I completely give up !!!! (Page 2)

gslove

I understand the shock of all this and how disturbing this could be for you.

I'm trying to understand the bf in 4 months thing? Friendship was not an option?

Did you and him ever have a friendship?

Did you both agree to this bf/gf thing...4 months is such a short time to claim a relationship.

Everyone has so much sympathy and so sorry for your siutation but at the same time other people on dxp has gotten the beat down for being in a relationship so soon with a person and when the person do some stupid shit like this the girl get the beat down for putting so much trust in a man so soon and being in a relationship after knowing a person for 4 months.

So come on people what is your honest opinion. Why treat gslove so different.

There is an excuse for his actions and you will probably never know why he did or was doing what he was doing only he knows that.

Know that the cat is out the bag, you get your revenge you feel good about how you have hurt him and bruised his ego, he will just move on to the next person.

But what about you are you gong to be able to move on from this?

Have you learned anything from this experinece, other than not trusting men for a long long time.

I think the next time you meet a man build a solid friendship before you jump into a relationship.

P-Angel,

His silence tells me everything. Do you really think if he wasn't guilty that he would'nt have immediately called me up and said what the hell are you talking about— No, he hasn't contacted me yet because he is GUILTY and he is frantically trying to figure a way out of this mess and some sort of an excuse and lies that could possibly make some sense. On one hand he is trying to find an alibi and on the other hand he is trying to figure out if he should just come clean with it all. He isn't even clear in his head of why he has done these things yet. Believe me he is going through quite a process right now and I don't expect to hear from him for a while.

Scorpianlady, Have you at all taken the time to even read this thread—

"I could get an STD for gods sake if he is screwing every internet bimbo out there. I have already made an appointment to get tested because I'm so disgusted of what he could have done to me. Thank God that he at least never came inside me because of his problems with having an orgasm."




********* GASPS ***************


You know you aren't insinuating that you were laying with this man without it being wrapped up?

You know you aren't insinuating that you were laying with this man without it being wrapped up?

Yes, because stupid me believed him when we showed each other our clean bill of health from our Doctors and he said that he had no intentions of dating anyone else while we saw where this relationship would go. I believe that he had good intentions in the beginning. Now I know why he insisted on us both getting tested. I thought it was because he just wanted to stop using the condoms.

Yea I have and I am stuck on the 4 months

I have been through so much with men, but the one thing I have learned is STOP JUMPING INTO RELATIONSHIP SO SOON!!!!!!

I know you will never really know a person but damn there is know way you can know a person in 4 months and want to be ina relationship. I am sorry but I can't get pass this....this is really tripping me out...

And gslove I just want know why did you get in a relationship with him so soon. You are a very intellegent women, what happened, to make you claim him as your bf, and you don't have to tell me cause it is really none of my business....just dissect the last 4 months with him so that you can have a clear understand of what you did wrong.

I am not taking his side nor am I trying to beat you down. I just see a differeint point of view. I have blamed men, for my sadness and have played the victim in past relationships but the one thing I do know is that if I sit back and think about what I did wrong it helps me to not make the same mistake twice.

I am sorry that it happened to you I truly am I don't think you should plot revenged, I think you should just hold your head up take time to get over it, but not to much, I think you should delete this tread 🙂 so that you won't contantly be reminded of what has happen to you. Move On.

Just for you flip flop:

What you lookin' at? You all a bunch of fuckin' assholes. You know why? You don't have the guts to be what you wanna be? You need people like me. You need people like me so you can point your fuckin' fingers and say, "That's the bad guy." So... what that make you? Good? You're not good. You just know how to hide, how to lie. Me, I don't have that problem. Me, I always tell the truth. Even when I lie. So say good night to the bad guy! Come on. The last time you gonna see a bad guy like this again, let me tell you. Come on. Make way for the bad guy. There's a bad guy comin' through! Better get outta his way!

SL, there is no way of knowing someone after 10 years either. You hear of this kind of stuff happening all the time with people who have been married for years. Time makes no guarantees. As someone else on this board said, sometimes you just have to trust a little. I wasn't engaged to the guy for God's sake. We weren't planning our retirement together. I wasn't taking anything too fast. There is nothing wrong with not seeing other people while you are seeing where a relationship is going to go. That was our agreement. We were going at a nice normal pace. If you are saying that it is O.K. what he was doing because we had only been together for 4 months and I had no claims, i'm sorry but that is total bullshit. It's easy to look back now and say what I should have and shouldn't have done. Besides not choosing to have sex with him though I don't really know what else I could have done differently.

