I completely give up !!!! (Page 4)

how are you holding up otherwise? i feel really bad about the situation. i hope you'll work out the issue and realize it's not you and you can go over it and trust the next man

Tell me about it. I can't believe that I never even had a suspician. Man he was good!! He was always so open about looking at his e-mail while I was sitting there and always answering his phone when it rang. Never leaving the room to take a call. Never tried to hide a thing. letting me go on his computer. No signs of the classic cheater. I always felt anxiety but it was never that I thought he was doing stuff like that it was more like something just didn't feel right.

he probably thought that you'd never look into history or something. can't trust the "classic signs" of cheating/not cheating/and anything else because ppl learn what "not to do" to get caught. that's why whatever it is and as much as i stress out, over analyze and get anxiety over things i try not to let myself look for the "signs".

I'm fine. My ego is a bit bruised and I'm now questioning my sense of character and how I could have been so fooled by him, but I wasn't in love with him and there were so many other issues. I was just in love with the idea of being in love because it has been so long since I have been in a relationship. I was trying so hard to make it work because I THOUGHT he was such a great guy. Trust and honesty is the most important thing to me in a relationship and I really trusted him and that was why I was trying so hard to fit a square peg into a round hole, but after I found out what he was doing and the trust was gone, any feelings I had just faded. Even my friends think that I was just settling with him and that I didn't act like they have seen me in the past when I was in love.

got it. again, i'm sorry you had to go through that. as long as you're not broken hearted then it's fine. you'll go over the ego issues eventually. i guess you have to experience a jerk in your life to appreciate a nice guy when he'll come along. i'm all for a nice guy. don't like guys who are too cool. look at the bright side better sooner then later when you'd get more attached to him and maybe he'd hurt more emotionally and give you a std

I know!! I can't even imagine how women must feel that have been with someone for 10 or 20 years and find out this kind of stuff about their husbands. It's an odd feeling that you don't really know someone at all.

yep, knowing about "his sign" doesn't help much🙂 honestly, i think scoprs are some of the biggest slut sings around. i've been involved with few before (and they all were so different and didn't fit into "typical scorp profile" and they all cheated on their gf and wives. my friend's daughter is a scorp and she f's around like crazy. so, "the faithful scorp" thing is just a myth. depends on a person not the sign that much.

LMAO Aries, you DO know that GS is a Scorp right? hahaha 🙂

"WHAT IN THE HELL WAS THAT Scorpioseekspisces!?!?!?!"

Don't tell me you're a size queen Ashley. If you don't understand that statement...well you are young yet, Papi might teach you a thing or two if you ask nicely 😉

LOL!! Yes, I am a scorp and I am VERY loyal and not promiscuous at all. I have went years without sex before. I can't do it with just anyone.

"LOL....~wonders if SSP knows he has a stinger, and if he knows how to use it~"

I'd bet money that's not all you've been wondering about, that's the second time you've been wondering since you said you had no interest, lol. 🙂

Keep telling yourself that until you believe it🙂

Wow! i was on the first two pages when this dicussion started only to return and its 27 pages. I need a summary...lol!

as i said before the faithfulness has nothing to do with signs. am an aries and ppl say that aries cheat but i don't. i'd rather go without then sleep around. and yes, the scorps men i mentioned above had extra marital affairs and slept around

Psychological algebra explained:

X (FA replies without a LOL or smiley and steadfastly defends statement in a serious tone) + Y (another reply 3 minutes later trying to deflect the innuendo from herself) = Z (flustered)

🙂🙂🙂

I am sorry to hear about your whole situation GS.... This crappy experience will only make you wiser & stronger...once you get past the Hate & Hurt phase. Chin up, You can do better & will be blessed with better.

Thanks Juicy, I'm already feeling much better. :-)

The evidence presented has been all fact based:

You made your 'stinger' post only after Ashley referenced my self-deprecating post, the post that you are attempting to say inspired your words was made well earlier in the day. Naturally you will say that you were busy and hadn't even seen the response until later in the day, etc, etc, etc. We could go through and look at your other posts on dxp in that time period, but we all know the truth so I won't bother, the proof is there though.

When am3 came on late Thursday night she made some comments that I found quite funny, but you conspicuously avoided any retort or even denial...this is very out of character for you as you are known for harboring such disdain for Scorpios and surely couldn't stand for one second the notion that she was putting forth.

Furthermore, you have now made reference to my intelligence, reputation and caliber and mock disappointment in me. Let's break this down shall we?

When was the last time on dxp that you admitted to the intelligence of a Scorpio? My reputation; you've been intrigued enough to research me on dxp, which also means that you know full well whether or not I know how to use my stinger. Being disappointed in me indicates that you must hold me in high regard to be able to become disappointed.

Now the people on dxp that have followed this thread that know you already recognize all of this, so while you will reply with some reasoning that you think will exonerate you, it really is too late. And even if the evidence were purely circumstantial, many a felon has been convicted on circumstantial evidence alone.

Game, set, match. Booyah! 🙂LOL

It took you 2 minutes to respond initially and then another 11 minutes to unfluster yourself and attempt to refute my post. The rapidity with which you respond to new posts lends serious doubts to you missing the content of anyone's posts, especially when you did respond to certain parts of the posts in question.

I'd like to say nice try, but I won't blow smoke up your ass 🙂

I think an earlier poster in the thread nailed it simply when she said "hubris"

Oh look, someone seconded am3's observations, lmao.

And now she gets angry at being exposed, lol. Too funny and predictable.

I told you a long time ago that it's a game, you just didn't realize which one was being played.

lmao still, the flurry of posts in defending yourself is even better than I had expected.

can't we all get along 😉

Arianlatay!! I'm taking it one step further. I have been wracking my brain for a book to write and I think I just found it. I have already outlined exactly how I am going to write it.

The fact that you wanted a fun, lighthearted conversation (which is all it is to me anyway) with a Scorpio; the sign you so vehemently despise, was the entire point of this little exercise. The fact that you didn't realize it until it was too late has you in an uproar. Icing on the cake for me, as I thought you'd figure it out much sooner than this, guess I gave you too much credit.

Oh well, unlike you I can say that I enjoyed the banter and have no hard feelings with your attempts to draw my ire. Have a nice day 🙂

You got it FuckinA. I'm going to devote a whole chapter just to you. :-)