the kids if they want to meet the parent's new partner! haha! Just wanted to make your day.
Op wouldn't it be better to date men on the days your ex has the kids? I am also of the opinion like @DMV that it is not wise and even dangerous in many circumstances to expose your kids to rando's.
Yes, he is a rando. Someone you've only know a few weeks/months who can pretend to be someone they are not very easily, especially if their aim is to get close to single mothers to prey on their children.
Obviously that wasn't this guy because he bailed using the excuse of your kids.
I think the fact you chased someone who told you he wasn't looking for a relationship says it all. Getting a hit of attention should NOT make you feel secure in a connection. Time and actions is where it is at. Let the men who want to be with you step up and prove it. Don't chase them on sm, don't invest feelings when they start to withdraw, don't give your heart when all they can offer is "something in between" how vague.
Yes, he is a rando. Someone you've only know a few weeks/months who can pretend to be someone they are not very easily, especially if their aim is to get close to single mothers to prey on their children.
Obviously that wasn't this guy because he bailed using the excuse of your kids.
I think the fact you chased someone who told you he wasn't looking for a relationship says it all. Getting a hit of attention should NOT make you feel secure in a connection. Time and actions is where it is at. Let the men who want to be with you step up and prove it. Don't chase them on sm, don't invest feelings when they start to withdraw, don't give your heart when all they can offer is "something in between" how vague.
Posted by geminiflyby
@DMV - I have to tell you how exactly right your advice was about asking the kids if they wanted to meet. I was watching The Today Show this morning on a bit about single parents dating. First piece of advice they gave? Ask the kids if they want to meet the parent's new partner! haha! Just wanted to make your day.
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