You know what gslove, I am not going to get into a useless debate with you over your issue, because dispite what I say or anyone else you have your own opinion and that's all that counts. Your stubborness and determination will soon surface, and no matter what anyone says what ever you choose to do you will do it I just hope you don't do something you might regret.

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WTF?

"no matter what anyone says what ever you choose to do you will do it I just hope you don't do something you might regret."

Look out people! She's got a bomb! 🙂

LOL at CanTaur

She's a scropio I can just imagine what is going through her right know.

Calm before the storm.

Ruh roh....

Flip flop....I forgot my smiley on that post...just more sarcasm dear, no need to get to deep on me 🙂

LOL!!! Scorpian Lady, what exactly is it that you think I'm going to do?? This is why I don't think you actually read the whole thread because if you did you would know that the whole revenge thing was just something that we were all joking around about. That letter that I sent him to break up with him is the only contact I'm planning on having with him. Can't you just let me wallow in my emotions of self pity for one freaking day without jumping all over my ass— Maybe you have all the answers and you are Superwoman who can do no wrong, but most of us are human and make mistakes. If I take him back and then continue to whine about him on here and let him abuse me some more than maybe I could understand and deserve this critisism.

Can I give you his address so you know where to drop the bomb SSP— LOL!!!

"Can I give you his address so you know where to drop the bomb SSP— LOL!!!"

Just refer him here for counseling, we'll have him fixed right up.

"Oh goodness gracious! I too did forget my very condescending, loving sarcastic, smiley on my post too."

Condescending? Never, just letting you know that everything will be fine dear 😉

How about some torture chamber counseling. That will fix him right up. LOL!!!

Uh Oh, "I'm Just kidding" Scorpianlady, you don't need to call the police or anything. Laughter at his expense is very healing for me that's all. 😉

"And then of course he'll also have the opportunity to exchange pix with the self-proclaimed single dxp "hotties" "

And that is where the real fun will begin, I'll pull this one from the funny pic thread so everyone knows what page we're on when the games begin 😉

Thank you so much Evan!! I have to say that I'm surprised at the support I'm getting from the DXP men. I was expecting a lot of flack from you guys. Thank you so much, you have restored my faith in men a bit. *gslove bows to the DXP Men* I still want to flog all of you though, but this will pass and I will love all of you again tommorow I promise. 😉

"LOL!!! Scorpian Lady, what exactly is it that you think I'm going to do??"

LMAO, I don't know, hahaha but I have this strange feeling that you are going to sting him probably not an obvious sting but one that he probably never saw coming other than the breakup email. You know this is not over.

"Can't you just let me wallow in my emotions of self pity for one freaking day without jumping all over my ass—"

Ok so how long are you going to wallow in it? As along as people continue to respond to this thread you will continue to wallow in self pity, I say DELETE IT.

"Maybe you have all the answers and you are Superwoman who can do no wrong, but most of us are human and make mistakes."

I am not superwomen and I don't want to try to be superwomen, I have done wrong plenty of times and I continue to do thing wrong, but I learn from it and move up, is all I am saying to you.

"If I take him back and then continue to whine about him on here and let him abuse me some more than maybe I could understand and deserve this critisism."

Well know if you take him back yes that is your decision and something that you have to live with and please don't come on the boards and whine about it because you know if you do take him back and DXP finds out they will never let you live it down, you will have to delete your account and come back as another person. 🙂


One last advise before I leave to go home. Scorpionlady is the correct spelling 🙂


Hugs and Kisses to you gslove

OH Elena, We would make quite the flogging team for sure!!

2 hot women with leather and whips....we just figured out a way to beat the recession. LOL!!

"I could do with the cash,when time should I call round —"

Shh!! blingy you weren't supposed to blow my cover of how I got your sympathy.

"sounds just like an asshole from hell.."

Do they come from any other places, like heaven? Just curious about the geographical statistics 🙂

"I bet you every guy who read that sentence was like (drool) can i watch?"

Elena with her gorgeous, sexy, dark and exotic look and me with my light hair blue eyed girl next door covergirl look. We have all the fetishs covered and are the perfect combo. Anybody want to be our manager??

"2. flogging When a man takes his penis after he has already ejaculated and brutally attacks a womans face after she has passed out or while she is sleeping. A popular move in England where it is depicted in several adult films.
I saw this movie on the internet where a guy jizzumed in a girls hair and started flogging her so hard she got a black eye "

Otherwise known as a mushroom tattoo.

No wow!!! That's a completely different definition of what my knowledge of what flogging is, but if that's the case I guess we could put on a strap-on and slap the men when they fall asleep. LOL!!!

"Well, actually SS and I already did that, so you guys need a new scene"

Oh C'mon FuckinA. We can all be a team. There are plenty of men who need a good flogging. There are plenty to go around for all of us to get rich!! LOL!!!

I don't get it either, but A lot of men love it!! And a lot of women I guess too.

once upon a time i knew a scorpio dude who got really turned on by the thought of a woman with an actual dick...not a strap on, but a dick...is that twisted or what? and no i'm not kidding.

i was like wtf are you talking about? so he showed me this disgusting pic he had on his comp...that was my cue to leave

"You notice not many men have been responding... 2 guesses as to why ;D"

Because we usually carry these types of convos and it's refreshing to hear the ladies chat about it instead...that and it's close to my nap time.

Well I wouldn't do it, but if someone told me that the only way that I could survive was to get into the sex industry I would definitely be a dominatrix. Totally in control and you don't have to touch anyone if you don't want to and they will still pay you.

mspisces, not saying you're into it or anything, but do you by any chance understand the appeal?? because it is COMPLETELY lost on me

and yeah shakaboom, either that or transvestites whose operations are not yet complete

"Oh man wheelz...that's just wrong...actually...it's just gay"

i know!! CLOSET HOMO, CLOSET HOMO was going thru my head

I am having such a good time laughing at you guys!! What the hell was it that I was upset about— I don't even remember now.

I just booked a trip to Hawaii to drown my sorrows and regenerate in style . Woo Hoo!!!!

"That's what a lot of Scorpio men are! Closet homos...hence the reason I wouldn't mess with any of them...not to mention they don't turn me on, but subconsciously that maybe just another reason why."

ahhahahahahaha! priceless.

I can't believe I'm actually going to say this after what I've been through today, but stop picking on our DXP boys. No wonder they hate us.

i do have to disagree about them not being sexy...cause unfortunately they do turn me on...but there is a line of freakaleek that i am not willing to cross

Oh man...well girl actually, anyway...you ladies will have to try much harder to shock me or disgust me. I've been exposed to pics of guys getting fucked by their dogs and women sucking horses off...I don't think I can get any more scarred.

Anyhow, this actually brings up a point to discuss; women (the ones I know anyway) love to suck cock and at it's core this act is a cock in a mouth and nothing more, so why exactly is society so aghast when the mouth it's in is attached to a male?

I know the answer why, just looking to see if anyone else does.

it's because they're all innately perverted, dc. all they think about is sex, it's the way of the universe.

"Because I nearly broke my back trying........."

lol!

ssp, umm, because it's the gheyz0rz

Hell FuckinA!! Too bad you can't get paid for that. You would be rich for sure. LOL!!

i wonder if men or women suck/blow better. my guess would be men, since they are already properly equipped, but then again, women are probably a little gentler for the most part

Newsflash!! 99 percent of men who want to IM are just looking for sex.

See, if you don't like a certain sex genre or fetish that's fine and normal but to judge I think is rather narrow-minded, I just don't care, it doesn't affect me. A woman eating another woman out is considered to be somewhat acceptable in today's society and let's not forget the attention whores at the bars and clubs that kiss each other, a double standard for sure. I'd be pissed if I was gay.

nothing wrong with a little man love, ssp. take it easy.

"Because I nearly broke my back trying........."

Haha, couldn't resist....

shakaboom, then what was all this talk about making babies? hmmmmmmm?


"Some want a Hoover and some like it more playful, slow, and sensual...some want you to practically gag while others are more gentle."

you know what i hate? the head pushers.